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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are you bombarded with messages all the time or is it normally when you are just online or if you are a new member

just curious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bombarded

Use my filters wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im online, when I post a new pic, if im in chat or active in the forums. Sometimes just for no reason.

I find it weirder when my inbox is quiet, Ive never noticed a pattern for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bombarded at all because every damn one of my filters are up.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm never bombarded because my no pics policy works as a deterrent

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

when i don't have filters on i can be, especially late at night when all the wankers are on and want sex chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came online to 82 messages today after not having been on for around eight hours.

The only thing that changes due to my activity on here is my page views and the fabs on my pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so without the filters on its just constant x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"so without the filters on its just constant x"

i do have age filters on and shrink them if the messages get too much. so even with filterson you can get a lot. think i shrank them down to 38-41 yrs last time they were open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so without the filters on its just constant x"

I have filters on and still get a lot of messages.

I think that a lot of it depends on the pictures to be honest. Not to sound sexist in any way but men can be dogs -

when they see something they want, it's like a toy they are determined to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have filters and most of messages are whilst I'm online x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so without the filters on its just constant x

I have filters on and still get a lot of messages.

I think that a lot of it depends on the pictures to be honest. Not to sound sexist in any way but men can be dogs -

when they see something they want, it's like a toy they are determined to play with."

Woof....

I mean err....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nah, I'm not bombarded. I filter up when I want to.

Regardless of my activity on here or my photos displayed, I tend not to get bombarded.

I did get a small tidal wave of messages after someone was bitching about me. That was exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bombarded at all in Norwich, more so if I change my location

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"are you bombarded with messages all the time or is it normally when you are just online or if you are a new member

just curious x"

Not bombarded at all... wonder what's wrong with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a fool or someone loving the attention would leave their filters open to receive so many messages they can't cope with them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I'm not bombarded. I filter up when I want to.

Regardless of my activity on here or my photos displayed, I tend not to get bombarded.

I did get a small tidal wave of messages after someone was bitching about me. That was exciting."

You deserve it you husband stealer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not bombarded at all in Norwich, more so if I change my location"

I told you to move closer to me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nah, I'm not bombarded. I filter up when I want to.

Regardless of my activity on here or my photos displayed, I tend not to get bombarded.

I did get a small tidal wave of messages after someone was bitching about me. That was exciting.

You deserve it you husband stealer! "

I feel like such a boss being Lib's side chick. I'm going to miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so without the filters on its just constant x

I have filters on and still get a lot of messages.

I think that a lot of it depends on the pictures to be honest. Not to sound sexist in any way but men can be dogs -

when they see something they want, it's like a toy they are determined to play with.

Woof....

I mean err...."

Haha!!! Is someone panting away there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thinking about it I also don't see it as a problem or that im being "bombarded".

Yes I get a fair few messages but the people who send them don't know how many I already have. The word suggests its a deliberate effort to fill someones inbox.

My filters are set to the age range and type of person Id like to meet so im happy to receive messages from people fitting those as long as they are polite and respectful and understand im under no obligation to reply.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No not really,but then I'n old and not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other "

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out"

My filters don't keep everyone out, just the ones I'm unlikely to be interested in reading a message from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out"

If I take my filters off and open my age range I get messages through the night, and loads during the day, if I'm on site. More in the evenings and weekends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I'm not bombarded. I filter up when I want to.

Regardless of my activity on here or my photos displayed, I tend not to get bombarded.

I did get a small tidal wave of messages after someone was bitching about me. That was exciting.

You deserve it you husband stealer!

I feel like such a boss being Lib's side chick. I'm going to miss it."

I'm waiting for the divorce papers

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

None of the above.

Filters, Baby!!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I used to be 'bombarded' when I first joined until I learned how to use filters. Now they're quite tight I don't get as many messages. I get more when I've put a pic on or updated my status. Usually I get a few as soon as I log on, like they're waiting to pounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out

If I take my filters off and open my age range I get messages through the night, and loads during the day, if I'm on site. More in the evenings and weekends. "

I never take my filters off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you bombarded with messages all the time or is it normally when you are just online or if you are a new member

just curious x"

Nope

Blocked everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out

If I take my filters off and open my age range I get messages through the night, and loads during the day, if I'm on site. More in the evenings and weekends.

I never take my filters off "

I unblock men when I want to be contacted; I don't do the searching, it gives me a headache. I still use the filters and age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time, day and night regardless of whether I'm online.

The volume is always vast and peaks when I'm in a forum and there's a topic to message each other

I was beginning to think that I am the only one, everyone else is just talking about their filters keeping everyone out

If I take my filters off and open my age range I get messages through the night, and loads during the day, if I'm on site. More in the evenings and weekends.

I never take my filters off

I unblock men when I want to be contacted; I don't do the searching, it gives me a headache. I still use the filters and age range. "

Oh god searching is how you get heavily overwhelmed haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prob average about 3 messages an hr n I have no filters up, doesn't mean I'm gonna reply to any of them tho.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really use filters (bar the fact I think I set an age one). I get a constant stream of messages - it will go up a little when I am online, particularly if online evening/night but the stream or trickle is constant regardless. It's not really a bombardment but I always have messages. Thing is I tend to only interact with forum people about specific things, so my rule of thumb is simply to delete en masse. I scan the message/avatar as I go through deleting, without opening the full message, and occasionally open if something catches my eye of interest - this may be either positive or negative. I do answer some. I can be a little perverse at times in answering some where I get a message such as "Blah blah Spanish girl" or "Blah blah Jewish girl" which happens an incredible amount. I correct them saying I am neither Spanish or Jewish - merely because I find fascinating that someone would tell and not ask. Or I may answer if I get the frequent "You are not shy" (I point out in my profile that I am shy), and I like to thank them for exposing me as a liar, and that I really appreciate that. I'm wittering and I've forgotten the OP - yes the constant messages is constant and there are fractional peaks when online at certain times, or when you've posted in the forum or when you've posted a new pic. If it felt unmanageable or if I felt that I had to reply to all then I'd filter up tighter. However, I enjoy some of the crasser emails for comedy value so its all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**it's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**it's "

Oh my god that Domo emoji!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**it's

Oh my god that Domo emoji! "

You're welcome! *waves hello by the way*

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