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"If you lie to her your nose will grow  "Is not mentioning the same as lying? | |||
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"What started as a few dates turned into a few weeks and into a few months. Now I find myself in a new full blown relationship after this weekend - after being single for about 5 years! My question is should I leave fabs all together or is it OK to just rewrite my profile saying I'm in a relationship and just using the forums for entertainment? Obviously I will change my photos if I stay. I guess the right answer is to leave fabs? My girlfriend is vanilla so she probably wouldn't understand if I told her. And we have both said that we're not interested in each others pasts, so I've not mentioned fabs. I don't think it's sunk in yet that I'm no longer single "You're in a relationship with her so she is the one you should be asking. If you feel you can't ask her the only answer is to delete your account. Continuing to do something you're already saying you don't think she would like wouldn't be right...would it. | |||
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"So even if I've no intention on meeting anyone or doing anything I shouldn't? It's only a few months so very early days - so wasn't sure" If your not meeting, it's ok to stay for the forums only in my opinion, but reflect that in your profile | |||
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"simple tell her or leave"
If you can't tell her you're here, then you shouldn't be here. That's how I'd feel in a relationship. | |||
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Is not mentioning the same as lying? "Yes | |||
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"Not being interested in each others' pasts is one thing but this your present. Chatting on here is fine but would she believe that you are only here to chat?" Yeah but it's the truth, if you read my current profile, I wasn't really looking to meet anyway when single. | |||
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"I have a gf and i still meet no harm done the crime is getting caught " Twat!!  | |||
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Is not mentioning the same as lying? "It's lying by omission if it's in order to conceal and deceive. | |||
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"simple tell her or leave This "If you want the relationship to last,delete and never darken the door step again.It is easy to return if it doesn't work out.I wish you well and good luck in the future | |||
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"So even if I've no intention on meeting anyone or doing anything I shouldn't? It's only a few months so very early days - so wasn't sure" If you have no intention of meeting hide your photos and your profile. Just come in for the forums. why not as you say it's new, I have no intention of meeting but I like to come in for a read. Why would that be harmful? | |||
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"Not being interested in each others' pasts is one thing but this your present. Chatting on here is fine but would she believe that you are only here to chat? Yeah but it's the truth, if you read my current profile, I wasn't really looking to meet anyway when single." Would it look, feel and sound like the truth to her? | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type" If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. | |||
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"Sounds like you've made your mind up anyway OP  "I probably am going to delete it, although someone above said about hiding my account and still being given able to use the forums. That could be a option | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type" You're in a relationship but neither of you feel it's love? If you don't love her are you waiting for that to develop or stringing her along as she's fine for now?  | |||
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"What started as a few dates turned into a few weeks and into a few months. Now I find myself in a new full blown relationship after this weekend - after being single for about 5 years! My question is should I leave fabs all together or is it OK to just rewrite my profile saying I'm in a relationship and just using the forums for entertainment? Obviously I will change my photos if I stay. I guess the right answer is to leave fabs? My girlfriend is vanilla so she probably wouldn't understand if I told her. And we have both said that we're not interested in each others pasts, so I've not mentioned fabs. I don't think it's sunk in yet that I'm no longer single "Rarely a good idea to start a relationship on lies Give her the opportunity, she may surprise you x | |||
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"So even if I've no intention on meeting anyone or doing anything I shouldn't? It's only a few months so very early days - so wasn't sure" Ask yourself a question ! If you were vanilla and she had a profile , how would you feel ? | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. " If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. | |||
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If you can't tell her you're here, then you shouldn't be here. That's how I'd feel in a relationship. "Yup, openness and honesty is the only way to conduct any relationship in my view. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type You're in a relationship but neither of you feel it's love? If you don't love her are you waiting for that to develop or stringing her along as she's fine for now? "NO, I really like her - I wasn't looking for a relationship but she's pretty special so I would be stupid to not give it a go. I don't love her no | |||
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"Hide your profile.. dont use fab, if its serious delete account... If it does not work out.. welcome back" This sounds like a good solution, as you are clearly hesitant. Otherwise state on your profile that you are now in a relationship and no longer playing. | |||
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"So even if I've no intention on meeting anyone or doing anything I shouldn't? It's only a few months so very early days - so wasn't sure Ask yourself a question ! If you were vanilla and she had a profile , how would you feel ?" Exactly this. You may only be chatting in the forums but you're still seeing boobies and bits that aren't hers | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. " I agree, I'd suggest hiding your profile and just using forums. 
Not saying that *you* are cheating- it depends on your gf's opinion. | |||
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"Sounds like you've made your mind up anyway OP
I probably am going to delete it, although someone above said about hiding my account and still being given able to use the forums. That could be a option"Good relationship are built on honesty and openess. If you don't feel you can tell your girlfriend that you enjoy chatting in a forum on a swingers site now it will be even more difficult in another six months. Its worth considering if you would be happy to keep this secret long term in the event the relationship lasts. | |||
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" Chatting on here is fine but would she believe that you are only here to chat?" This ^^^^^^^^ Arsk your self this op If the arnsar is no....... then delete profile. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. " But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! I will always choose to tell the new partner..you never know, you could end up with best of both worlds. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type You're in a relationship but neither of you feel it's love? If you don't love her are you waiting for that to develop or stringing her along as she's fine for now?
NO, I really like her - I wasn't looking for a relationship but she's pretty special so I would be stupid to not give it a go. I don't love her no"If she loves you and believes you do, or might, love her then that will be more hurtful than you having a profile on here. If she's special then give it a real chance. That means opening yourself up to the possibility of love. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type You're in a relationship but neither of you feel it's love? If you don't love her are you waiting for that to develop or stringing her along as she's fine for now?
