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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Picking up from teh age gap thread...what makes some relationships good, what makes others bad.. What criteria are important to make it great? Does it matter what others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two words .... jealousy and envy

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"two words .... jealousy and envy "
take it that s on the "down" side

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will answer the last bit first. It makes absolutly not the tiniest bit of difference what anyone else thinks, why should it, its my relationship not theres.

What makes a good relationship, honesty, trust, spoiling each other with love and affection, never taking each other for granted carrying on doing all the things that you did in the beginning of the relationshi and not let it become mundane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Criteria fa a good relationship in my eyes is

1 communication say what ya feel when ya feel it and discuss no matter how difficult

Bottle things fa a while at ya peril

2 have together time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust and honesty

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Love Trust Respect Honesty

Envy Bitterness Jealousy

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

So, Diamond, Soapy and Cute... you are saying honesty and good communication are key ingredients... anything else?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Love Trust Respect Honesty

Envy Bitterness Jealousy"

I so agree that respect is hugely important for a healthy relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had a serious relationship so shouldnt really comment but just on observations of my parents..

The short term ones (6months) ive experienced there hasn't been trust (my fault) and they went down hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, Diamond, Soapy and Cute... you are saying honesty and good communication are key ingredients... anything else?"

A fit ass helps xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So, Diamond, Soapy and Cute... you are saying honesty and good communication are key ingredients... anything else?"

Yes i said more than that, also i will add be supportive to each other especially in difficult times or if they are startig a new venture ect

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a large inheritance and a dodgy ticker...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"a large inheritance and a dodgy ticker..."
in the same person, I take it?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

communication is a great point soapy.. me and the ex split up and he cheated on me with someone else.. when i asked question he said 'well she was the lady i turned to and spoke about our problems too'

i was shocked.. he'd never mentioned anything to me before. He should have spoke to me and not her. Its in the past now, but lesson learnt

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A man who knows this woman needs handbags !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What makes a shit relationship is jealousy, obsessiveness, wanting to own the person, wanting the person to stop being an individual

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A man who knows this woman needs handbags !"
and errrr perhaps shoes?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"a large inheritance and a dodgy ticker...in the same person, I take it?;-)"

yup.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Now I am going to go against the sisterhood here and say, shoes are not as important as my handbags !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think genital chemical incompatibility can be a relationship killer. Nothing worse than being allergic to ya partners jack and danny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am going to go against the sisterhood here and say, shoes are not as important as my handbags !! "

flip flops are though

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Now I am going to go against the sisterhood here and say, shoes are not as important as my handbags !!

flip flops are though "
Mind you, you could put the shoes / flipflops into the handbag...) there, problem solved

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

My partner once said he thought love was being there for me even when I didnt want it. It made me cry because I knew he was right. Im very independent but have had a lot of family bereavement. He is my hero.

Maybe what makes a happy relationship is as different for everyone as the personalities involved.

A husband who whisks me off to the beach at the end of a traumatic day, sits me down with a blanket over my legs, hands me a glass of wine and barbecues for me, then sits next to me quietly while we watch the sun go down, well I guess his actions speak louder than my words.

Mistress x

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

honesty and trust for us

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"My partner once said he thought love was being there for me even when I didnt want it. It made me cry because I knew he was right. Im very independent but have had a lot of family bereavement. He is my hero.

Maybe what makes a happy relationship is as different for everyone as the personalities involved.

A husband who whisks me off to the beach at the end of a traumatic day, sits me down with a blanket over my legs, hands me a glass of wine and barbecues for me, then sits next to me quietly while we watch the sun go down, well I guess his actions speak louder than my words.

Mistress x"
That sounds really genuine and lovely -

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

Im suprised no 1s mentioned this but a good, active and healthy sex life helps coz the thought ov spending the rest ov your life with someone who is absolutly shit in bed would be a relationship killer surley?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"My partner once said he thought love was being there for me even when I didnt want it. It made me cry because I knew he was right. Im very independent but have had a lot of family bereavement. He is my hero.

Maybe what makes a happy relationship is as different for everyone as the personalities involved.

A husband who whisks me off to the beach at the end of a traumatic day, sits me down with a blanket over my legs, hands me a glass of wine and barbecues for me, then sits next to me quietly while we watch the sun go down, well I guess his actions speak louder than my words.

Mistress xThat sounds really genuine and lovely - "

Thank you. x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Im suprised no 1s mentioned this but a good, active and healthy sex life helps coz the thought ov spending the rest ov your life with someone who is absolutly shit in bed would be a relationship killer surley? "

You have a point, interesting, isnt it.. that on this site... nobody has mentioned sex before. And that surely has to be an important consideration, I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaffer tape and ear plugs...;-)

Tape for motherinlaw's yapping trap...

Earplugs for the ex in case the tape isnt enough...

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