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Confessions of happiness

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Bunnyhop got me thinking with her favourite part thread. My favourite part of me is I care about ppl, especially the ones around me and I'm fiercely protective of them. Caring about ppl is one of the things that makes me happy. So as it's Sunday why not confess one of the things that make you happy?

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Nature makes me happy, my garden and the water

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

When I put a smile on someones face, a proper eye twinkling smile.

Doesn't matter who it is, just makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Nature makes me happy, my garden and the water"

Yes environment plays a big part in happiness

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"When I put a smile on someones face, a proper eye twinkling smile.

Doesn't matter who it is, just makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside "

That's just made me feel warm and fuzzy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bunnyhop got me thinking with her favourite part thread. My favourite part of me is I care about ppl, especially the ones around me and I'm fiercely protective of them. Caring about ppl is one of the things that makes me happy. So as it's Sunday why not confess one of the things that make you happy? "
I enjoy people the sun and making people laugh in the sun

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"When I put a smile on someones face, a proper eye twinkling smile.

Doesn't matter who it is, just makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside

That's just made me feel warm and fuzzy "

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Bunnyhop got me thinking with her favourite part thread. My favourite part of me is I care about ppl, especially the ones around me and I'm fiercely protective of them. Caring about ppl is one of the things that makes me happy. So as it's Sunday why not confess one of the things that make you happy? I enjoy people the sun and making people laugh in the sun "

What a wonderful combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my fave part of me is the best and worst - loyal and caring to the nth degree but of course not always reciprocated and that hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting cuddles off my sons. They're autistic and don't do physical contact so love when they come and give me a cuddle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting cuddles off my sons. They're autistic and don't do physical contact so love when they come and give me a cuddle x "

love that

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"my fave part of me is the best and worst - loyal and caring to the nth degree but of course not always reciprocated and that hurts "

Yes that's a difficult one but those are toxic ppl and you don't need them in your life xxx

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Getting cuddles off my sons. They're autistic and don't do physical contact so love when they come and give me a cuddle x "

That's happiness right there, give them a cuddle from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting cuddles off my sons. They're autistic and don't do physical contact so love when they come and give me a cuddle x "

Hard pushed to find a better feeling than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing someone I love laughing. Especially if I'm not the butt of the joke

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Oddly... Complimenting people - in a sincere way, not just false platitudes ... Making them smile/blush and feel that tiny little bit better about themselves.... Knowing I've done that gives me the warm fuzzies. I'm likely to tell random strangers I admire their shoes/clothes/accessories in public places too.... and love seeing that little confident pep in their step as they walk away afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving this thread op, nice to share the good things in life. Thanks all for the nice comments. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empowering people, making people feel good about themselves. Just generally helping people.

I couldn't imagine life without doing this. It encompasses my job, my home life and my social life.

I sometimes have nothing left for myself, but that's the way I would rather be x

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I'm loving this thread op, nice to share the good things in life. Thanks all for the nice comments. X "

There was a method in my madness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Memories mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am most happy when I do an act of selflessness especially for my kid ...

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Memories mostly"

Yes I cry with laughter when I talk about memories with friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunshine on a rainy day

And my now 6ft 18 yr old teenager still coming for a cuddle and saying 'Love you'

Then he pats the top of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulling on my running gear and heading out into the country lanes and hills. It is such a stress release and I get to see some great sights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing with my younger sister as we have the same humour and sometimes don't even remember what started us off laughing. Seeing her for coffee later and that makes me happy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My garden

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"My garden"

I'm sorry that made me smile for all the wrong reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness & Sadness they can cancel each other out in an instance !

So make each day full of happiness and keep the sadness away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing something funny on twitter that makes me laugh for two seconds

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My garden

I'm sorry that made me smile for all the wrong reasons "

How do you know they're the wrong reasons

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"My garden

I'm sorry that made me smile for all the wrong reasons

How do you know they're the wrong reasons "

Now I'm laughing

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Rugby

Whisky

THE WIFE!!!!!!!

