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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word." You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. | |||
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"I kinda like being blocked. I feel like I earned something ![]() BLOCKED! | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. " Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella ![]() | |||
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"I kinda like being blocked. I feel like I earned something ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word." Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought" I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word." Maybe you only thought it was going well. Maybe she/they was hoping you'd drift away since it's sometimes not that easy to break into an innocuous conversation with a 'by the way, I'm not interested'. Blocking may seem harsh initially but it's a pretty quick way of getting to the point. | |||
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"Iv been blocked off someone on this thread,dont know why as iv never spoke to them,ah well" We have blocked people we have never spoke to. Why? Because we don't want to be contacted by them. Blocking isnt always personal.sometimes it's just a filter | |||
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" Look here's a couple of potential scenarios and how to look at it. 1 you chatted and during making arrangements their bottle crashed and they panicked and ran away. It happens. Maybe they are new or nervous. 2 they changed their mind, something you said or didn't say or they just dropped in interest nothing to do with you. 3 they got a better offer so didn't want to waste time explaining so they closed the connection 4 they have no backbone and can't bring themselves to talk like grown ups and just say hey changed my mind but thanks anyway Whichever it is or any another explanation, there's no point worrying about it. It's not how you might deal with such a thing but hey everyone is different and you don't need an explanation. Life's too short. Plenty more fabbers to enjoy ![]() Cheers, nice to see someone with a bit of decency and respect on here. ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella ![]() But you are, just like all the guys before you who posted the same thing. And there is NEVER no reason ![]() | |||
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"Makes no odds to me, although it's nice that someone put the effort in to block me ![]() Hey you ![]() | |||
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"Cheers, nice to see someone with a bit of decency and respect on here. ![]() Ahhh, have to agree with you to be respectful, gotcha ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. ![]() Maybe she knows others who work there...maybe her partner works there...maybe she worked ther in the past and knows more staff than you... many reasons just suddenly pop to mind. I tend to think if they block...It saves me head aches I wasn't aware could happen. Move on as there are plenty of fish swimming around in the pool. | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha ![]() | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() Don't give it a second thought..... what's the point | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella ![]() ![]() Seriously, its just my curiosity im not crying over it like the others before me, this is possibly the only way I will ever find out. And if it is someone from work I feel I NEED to know, saves me trying to guess for the next couple of weeks. He who dares wins! ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() Boredom I guess, lack of female attention lately hahaha | |||
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"That's never happened to me........yet." YET. I just got blocked for posting this hahaha. | |||
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"And there is NEVER no reason ![]() ![]() You will never know so let it go. | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella ![]() ![]() ![]() how is this a way you'll find out? you won't find out, and it doesn't matter anyway...if they don't want to continue talking there's nothing you can do about it..why would you want to carry on trying to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you? it's pointless trying to second guess...just forget about it. | |||
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"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that. i have after meeting though ![]() I have never had this before hence why curiosity has got the better of me. | |||
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"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that. i have after meeting though ![]() joking aside, as has been said above, you will generally never find out why someone blocks you...something you said, maybe they recognised you from some place, better offer came along, whatever, could be a ton of stuff ![]() | |||
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"oopsy daisy - live with it - waste of energy wingeing" Haha I'm really not whinging, this has never happened to me so I'm just curious I guess. Can you imagine if its someone I work with, I haven't seen their face only body but they have seen mine as I dont hide it. | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards ![]() | |||
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"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that. i have after meeting though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There are vastly more important things I give a fuck about. " There you go OP, be more like this guy ![]() | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() I think it's most likely she knows you somehow. In which case no point feeling bad about it. ![]() | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() ![]() What is the 'like an adult' of which you write? ![]() | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly. Thank you ![]() | |||
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"You get blocked if you sneeze on here so I would just get over and get on with..better things to be doing xx ![]() I got blocked off several people for posting this. Couldn't stop laughing at the irony | |||
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"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Makes no odds to me, although it's nice that someone put the effort in to block me ![]() ![]() Hiya ![]() | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() ![]() This ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Too needy maybe?" E's only sayin' what we all be thinkin' ![]() | |||
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"You get blocked if you sneeze on here so I would just get over and get on with..better things to be doing xx ![]() *face palm... lol it's like fabs got talent.. preemptive blocks at the ready ![]() | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think it's good to ask questions, no matter if there will be a definitive answer. If unanswerable questions got banned, pretty much all threads would disappear. | |||
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"Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer. Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy ![]() Perhaps some of us are assuming he's not had this before and want to prepare him for it's inevitability again? I don't know ![]() | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Its only your own time and energy your wasting if you feel that way. What it really is, is a deep routed hunger for people to belittle people socially, for any reason. Granted some people are sincere in what they Sa but most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. Life I to short to dwell on things that have happened but I is also too short to let a potential good thing slip by. You choose which person you are. Ok.... Bring the sarcastic remarks on people! ![]() | |||
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"most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. " Most? Sweeping, negative generalisations are not sexy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When you've spent longer than 5 minutes on this site, you might use this experience to give some other poor chap some valuable advice. Until then, good luck with your next conversation. Hopefully you'll get your coffee and cake and who knows what else... ![]() | |||
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"most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. Most? Sweeping, negative generalisations are not sexy ![]() ![]() I apologise if I have offended you. Kik I Sai most, and Tha I obviously from my own experience. To be fair if you had seen some of the DMs I have been getting since posting this, you would probably understand my negative attitude. Again sorry if I have offended you. | |||
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"Just to clarify, the person in question has seen my face pics, I haven't seen theirs. They block me when I tell them what I do as a career. I'm just curious as hell as now I'm looking at all the women at work thinking.. Was it you??? I'm not getting beat up over it, like it has been said many times, plenty more fish in the sea (I want a seahorse)" You know what curiosity did to the cat?... | |||
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"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you. Hopefully yeah. Happy fabbing fella. ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word." When your BLOCKED your BLOCKED ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. ![]() maybe she knows or knew someone who works with you ,someones dad was on here the other day ,just a thought | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. " Just be direct and to the point. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word. You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. Just be direct and to the point. ![]() ![]() Pardon? | |||
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