FabSwingers.com forum: When chatting to folk on here..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you often have loads of different people you give time/attention to, or are you mainly chatting to one person at a time?

I rarely chat to loads of people as i've a super shit memory, i might chat to a few but not in great depth but just be polite.

You lot good at multi tasking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have become quite friendly with a few even tho there is and never will be anything sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chat in pm to many people from the forums, either regularly or sporadically.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have become quite friendly with a few even tho there is and never will be anything sexual

sometimes its just good to chat,, no harm in it/building friendships

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I talk to whoever talks to me first usually and for how long depends on how I I interest them I guess

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I talk to whoever talks to me first usually and for how long depends on how I I interest them I guess "

Much the same as posting on a thread

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm a regular Chatty Cathy and a master multitasker. I chat with some simultaneously but certain ones get my undivided attention. Conversations can last all day with stops and starts for normal life. I'm usually in and out of the forum at the same time as messaging on here and kik

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a regular Chatty Cathy and a master multitasker. I chat with some simultaneously but certain ones get my undivided attention. Conversations can last all day with stops and starts for normal life. I'm usually in and out of the forum at the same time as messaging on here and kik

Yeah same with me actually..

KIK is new ish for me and find that conversation can flow more freely on there than it does on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to 2 regularly on here, and a couple of others on Kik. I can't keep up with too many so I like to form connections with a few and focus on them.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Yeah same with me actually..

KIK is new ish for me and find that conversation can flow more freely on there than it does on here. "

Yes it really does, it's more intmate and you don't have to keep being on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hind leg off a donkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have many I chat to. I'm a bit antisocial like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat. What's that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a few have my KIK.. but im worried to message them.. i prefer to be messaged than make the 1st move

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I talk on here and whatsapp, I use carrier pigeon for those in Ireland and Morse code for the Londoners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a few have my KIK.. but im worried to message them.. i prefer to be messaged than make the 1st move "

Go for it - nothing to lose

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I chat to a few on here fairly frequently. I'm wary of chatting on Kik - I won't join any group chats having read the fall out that happens quite often. And one on one can turn nasty if you're not up for sex chat when they are.

As for others - sporadically. I can be crap at replying and lose interest quite often - a dickish comment on the forum makes my quim dry up.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm here for the forums. Before I shut down my profile I got quite mardy if I got a message from someone on my friendslist as I really don't like chatting (please admin can we get an invisible option?)

When I was meeting I would concentrate on one or two at a time. Any more than that and I was at serious risk of mixing up my responses.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have friends on here who I regularly chat with and others who just drop by for a catch-up whenever the fancy takes them. I can be chatting to just one or half a dozen at any given time. Sometimes I don't feel like chatting to anyone so I just lurk in the forums

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"I don't chat in pm to many people from the forums, either regularly or sporadically."

Remind me not to pm you then lol if you won't reply !

( only joking) Anna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends tbh. I do talk with few on a regular basis, usually it is about bowel movement and OLB.

Either on kik or here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chat to a few on here fairly frequently. I'm wary of chatting on Kik - I won't join any group chats having read the fall out that happens quite often. And one on one can turn nasty if you're not up for sex chat when they are.

As for others - sporadically. I can be crap at replying and lose interest quite often - a dickish comment on the forum makes my quim dry up."

ive never done the group thing either,, id probs just use the chatrooms on here if i wanted that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I talk on here and whatsapp, I use carrier pigeon for those in Ireland and Morse code for the Londoners "

i prefer whatsapp but appriciate that most guys are married (even if they are telling me their single)..

i like that i can send audio clips on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't chat in pm to many people from the forums, either regularly or sporadically.

Remind me not to pm you then lol if you won't reply !

( only joking) Anna x"

I respond when messaged. I just don't have continuous chats with many people.

Although anyone who messages me with political talk I'm more than happy to chat to

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

This

There are a few forumites I would chat to quite regularly... But two in particular that I'll chat to throughout the day... either here or on kik, other than that I'm mainly chatting to people I've already met and will meet again

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I talk on here and whatsapp, I use carrier pigeon for those in Ireland and Morse code for the Londoners

i prefer whatsapp but appriciate that most guys are married (even if they are telling me their single)..

i like that i can send audio clips on it "

I send all kinds of random shite

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"I don't chat in pm to many people from the forums, either regularly or sporadically.

Remind me not to pm you then lol if you won't reply !

( only joking) Anna x

I respond when messaged. I just don't have continuous chats with many people.

Although anyone who messages me with political talk I'm more than happy to chat to

You would definitely get on with Andy, he loves anything to do with politics !

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hind leg off a donkey

Who me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hind leg off a donkey

Who me?

Yes you

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hind leg off a donkey

Who me?

Yes you

I'm a bit quieter sometimes

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Most people I chat to don't come onto the forums although I do chat to a few from here.

Kik is reserved for special friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hind leg off a donkey

Who me?

Yes you

I'm a bit quieter sometimes

When your mouth is full yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you often have loads of different people you give time/attention to, or are you mainly chatting to one person at a time?

I rarely chat to loads of people as i've a super shit memory, i might chat to a few but not in great depth but just be polite.

You lot good at multi tasking?

I give the time and attention that I'd like to receive personally, to people who take the time to chat to me, if anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you often have loads of different people you give time/attention to, or are you mainly chatting to one person at a time?

I rarely chat to loads of people as i've a super shit memory, i might chat to a few but not in great depth but just be polite.

You lot good at multi tasking?

I give the time and attention that I'd like to receive personally, to people who take the time to chat to me, if anyone.

awww aint you lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat on here and WhatsApp

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you often have loads of different people you give time/attention to, or are you mainly chatting to one person at a time?

I rarely chat to loads of people as i've a super shit memory, i might chat to a few but not in great depth but just be polite.

You lot good at multi tasking?

I give the time and attention that I'd like to receive personally, to people who take the time to chat to me, if anyone.

awww aint you lovely x"

I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here and Kik ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to a few friends I've connected with.

I give a lot of attention to the person I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really chat on here. Pm's are more for sorting out meets for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few o chat to regularly throughout the day. A few who just sends the odd message to keep in touch. And then those that I'm trying to arrange a meet with.

I do talk to some on Kik and a few by text. I'll just spend the day hopping from one to another. I just enjoy chatting lol x

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hind leg off a donkey

Who me?

Yes you

I'm a bit quieter sometimes

When your mouth is full yes

It's rude to talk with your mouth full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site pm's, when getting to know fabbers, or occasional catching up with friendly chatters.

Whatsapp for proper friends - sometimes skype or a phonecall, when there's more to say.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Need messages to be able to chat, mind you when I send myself messages I know how the conversation is going to end

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've written the Fab equivalent of War and Peace to a few select Fabbers I've really clicked with ... not my intention, it just happened, and I like getting to know potential meets that way. And when I'm exchanging messages like that, to be honest, I just don't have the time to cope with any more than a couple. In addition, I probably swap shorter and less in depth messages with maybe half a dozen or so people at any time but on a much more casual basis.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I don't have many I chat to. I'm a bit antisocial like that. "

Maybe you just have not found that extra funny someone to chat with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely chat; in fact, there's only one person I chat to occasionally, for more than a couple of messages. I'm not a sociable person and tire easily.

I'm the same on my phone and Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat to people i known.on.here for nearly three years,about,work,family ,etc,wont ever meet them ,but they are fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat. Apologies in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chat to many. I have to make notes on their profile if someone gives me their name as i'd never remember it.

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