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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite reply

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have had a few lately for some reason messaging for cuck meets. We explained to them that we aren't into meets where everyone isn't involved. Everyone moves on in their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rare that i get messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite no from me, but id have to get messages for that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would usually reply unless the message was so boneheaded that it doesn't deserve one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely decline

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite decline , because I was brought up correctly with manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad you're all so polite lol some people on here aren't

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Ignore

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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ignore them.

if it's someone i've met before then i'll reply saying not interested at this time or don't wanna meet them again.

if they pester for meets i'll block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No"

Depends on the message. If it looks like they've not really bothered, then ignore, if they have big boobs and a gorgeous smile, I do a little dance, pretend I have one of those sets of teeth that goes "ding" when you smile, and reply "how you doin"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No"

Could be any of the above tbh... If I think the person's profile or message shows a level of immaturity and will react badly to a 'thank you for your interest, but you're not what I'm looking for...' type response I'll just ignore.... If they seem like the type to get nasty, or are persistently mailing despite being previously ignored I'll simply block (but that's rare).

Otherwise I'll be polite and wish them luck on their continued search....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

If they have read our profile,and on paper match what we are after,it's a polite no thanks.

Anything else,it can range from a curt no to a delete n block.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No

Depends on the message. If it looks like they've not really bothered, then ignore, if they have big boobs and a gorgeous smile, I do a little dance, pretend I have one of those sets of teeth that goes "ding" when you smile, and reply "how you doin""

Yeah, that's how I respond also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad you're all so polite lol some people on here aren't "

I've noticed , I've also seen people that say they get bombarded with messages , but if you just send a message to decline them they'll know , some people may be a bit dense to see being ignored, means no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages what are those I didn't realise you could receive them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely reply and say why we aren't interested I.e not looking for single males etc. Takes nothing to be courteous

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No

Depends on the message. If it looks like they've not really bothered, then ignore, if they have big boobs and a gorgeous smile, I do a little dance, pretend I have one of those sets of teeth that goes "ding" when you smile, and reply "how you doin"

Yeah, that's how I respond also. "

It works as a great filter

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Politely decline to some,ignore others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the message, I usually reply out of politeness, not that I get many messages mind. Although I did get an opening message a few days ago from a lady that just said "I'll come and fuck you now" which I ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the message they send and my mood at the time. A polite message will get a polite reply. A one liner will either get ignored or a sarcastic reply.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Politely reply I think. Some men I've just blocked cos I can't be faffed with entering into conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite reply

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Usually I just them tell politely straight up no point in messing around xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I always reply and have a quick chat. Always interested in people's views on pocket fluff, time travel and glitter.

Mind I'm not sure I would if I was getting 50+ a day, like some of the fajiner owners get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it depends on my mood.

Usually I'll reply with a polite no thank you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it's an unsolicited message (i.e. not from someone I already chat to, or off the back of a forum thread etc) and it's a short one liner, accompanied by an equally short profile then it'll be deleted and ignored.

If a level of effort has gone into it, and having looked at the profile I'm not interested then I'd send a polite thanks but no thanks.

I should add I've yet to receive a message worthy of a polite thanks but no thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No"

I'd like to be able to be polite but would need some messages first

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No

Could be any of the above tbh... If I think the person's profile or message shows a level of immaturity and will react badly to a 'thank you for your interest, but you're not what I'm looking for...' type response I'll just ignore.... If they seem like the type to get nasty, or are persistently mailing despite being previously ignored I'll simply block (but that's rare).

Otherwise I'll be polite and wish them luck on their continued search.... "

This works for us. Currently flitting between forums and in box. Just deleted 'Ghut' (any ideas anyone?) and replied to a few that had clearly read our profile. Saved a couple that might be of interest then will shortly bulk delete the dross...Unfortunately there's a lot of that on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No"

Depends on the message. If an effort has been made, a polite reply. Otherwise delete. And every now and then a bulk delete. I'll risk losing "the one"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone messages you but you are not interested, do you .......?

Ignore them

Politely reply

Block them

Or tell them straight out it's a No

Depends on the message. If an effort has been made, a polite reply. Otherwise delete. And every now and then a bulk delete. I'll risk losing "the one""

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