NO, I really like her - I wasn't looking for a relationship but she's pretty special so I would be stupid to not give it a go. I don't love her no
If she loves you and believes you do, or might, love her then that will be more hurtful than you having a profile on here.
If she's special then give it a real chance. That means opening yourself up to the possibility of love."I don't think she loves me, she's very keen and seems over the moon that we're officially a couple but way too early to being falling in love... at least it is for me, I don't fall in love easily | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! " Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.  | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship. "You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though | |||
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"I dont see the problem if your just here for the forum,its just to have a chat,carry on pal "This is what I thought originally, but apparently we're wrong | |||
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"i know you said you dont want to know about each others past - but fab is current - leave or be up front about it if you think you have a future with her " Im leaving in the morning  | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though "You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this? | |||
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"How long is the average time scale that you might fall in love with someone? It's normal that I don't feel that way after a few months right? Just that something someone said above made me wonder. " There isn't a timescale, I think you pretty much know someone is special from the off. Love can take longer. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?"I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation. It's nothing to do with sex for me | |||
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"How long is the average time scale that you might fall in love with someone? It's normal that I don't feel that way after a few months right? Just that something someone said above made me wonder. There isn't a timescale, I think you pretty much know someone is special from the off. Love can take longer." I know theirs not a timescale but it takes time surely? I don't believe in love at first site and all that | |||
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"How long is the average time scale that you might fall in love with someone? It's normal that I don't feel that way after a few months right? Just that something someone said above made me wonder. There isn't a timescale, I think you pretty much know someone is special from the off. Love can take longer. I know theirs not a timescale but it takes time surely? I don't believe in love at first site and all that" I don't believe in love at first sight either, or soul mates. I think that love takes a long time to develop, you might like someone very much have great sex and enjoy their company but proper love comes when you've seen them warts and all and you still want to be with them. Thats why I bang on about being open with a partner. | |||
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"Delete account. Don't take secrets into this relationship. Tons of forums out there for just mucking about on. Good luck fella hope you have happy times. " Thanks | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me"Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it? | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?"At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on " | |||
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"I'm hearing a lot of rationalising from you, OP. You also don't sound like you're that sure you want to engage in a relationship. " I wouldn't of said yes to her if I didn't want to. But yeah 5 years of being single, it does feel a bit strange | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on "Hope it all goes well. One thing I've learned in life though is to be yourself from the start. Be honest about what you want and like. The other person then has the opportunity to accept and fall in love with the real you. | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on
Hope it all goes well.
One thing I've learned in life though is to be yourself from the start. Be honest about what you want and like. The other person then has the opportunity to accept and fall in love with the real you."Thank you. I will keep that in mind over the next few months | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on
Hope it all goes well.
One thing I've learned in life though is to be yourself from the start. Be honest about what you want and like. The other person then has the opportunity to accept and fall in love with the real you.
Thank you. I will keep that in mind over the next few months "In the nicest possible way, hope we never see you back | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on
Hope it all goes well.
One thing I've learned in life though is to be yourself from the start. Be honest about what you want and like. The other person then has the opportunity to accept and fall in love with the real you.
Thank you. I will keep that in mind over the next few months
In the nicest possible way, hope we never see you back " good bye | |||
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"Stop debating it. If you're into her delete your account. I did it. I just did it. Bang. Gone." Lol. Glad I could help!  | |||
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"It's not like we're in love, it's been a few months so maybe I should wait and see how the relationship progresses? I genuinely don't have any interest in cheating, I've never been that type If a profile states it's looking for women and couples and the text matches that then in my eyes it's cheating. If I stayed my profile would make it erythema clear I'm in a relationship and not interested. The fabs forum is actually quite helpful, can actually get some good advise on things sometimes. And also it can make you laugh. But you would be part of the huge scene that she has no clue about, hiding this social side of you..I would hate to find out that my partner led this parallel life online and was interacting with an entire community without my knowledge! Exactly, that is my view. If 'he' could keep that from me, what else could or would he conceal? It could badly erode trust at the beginning of a relationship.
You're probably right, and I will probably leave tomorrow morning. I will miss the forums though
You're obviously conflicted and the fact that you've asked makes me think fab is important to you. Part of a relationship is getting to know all aspects of a person's character, are you absolutely sure you couldn't talk to your girlfriend about this?
I just don't know anywhere else like fabs where you can literally blurt out any old bollocks and start a conversation.
It's nothing to do with sex for me
Yes, but could you talk to your girlfriend about it?
At this stage I'm still getting to know her so I don't know how she will react. Im going to leave tomorrow - start as I mean to go on
Hope it all goes well.
One thing I've learned in life though is to be yourself from the start. Be honest about what you want and like. The other person then has the opportunity to accept and fall in love with the real you."Yes, this very much so. Be real, be authentic, then you have given it your best shot. | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then?" Private parts | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Private parts "Are you sure I can still privateparts on my updates?! | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then?" Pinocchio | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Private parts
Are you sure I can still privateparts on my updates?!"It was someone is never heard of. Not a regular in here as far as I'm aware. I'm still here though, so rejoice! | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Private parts
Are you sure I can still privateparts on my updates?!"Damn!  maybe he came back? | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Pinocchio" Awww that makes sense, he was on / off like a yoyo.. | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Private parts
Are you sure I can still privateparts on my updates?!
Damn! maybe he came back?"Hahaha I think it was wishful thinking | |||
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"Who was that loved up bunny then? Private parts
Are you sure I can still privateparts on my updates?!
Damn! maybe he came back?
Hahaha I think it was wishful thinking "Look at the match making thread | |||
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"Who left now?" Tosha from Hull | |||
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"Who left now? Tosha from Hull " Haha who's she? | |||
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