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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me about the things that infuriate you but there is no reason for them to do so.

Mine is someone 'helping ' me to reverse my car using various hand features and noises, when ive not asked them to It drives me INSANE and yet they are only trying to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well meaning people helping me when I am not struggling with something, and then having to start again because they have inadvertently messed it all up. I know the had the best intentions... so I have to smile and keep calm and not scream at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well meaning people helping me when I am not struggling with something, and then having to start again because they have inadvertently messed it all up. I know the had the best intentions... so I have to smile and keep calm and not scream at them "

Yes to this too . . . . I am a narky mare !

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Being tapped to get my attention, I can't stand it. I'm a tactile person and don't shy away from contact with others, but this just instantly makes me irritable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people talk to me while I'm on the phone to someone else. Winds me up

Or yes, when someone butts in to try and help me when I didn't ask or need it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

When someone is a passenger in my car and they give me directions when I know where I'm going! It happened last night and I really had to bite my tongue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being tapped to get my attention, I can't stand it. I'm a tactile person and don't shy away from contact with others, but this just instantly makes me irritable "

Oh my god! Me too

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"When people talk to me while I'm on the phone to someone else. Winds me up

Or yes, when someone butts in to try and help me when I didn't ask or need it"

My kids will have busied themselves for an age doing their own thing, as soon as I'm on the phone they materialise with some urgent need

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people talk to me while I'm on the phone to someone else. Winds me up

Or yes, when someone butts in to try and help me when I didn't ask or need it

My kids will have busied themselves for an age doing their own thing, as soon as I'm on the phone they materialise with some urgent need "

That still happens in my house and mine are adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being tapped to get my attention, I can't stand it. I'm a tactile person and don't shy away from contact with others, but this just instantly makes me irritable "

That's the only way anyone can attract my attention, unless they wave their hands in front of my face, as I shut off the auditory channel when I'm engrossed in what I doing. Tapping me shocks the kinaesthetic channel into emerging from my 'trance like' state.

I learned to shut it off so I could concentrate in otherwise distracting environments. Anyone who tries to get my attention by calling me, unless they start bawling at me, is likely to need to be very patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being tapped to get my attention, I can't stand it. I'm a tactile person and don't shy away from contact with others, but this just instantly makes me irritable

That's the only way anyone can attract my attention, unless they wave their hands in front of my face, as I shut off the auditory channel when I'm engrossed in what I doing. Tapping me shocks the kinaesthetic channel into emerging from my 'trance like' state.

I learned to shut it off so I could concentrate in otherwise distracting environments. Anyone who tries to get my attention by calling me, unless they start bawling at me, is likely to need to be very patient. "

Oh and bawling at me annoys me as all they need to is tap me on the shoulder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is a passenger in my car and they give me directions when I know where I'm going! It happened last night and I really had to bite my tongue!"

Any form of back seat or passenger seat driving ticks me off

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Trying to serve customers at work who are on their phone and hold their finger up telling you in a minute. Your the one who stood in the queue knowing you were going to be served. Ring them back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being tapped to get my attention, I can't stand it. I'm a tactile person and don't shy away from contact with others, but this just instantly makes me irritable

That's the only way anyone can attract my attention, unless they wave their hands in front of my face, as I shut off the auditory channel when I'm engrossed in what I doing. Tapping me shocks the kinaesthetic channel into emerging from my 'trance like' state.

I learned to shut it off so I could concentrate in otherwise distracting environments. Anyone who tries to get my attention by calling me, unless they start bawling at me, is likely to need to be very patient.

Oh and bawling at me annoys me as all they need to is tap me on the shoulder "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to serve customers at work who are on their phone and hold their finger up telling you in a minute. Your the one who stood in the queue knowing you were going to be served. Ring them back "

To be fair that's not an irrational annoyance, that's bloody rude!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Trying to serve customers at work who are on their phone and hold their finger up telling you in a minute. Your the one who stood in the queue knowing you were going to be served. Ring them back

To be fair that's not an irrational annoyance, that's bloody rude!"

I feel irrational by things i want to do

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

People walking slowly in front of me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum (god love her) telling me every day I should "do this" and "do that". She has my best intentions at heart and is worried about me but it's getting to the point where I want to scream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well meaning people helping me when I am not struggling with something, and then having to start again because they have inadvertently messed it all up. I know the had the best intentions... so I have to smile and keep calm and not scream at them "

Oh god this is so me, I have my way of doing things and get a bit OCD in that way. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that truly irks me is people who specifically ask me for my advise but then because they don't like what I'm telling them... They start arguing about it?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People.