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"THE WIFE!!!!!!!!! Rugby

Whisky

"

FTFY they were in the wrong order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curled in bed with queen lying her head on my shoulder (as she refers to it MY SPOT) is happiness to me

King

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

For me happiness is seeing my boys happy. When they laugh, when they show courage. When they make me laugh. When they show how much they care for each other. And especially when they for no reason just stop and hug me. They are my world.

Sorry for the soppy post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my nieces and nephews together, knowing these little people will be the future of our family. All very different in their personalities and I can't wait to see who they all become. I have 8 of them and they're amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me happiness is seeing my boys happy. When they laugh, when they show courage. When they make me laugh. When they show how much they care for each other. And especially when they for no reason just stop and hug me. They are my world.

Sorry for the soppy post "

(in a good way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing others I care about happy gives me the most joy.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Seeing others I care about happy gives me the most joy. "

Love you hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding that one person to be an idiot with and ignoring your brain a bit sometimes, because sometimes it's worth the struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising that at my young age, i should be enjoying life not doing the same old same old.

So decided im going travelling for a year!

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

A few years back - I'd just split up with my wife, and I was really struggling financially with having to support my children and keep a roof over my head, whilst running my own business.

I had to make a last minute business trip to London by train. The ticket was £80 (which I could hardly afford) - so I wrote a cheque and handed it to the conductor. He gave me my ticket and then accidentally and unknowingly dropped the cheque near my foot, before walking off down the carriage to collect more fares. I noticed it on the floor, and instinctively put my foot over it, before surreptitiously picking it up and pocketing it.

I initially felt quite smug that I had in effect got free travel - and the £80 would certainly come in handy. However, later in the journey, the conductor returned and told me apologetically that he'd lost my cheque. I acted surprised, and went through the motions of looking under my seat for the mislaid cheque before shaking my head and telling him it wasn't there. He looked worried - and that's when the guilt kicked in.

Throughout the journey, the angel and devil on my shoulders argued over the situation; Lucifer arguing that the train company provide a crap service anyway, and a mere £80 means nothing to them - but it would make a huge difference to me in my present situation. Whereas St Michael argued that what I was doing was - in effect stealing. Who won? Well Lucifer did; and I decided to keep the cheque, but I didn't feel particularly good and I certainly wasn't very proud of myself.

On arrival at Kings Cross, as I walked down the carriage to the door, I noticed the guard on the phone - obviously getting an almighty bollocking from his boss about the lost cheque. In an instant, I changed my mind. I walked up to the guard and said; before I got off the train, I had another look for the cheque and it was under the seat in front - here it is.

The relief - and gratitude on his face was palpable, and a feeling of what I can only describe as enormous well-being came over me - which lasted throughout the day. The business meeting? Well, I absolutely nailed it.

So I suppose the answer as to what makes me happy - is simply doing the right thing by people. Well, that and the simple things that stimulate our senses and affirm life, such as the smell and smile of a baby, a friendly smile and greeting from a random stranger, a piece of music, the taste of a meal made for you with love, the feel of the early summer sunshine on your skin and time spent with the ones you love.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My daughter because she's just so much like me and my son because he's my best mate and we 100% have each other's back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing others I care about happy gives me the most joy.

Love you hubby "

Love is such a strong word how about we replace it with 'tolerate' fs I tolerate you too wifey

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Seeing others I care about happy gives me the most joy.

Love you hubby

Love is such a strong word how about we replace it with 'tolerate' fs I tolerate you too wifey "

Ok I love to tolerate you . Compromise another strong word

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"A few years back - I'd just split up with my wife, and I was really struggling financially with having to support my children and keep a roof over my head, whilst running my own business.

I had to make a last minute business trip to London by train. The ticket was £80 (which I could hardly afford) - so I wrote a cheque and handed it to the conductor. He gave me my ticket and then accidentally and unknowingly dropped the cheque near my foot, before walking off down the carriage to collect more fares. I noticed it on the floor, and instinctively put my foot over it, before surreptitiously picking it up and pocketing it.

I initially felt quite smug that I had in effect got free travel - and the £80 would certainly come in handy. However, later in the journey, the conductor returned and told me apologetically that he'd lost my cheque. I acted surprised, and went through the motions of looking under my seat for the mislaid cheque before shaking my head and telling him it wasn't there. He looked worried - and that's when the guilt kicked in.

