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Do you respond with stupid messages to let people down gently?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like when you are not interested, but don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get very "one worded" or use Emoji's when I've lost the interest in the person or start to lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, yes... But often, people dont accept a polite and tactful refusal, wanting to know why they aren't what I'm looking for, or asking what i am looking for then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a great idea "

Ahaha.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just log off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get very "one worded" or use Emoji's when I've lost the interest in the person or start to lose interest."

was nice while it lasted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down! "

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down! "

Surely that's never happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on facebook its the 'thumbs up'

on here its either 'k'

or just dont reply

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Too young for me, not what I'm looking for, not my type, don't meet smokers.

Then I get back - but I'm mature for my age or age is only a number, what are you looking for, what is your type, I'm not a smoker or I've given up or I vape or I don't know how to change it.

Eventually they get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. Usually an ok.

Then.. Sorry.this isn't going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say not for me - if they carry on i jut block - i cant be bothered to waste my time anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?"

Not on here but the army guy I dated back in 2014, I hear off him every 6 months or so and even when he messages me first he'll shut the conversation down after a couple of messages!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"on facebook its the 'thumbs up'

on here its either 'k'

or just dont reply "

Oh I do that the thumbs up never goes down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reply anymore just delete the message unless it's someone that takes my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

Not on here but the army guy I dated back in 2014, I hear off him every 6 months or so and even when he messages me first he'll shut the conversation down after a couple of messages! "

All I can say is that it's his loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get very "one worded" or use Emoji's when I've lost the interest in the person or start to lose interest."

Thought so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

Surely that's never happened to you?"
.Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

Why? "

Because she is a looker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

Why?

Because she is a looker "

Men have preferences too.. not all men out there will find her interesting or attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too young for me, not what I'm looking for, not my type, don't meet smokers.

Then I get back - but I'm mature for my age or age is only a number, what are you looking for, what is your type, I'm not a smoker or I've given up or I vape or I don't know how to change it.

Eventually they get blocked.

"

Yes! Sweeping your preferences aside as if only theirs matter... Anyone who won't take no for an answer raises a red flag, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

Why?

Because she is a looker "

Oh I See. The only quality one needs to have a decent conversation. Get ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just sent a reply of a whole page full of these

Then simply a no at the end

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's horrible when you know someone's not into the conversation and keeps trying to shut it down!

I wouldn't expect you get that much though surely!?

Why?

Because she is a looker "

Looks are definitely not everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes no maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes no maybe. "

Decisive then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I'm attractive and interesting and funny!

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