People I don't know.

People I do know.

People on the telly.

People driving cars.

People n the supermarket.

People in the street.

People.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others interfering in the kitchen while I'm cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me, but someone I know in a wheelchair gets annoyed by people starting to push him without asking, and I don't blame him.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Those 'resealable' packets of food (pasta, raisins etc) which you can never open anyway without ripping the whole bag open and the sticker that's supposed to seal it is never sticky. Makes me completely disproportionately furious and I want to hurl the thing at the head of the Tesco customer services person and demand my money back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is a passenger in my car and they give me directions when I know where I'm going! It happened last night and I really had to bite my tongue!"

Exactly, better if they fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people sniffle

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Others interfering in the kitchen while I'm cooking "

Yes!!! If I want any help, believe me, I'll shout. If not - fuck off!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not me, but someone I know in a wheelchair gets annoyed by people starting to push him without asking, and I don't blame him."

Again, this one isn't irrational and I don't blame him either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People.

People I don't know.

People I do know.

People on the telly.

People driving cars.

People n the supermarket.

People in the street.

People."

This is me but replace the word 'people' with 'children'

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"When people sniffle "

Oh I bloody hate sniffers

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"When people talk to me while I'm on the phone to someone else. Winds me up

Or yes, when someone butts in to try and help me when I didn't ask or need it

My kids will have busied themselves for an age doing their own thing, as soon as I'm on the phone they materialise with some urgent need "

You can almost guarantee this. Twice just now during a very important call in fact.

Also, they like to shout things...

Mum just farted being a favourite

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"When people sniffle "

I'd forgotten about that one. I used to work with a woman who used to sniff every 20 or so seconds whether she had a cold or not. It really irritated me, I had to move offices to get away from her, only to end up next to a guy with bo who slurped his coffee

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

People in the packed tube wearing puffer jackets/woolen jumpers/thick coats buttoned up when I'm Standing there in a tshirt feeling suffocated. How are they not boiling?!?!?! I feel overheated just looking at them!! Argh argh grrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about the things that infuriate you but there is no reason for them to do so.

Mine is someone 'helping ' me to reverse my car using various hand features and noises, when ive not asked them to It drives me INSANE and yet they are only trying to help.

"
my is someone blowing their nose with a tissue and putting it on the table in between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Others interfering in the kitchen while I'm cooking

Yes!!! If I want any help, believe me, I'll shout. If not - fuck off!! "

When they walk in to the kitchen and saunter up to the pot and pick up a spoon and stir the contents..... Oh the incandescent rage that just wants to erupt out of me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who try and push in front of me (or others) in a queue. I can feel my hackles rising now.....

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"P" plates on cars wtf if you haven't got the confidence to drive with out screaming it without them then you shouldnt be on the road

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in the great outdoors or on the beach who have to come and sit close to you despite there being masses of free space.

I came here to get peace and quiet. Go back to the city if you're scared

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

My Cleaner. Lovely lady but I have an irrational momentary dislike when I see her.

No matter where she is the moment I pick up my phone she appears as if by some sort of annoying mischief magic and starts hoovering by my ear.

It's a battle of wits that she wins all the time.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Going to the supermarket to find the wines and beers are at the furthest end. You search the shelves for half and hour after your hike for a bottle of plonk that you have no idea if it'll taste good or not and end up giving up, getting pizza and crisps instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" People in the great outdoors or on the beach who have to come and sit close to you despite there being masses of free space.

I came here to get peace and quiet. Go back to the city if you're scared "
had this today on nudist beach me and lady I was with a really pervy guy come and sat right next to us

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

"

Oh yes! Not the sharers! Especially "shall we share a dessert?" No! If I want dessert I want the whole thing!

As an extension to biting the fork, people who chew really soft food (like ice cream ) and you can hear their teeth clack together. An ex and his dad both used to do it and it made me feel very stabby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh people who dribble when eating ice cream god

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

Oh yes! Not the sharers! Especially "shall we share a dessert?" No! If I want dessert I want the whole thing!

As an extension to biting the fork, people who chew really soft food (like ice cream ) and you can hear their teeth clack together. An ex and his dad both used to do it and it made me feel very stabby"

I am a hideous person to eat with, I get so frustrated by eating habits. If I go for good with you, feel special or afraid I shared chips once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

School gate ignorance. Manners cost nothing fuckwits!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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People who whistle along to songs out of tune

People who look over to see what speed you are doing.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"School gate ignorance. Manners cost nothing fuckwits!!"

