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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I'm going to try

Do you find yourself attracted to those who challenge you, or those who agree with your views?

I can get frustrated when a woman argues for arguments sake, but if she is able to change my attitude in some way. I'm all hers.

Is it Like attracts like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult to challenge someone's views on here, without causing offence, due to the faceless tone of text.

In real life, I would tend to partner up to someone with similar views and life outlook, but were able to listen and talk through, each other's challenging views.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"But I'm going to try

Do you find yourself attracted to those who challenge you, or those who agree with your views?

I can get frustrated when a woman argues for arguments sake, but if she is able to change my attitude in some way. I'm all hers.

Is it Like attracts like?

"

Yes I like people who challenge me as well as those who are a smooth ride. Someone once said to me 'You are the most frustrating woman I never met!!' haha, and we did get on great when we eventually did meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, that's difficult for me. I like having similar opinions but I do love a good debate and having my opinions challenged. So a bit of both. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not here to argue the toss with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very dependent on how they challenge me. If they do it in a belittling way, like many do on here, then no.

I do really like someone who has their own viewpoints on things. I admire those who can put an argument together so eloquently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a little difficult to have a debate on here about anything really, you can give an opionion of course.

face to face is the best way, for many reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are too stubborn to change there views. When someone tells me they don't want to meet me and I challenge them, they just block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very dependent on how they challenge me. If they do it in a belittling way, like many do on here, then no.

I do really like someone who has their own viewpoints on things. I admire those who can put an argument together so eloquently. "

That's the key isn't it? If you're going to disagree with me and want me to see your point, don't look like you think im a complete cunt.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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On a one to one basis I am happy to have challenging discussions and discover view points but on a public forum? Not a chance. There are too many argumentative, strongly opinionated people and things get misconstrued, taken out of context etc. I'm here for fun not confrontation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. I like someone who I can have a discussion with about conflicting views, but then at the same time its good to share the same views with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty open to others' perspectives and have been challenged and changed my perspective based on the other person's being more effective, useful, helpful or backed by better evidence etc.

I am also happy with a way of thinking that says multiple different views can be right in different circumstances and therefore have no need to argue, but rather add in the perspective to have a more comprehensive view of a situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are too stubborn to change there views. When someone tells me they don't want to meet me and I challenge them, they just block me"

And then they get argumentative when I set up another account to ask 'why the fuck did you block me? '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are too stubborn to change there views. When someone tells me they don't want to meet me and I challenge them, they just block me

And then they get argumentative when I set up another account to ask 'why the fuck did you block me? ' "

Some people just have the worst attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very dependent on how they challenge me. If they do it in a belittling way, like many do on here, then no.

I do really like someone who has their own viewpoints on things. I admire those who can put an argument together so eloquently.

That's the key isn't it? If you're going to disagree with me and want me to see your point, don't look like you think im a complete cunt. "

Oh totally!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I enjoy a kindred spirit, but don't expect to agree on everything. I like being made to think and making others think, exchanging views and even having my opinion changed in the process on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't please everyone and I don't intend to try either, I will however sugarcoat to avoid offence, holidays and because I'm nice like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone fix my laptop that would please me most today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone fix my laptop that would please me most today "

Nah, it's broke just get another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to those who have their own views and challenge my viewpoint in a constructive way.

I can't bear arguing for the sake of it / trying to get the last word in, waste of time & not an attractive trait.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"But I'm going to try

Do you find yourself attracted to those who challenge you, or those who agree with your views?

I can get frustrated when a woman argues for arguments sake, but if she is able to change my attitude in some way. I'm all hers.

Is it Like attracts like?

I don't agree

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I'm attracted to those who have their own views and challenge my viewpoint in a constructive way.

I can't bear arguing for the sake of it / trying to get the last word in, waste of time & not an attractive trait."

Absolutely this

I quite enjoy being challenged and having a healthy debate because I enjoy having my brain stimulated but you have to be able to present an argument for your views - not just talk all over me and insist you're right without any evidence to back it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to argue, love to debate.. it's important to me that they can recognise the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are too stubborn to change there views. When someone tells me they don't want to meet me and I challenge them, they just block me

And then they get argumentative when I set up another account to ask 'why the fuck did you block me? '

Some people just have the worst attitude "

Block Me once, more fool me. Block me twice, more fool you.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone fix my laptop that would please me most today

Nah, it's broke just get another! "

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop whinging you lot

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I tend to be friends with those who have similar views to me but who can also bring a new perspective or new information to a friendly debate that might alter my view. Anyone who tries to beat me down or talk over my own views will usually get left outside.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I want a bit of both... I am a lover not warrior but I do like to be challenged...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I like those who actually have an opinion - not just reel out the forum acceptable view with a ton of emojis attached on to it. Or the passive aggressive posts.

The former are the ones I find interesting - I enjoy debating and being challenged but not if it's done in a cuntish manner - ad hominem and other informal fallacies make me think nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone fix my laptop that would please me most today

Nah, it's broke just get another!

Thanks for the advice "

Ya welcome

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