FabSwingers.com forum: Personal / slightly weird question!?

By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)

So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds

The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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lube?

seems like the easiest way.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Are you sure you were....you know.....suitably aroused for said big cock?

I've never heard of a woman having to be stretched before. Have you had previous issues?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Are we talking girth that was the issue? I'm assuming we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find nothing helps me, as my skin isn't very stretchy. Fat cocks can be quite uncomfortable around the entrance to my vagina. Inside I'm fine, except for long cocks, that are quite painful during the heated moments.

You could try moisturisers or oils and toys, getting larger as you stretch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are aids for this. They look like dildos and come in varying widths. You start of with the narrower ones using lube ky etc. Then move on to wider as your muscles relax and you become less tight.

With age skin looses its elasticity. You can control the size you want to be. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"

it's really painful when a baby comes out (it's not called the ring of fire for nothing) and many women tear at that time. but yeah it is stretchy to a degree.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

There was something I heard of though it's a little antiquated nowadays, it depends on your class, breakfast and political outlook. It's called foreplay.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

First you are still a youngster so don't worry about age.

Second your fanny is designed to stretch and shrink as required bucket fannies are in most cases a myth with the exception of a few women who do not do pelvic floor exercises after childbirth.

Finally the secret to painless sex with men with large cocks is a combination of lubrication, being relaxed and being turned on.

The last helps provide the first two but additional help can come from using additional lubrication and perhaps even having a little alcohol before the meet to release your inhibitions, but we do mean a little as a d*unk partner is no fun for either sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was something I heard of though it's a little antiquated nowadays, it depends on your class, breakfast and political outlook. It's called foreplay. "

Sound advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you was too tense. Maybe more foreplay will do the trick or even lube. Most women should be able to adapt to most sizes. RELAX!!!

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"

I realise this but I've not had the pleasure of giving birth so...

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"There was something I heard of though it's a little antiquated nowadays, it depends on your class, breakfast and political outlook. It's called foreplay. "
Possibly this like we had been playing in the car but then we went for a walk so maybe I just wasn't excited enough by then ... maybe just bring lube next time though I usually don't need it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

I realise this but I've not had the pleasure of giving birth so... "
relax.. and lube if needed..

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"First you are still a youngster so don't worry about age.

Second your fanny is designed to stretch and shrink as required bucket fannies are in most cases a myth with the exception of a few women who do not do pelvic floor exercises after childbirth.

Finally the secret to painless sex with men with large cocks is a combination of lubrication, being relaxed and being turned on.

I'd had a glass of wine but maybe yes to the rest of it, was my first time meeting him so probably shouldn't have gone for it anyway - I données to be more relaxed but yes will note bring lube next time!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"

There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.

I am always surprised when people don't realise this

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.

I am always surprised when people don't realise this

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Exactly - you don't dilate just by magic or wanting to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.

I am always surprised when people don't realise this

Well I'm a man, give me a bit of slack. No pun intended. There is also a process to go through before inserting a cock, it's called foreplay which leads to arousal which leads to natural lubrication thus allowing easier access to said cock. That's my experience anyway.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.

I am always surprised when people don't realise this

Well I'm a man, give me a bit of slack. No pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay (maybe even an orgasm before sex) and a bit of lube works for me. Maybe look at different positions?

Might be TMI - as if I really care on here! - but by my standards I have a slightly larger dildo and the only way I can comfortably use that is with a lot of lube or shortly after an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this issue, you need to be very relaxed, and hugely turned on, a few orgasms during fore play helps a lot, I personally wouldn't try and stretch yourself, in my view it's the same as a chap trying to change his penis size, be proud of what you've got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter how turned on or lubed I am, my skin does not stretch. I have little natural elasticity in my skin, which is why with all my babies I had an episiotomy or tore, and got lots of deep stretch marks. No amount of foreplay or lubrication will make my skin more elastic.

I can't be fisted because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.

Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about one of those inflatable dildos you can get, put it in small and inflate it once inside, that might do the trick if you want to stretch yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.

Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr

Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I get his details? Lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)

So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds

The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x "

You probably weren't aroused enough or aging is drying you out...either way, try lube.

At your age I'm surprised you think stretching will give you a bucket fanny. You do realise it's referred to as the birthing canal right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also quite tight and have this issue with larger vibrators, they just don't fit no matter how aroused and wet I am. We've been working on fisting but with my anatomy it's proving challenging. And enjoyable challenge though

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"Can I get his details? Lol"
haha sure I'll PM you but you a bit out of our area xx

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By *eather_Loves_Sex OP Woman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)

So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds

The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x

You probably weren't aroused enough or aging is drying you out...either way, try lube.

At your age I'm surprised you think stretching will give you a bucket fanny. You do realise it's referred to as the birthing canal right?

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.Yes that part was a joke

though I do know some woman are clearly looser down there hence can be fisted etc - mostly it works just fine but like others have said maybe I just wasn't turned on enough by that point - it did feel good for the few seconds we managed so I will persevere

was only asking if I anything I should / could do to make it easier next time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above defo lube and more foreplay is needed. Plus try to relax n let him ease into you as apose to going for a run up.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.

Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr

Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it. "

The fact of the matter is women have different levels of elasticity so may need help in that department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer give guys with average cocks a chance

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

As mentioned above, use the lube!

Also different positions may make things easier. With VB and myself she has to be super aroused to jump straight in with doggy or similar. Missionary is good. Or cowgirl, gives you all the control about entry speed.

The more you know!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Sounds like you was too tense. Maybe more foreplay will do the trick or even lube. Most women should be able to adapt to most sizes. RELAX!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.

Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr

Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it. "

If you were at my babies' births you would have seen the midwife cut a huge slice through my flesh, because the head was going to tear me. A cock that is girthy will stretch me so much that it's uncomfortable and burns, same with fisting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also something called vaginimus. Take a look on google.

Most vaginas should fit most cocks. Unless there's a physical reason like above.

Lube is always useful x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it really relates to us being more fully in touch (metaphorically) with our bodies. When less sexually active then that sense can become less keen. This alone doesn't increase flexibility but does help to let us know what we need and can cope with to a greater extent. When I've been less active I take more time and control of things. I'll use toys increasingly and only be penetrated when I've got to the point that I'm very highly aroused - we'll still take it slowly. A guy with a small average cock may also do us a favour by challenging our more tolerable levels rather than going beyond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Don't forget not being able to sit down properly for weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X

you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour

Don't forget not being able to sit down properly for weeks."

A bloke will view that as a compliment

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