Those bitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

Oh yes! Not the sharers! Especially "shall we share a dessert?" No! If I want dessert I want the whole thing!

As an extension to biting the fork, people who chew really soft food (like ice cream ) and you can hear their teeth clack together. An ex and his dad both used to do it and it made me feel very stabby

I am a hideous person to eat with, I get so frustrated by eating habits. If I go for good with you, feel special or afraid I shared chips once "
how could I feel special eating chips ?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I bet you hate it when people bite into an apple and slurp a bit at the same time, don't you Miss honey? I can't even do it myself, I have to chop it up *shudders*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in the passenger seat who you can see brake when they think you're driving too fast (when you're doing the speed limit!).

Grow a pair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in the passenger seat who you can see brake when they think you're driving too fast (when you're doing the speed limit!).

Grow a pair!"
oh my youre a white knuckle ride driver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who walk slowly in front of me and seem to purposely get in my way, they don't, but in my head they do

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"When someone is a passenger in my car and they give me directions when I know where I'm going! It happened last night and I really had to bite my tongue!"

This!!!

Omg....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

Oh yes! Not the sharers! Especially "shall we share a dessert?" No! If I want dessert I want the whole thing!

As an extension to biting the fork, people who chew really soft food (like ice cream ) and you can hear their teeth clack together. An ex and his dad both used to do it and it made me feel very stabby

I am a hideous person to eat with, I get so frustrated by eating habits. If I go for good with you, feel special or afraid I shared chips once how could I feel special eating chips ?"

Because I don't ever share food

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I bet you hate it when people bite into an apple and slurp a bit at the same time, don't you Miss honey? I can't even do it myself, I have to chop it up *shudders*"

Those fuckers. I have to cut fruit up too.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"People in the passenger seat who you can see brake when they think you're driving too fast (when you're doing the speed limit!).

Grow a pair!"

Yep. Had this recently. Wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who slurp hot drinks...if it is too hot leave it to cool down.

People who bite their forks whilst eating...do you want it in your eye

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

Oh yes! Not the sharers! Especially "shall we share a dessert?" No! If I want dessert I want the whole thing!

As an extension to biting the fork, people who chew really soft food (like ice cream ) and you can hear their teeth clack together. An ex and his dad both used to do it and it made me feel very stabby

I am a hideous person to eat with, I get so frustrated by eating habits. If I go for good with you, feel special or afraid I shared chips once how could I feel special eating chips ?

Because I don't ever share food "
is your father scrooge?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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People speaking over one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to read a single one of these that I consider to be irrational.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"People speaking over one another "

I HAD a friend who constantly done that, I haven't spoken to her for ages. Really annoying and fucking rude to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have irrational fears

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I have yet to read a single one of these that I consider to be irrational."

I have an irrational fear of bananas. I cringe touching them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yet to read a single one of these that I consider to be irrational.

I have an irrational fear of bananas. I cringe touching them "
oh my

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ethnic cleansing etc is pure evil but maybe there should be some type of cleansing of those who're causing such irrational distress?

My pain isn't fully irrational but relates to those who wander around, seemingly oblivious to your presence - shoving past, bumping into you, getting too close and possibly smelling unfresh.

Hearing and seeing open mouths eating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people post meets or updates that say 'rare day off ' or 'unexpectedly free'

Oh god I'm on a roll .... 'might be free Friday /later /whenever ' also annoys me to distraction !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

People who try and take my food or suggest putting all the takeaway in the middle...get to fuck.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not me, but someone I know in a wheelchair gets annoyed by people starting to push him without asking, and I don't blame him.

Again, this one isn't irrational and I don't blame him either."

Aye, I forgot the irrational part!

Right now, people who go on speakerphone in the office. We have meeting rooms for a reason!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politics.

Just politics in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is a passenger in my car and they give me directions when I know where I'm going! It happened last night and I really had to bite my tongue!

This!!!

Omg....

"
women....bloody women.....typical

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not me, but someone I know in a wheelchair gets annoyed by people starting to push him without asking, and I don't blame him.

Again, this one isn't irrational and I don't blame him either.

Aye, I forgot the irrational part!

Right now, people who go on speakerphone in the office. We have meeting rooms for a reason!!! "

Never worked in an office but I expect working in close proximity with others is hugely stressful

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