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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

Hey I have been on here a while no with no luck at all. I am a genuine guy just looking to chat, meet,have a bit of fun. Can someone tell me what I am doing wrong as all women just delete my messages. Am I that ugly no1 is intrested????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are the answer.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

3 weeks is a nanosecond in fab terms, it took me about 7 months before I got my first meet, and some people considerably longer. Chin up and have patience

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

You have been here three weeks... if you want instashag go find an escort! It takes time build trust and a connection... you should try a club

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

But messaged so many women and nothing really no1 gives me s chance to even talk to them ????

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

I get that like. But if people don't talk to me how can they ever get to know me of trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you saying in the messages? A lot of men come on too strong or just don't pay attention enough to a woman's profile in order to meet her requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

I have tried read profiles and messaged say clear things so they know I have read there profile. Been polite not even said anything sexual just tried to be genuine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that like. But if people don't talk to me how can they ever get to know me of trust me"

it makes things easier if you use the reply and quote function so we know who your replying too

and that's kinda what you have to do, select people you like and who's criteria you seem to fit and write them a message...now a great deal of the time you will get a no thank you, be ignored or the message won't be read. you'll have to get used to that but it's no great shakes because sonner or later someone will reply and you will end up having some great fun. keep chatting on the forums, many folk have met through chatting on here too

someone suggested clubs, a good idea i reckon, you get to meet people face to face and you can get yourself over better than you can on line, and have a look for organised socials near you, again, a chance to meet face to face with other fabbers and potentially leave with a number or even with someone on your arm...you are one of many many many men so you have to get yourself out there and get yourself noticed in a sea of other dudes.

it's up to you to make the effort.

good luck

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"I get that like. But if people don't talk to me how can they ever get to know me of trust me

it makes things easier if you use the reply and quote function so we know who your replying too

and that's kinda what you have to do, select people you like and who's criteria you seem to fit and write them a message...now a great deal of the time you will get a no thank you, be ignored or the message won't be read. you'll have to get used to that but it's no great shakes because sonner or later someone will reply and you will end up having some great fun. keep chatting on the forums, many folk have met through chatting on here too

someone suggested clubs, a good idea i reckon, you get to meet people face to face and you can get yourself over better than you can on line, and have a look for organised socials near you, again, a chance to meet face to face with other fabbers and potentially leave with a number or even with someone on your arm...you are one of many many many men so you have to get yourself out there and get yourself noticed in a sea of other dudes.

it's up to you to make the effort.

good luck

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Thanks dude appreciate the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that like. But if people don't talk to me how can they ever get to know me of trust me

it makes things easier if you use the reply and quote function so we know who your replying too

and that's kinda what you have to do, select people you like and who's criteria you seem to fit and write them a message...now a great deal of the time you will get a no thank you, be ignored or the message won't be read. you'll have to get used to that but it's no great shakes because sonner or later someone will reply and you will end up having some great fun. keep chatting on the forums, many folk have met through chatting on here too

someone suggested clubs, a good idea i reckon, you get to meet people face to face and you can get yourself over better than you can on line, and have a look for organised socials near you, again, a chance to meet face to face with other fabbers and potentially leave with a number or even with someone on your arm...you are one of many many many men so you have to get yourself out there and get yourself noticed in a sea of other dudes.

it's up to you to make the effort.

good luck

Thanks dude appreciate the help"

no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op. "

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though"

I'm working out on my sofa now. I promise. .

Who works out at midnight? Are you mad?

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took what seemed an age to get my wings... If there's me piece f advice I can give, it's don't lower your standards...you'll strike it lucky at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

I'm working out on my sofa now. I promise. .

Who works out at midnight? Are you mad? "

Have we not already established that I'm a little insane? Haha!

To be perfectly honest, I didn't even know what time it was, I just threw myself into it and didn't stop until I couldn't breathe or move anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you managed to secure a pussy,at least for the photo.

So it can't be that there's no hope for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though"

EllaBulet, what a pritty girl you are! Life on Fab is easy sailing for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

I'm working out on my sofa now. I promise. .

Who works out at midnight? Are you mad?

Have we not already established that I'm a little insane? Haha!

To be perfectly honest, I didn't even know what time it was, I just threw myself into it and didn't stop until I couldn't breathe or move anymore."

. That's rude right there^.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

I'm working out on my sofa now. I promise. .

Who works out at midnight? Are you mad?

Have we not already established that I'm a little insane? Haha!

To be perfectly honest, I didn't even know what time it was, I just threw myself into it and didn't stop until I couldn't breathe or move anymore.

. That's rude right there^. "

It's only rude if you don't enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

EllaBulet, what a pritty girl you are! Life on Fab is easy sailing for you. "

If is easy is getting the creepiest messages I have ever seen then sure haha!

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

EllaBulet, what a pritty girl you are! Life on Fab is easy sailing for you.

If is easy is getting the creepiest messages I have ever seen then sure haha! "

Your welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

EllaBulet, what a pritty girl you are! Life on Fab is easy sailing for you.

If is easy is getting the creepiest messages I have ever seen then sure haha!

Your welcome x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 1am not many people are going to get lucky op.

I couldn't get lucky at 10pm so I worked out for three hours instead haha!

I didn't really try that hard though

EllaBulet, what a pritty girl you are! Life on Fab is easy sailing for you.

If is easy is getting the creepiest messages I have ever seen then sure haha! "

Well, you'll get many creepoes but also likely to get laid by fine gentlemen. You are smart enough to make the right choice.

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