Throughout the journey, the angel and devil on my shoulders argued over the situation; Lucifer arguing that the train company provide a crap service anyway, and a mere £80 means nothing to them - but it would make a huge difference to me in my present situation. Whereas St Michael argued that what I was doing was - in effect stealing. Who won? Well Lucifer did; and I decided to keep the cheque, but I didn't feel particularly good and I certainly wasn't very proud of myself.

On arrival at Kings Cross, as I walked down the carriage to the door, I noticed the guard on the phone - obviously getting an almighty bollocking from his boss about the lost cheque. In an instant, I changed my mind. I walked up to the guard and said; before I got off the train, I had another look for the cheque and it was under the seat in front - here it is.

The relief - and gratitude on his face was palpable, and a feeling of what I can only describe as enormous well-being came over me - which lasted throughout the day. The business meeting? Well, I absolutely nailed it.

So I suppose the answer as to what makes me happy - is simply doing the right thing by people. Well, that and the simple things that stimulate our senses and affirm life, such as the smell and smile of a baby, a friendly smile and greeting from a random stranger, a piece of music, the taste of a meal made for you with love, the feel of the early summer sunshine on your skin and time spent with the ones you love.

"

Thank you for sharing that and it's so true what you are saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those 3 little words... Lack of evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing with people. I know it obviously puts a smile on my face literally. But people being happy with me, makes me happy.

I hate myself if I ever upset anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Morning beautiful x' texts make me happy. I miss those

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Bunnyhop got me thinking with her favourite part thread. My favourite part of me is I care about ppl, especially the ones around me and I'm fiercely protective of them. Caring about ppl is one of the things that makes me happy. So as it's Sunday why not confess one of the things that make you happy? "

I'm exactly like you but on here if you behave like that people write posts about you accusing and shit mongering of coarse without naming you out right the real sad thing is how many jump on that bandwagon .

I'm a carer and fiercely protective of those i care about and you know what I'm bloody well proud of who those people are and of the fact i am that way . so i big thumbs up for this post op from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[That's the ticket fs at 14/05/17 11:00:56]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spending time with loved ones....nothing is better and never to be taken for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my daughter happy makes me happy XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laughing with people. I know it obviously puts a smile on my face literally. But people being happy with me, makes me happy.

I hate myself if I ever upset anyone. "

Oh god that's so me, I feel guilty even if it's something that person deserves. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bunnyhop got me thinking with her favourite part thread. My favourite part of me is I care about ppl, especially the ones around me and I'm fiercely protective of them. Caring about ppl is one of the things that makes me happy. So as it's Sunday why not confess one of the things that make you happy? "

This is me I'd lay my life on the line to protect my family and close friends

It broke my heart when my darling Dad then my amazing partner passed away within 6 months of each other 2 and a half years ago and I couldn't to a damn thing

I'm stronger then I ever though that I was though and I care and protect those close to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 50 years old now my good health makes me very happy.

I have a few minor niggles but when I see what some friends my age or even younger go through, I feel very fortunate not happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my nieces and nephews together, knowing these little people will be the future of our family. All very different in their personalities and I can't wait to see who they all become. I have 8 of them and they're amazing "

WOW - Thank you for sharing.

I can relate to this because I have 6 nieces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my nieces and nephews together, knowing these little people will be the future of our family. All very different in their personalities and I can't wait to see who they all become. I have 8 of them and they're amazing

WOW - Thank you for sharing.

I can relate to this because I have 6 nieces "

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

The thump thump of my dogs tails on the floor when I am stirring in the morning. They are always pleased to see me and get me out of bed with a smile on my face without fail no matter the hour.

They are fighting over a sunbeam in the garden. Instant happiness.

Life is gooooooooood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 50 years old now my good health makes me very happy.

I have a few minor niggles but when I see what some friends my age or even younger go through, I feel very fortunate not happy."

Im with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 50 years old now my good health makes me very happy.

I have a few minor niggles but when I see what some friends my age or even younger go through, I feel very fortunate not happy.

Im with you on this "
yep know where you're coming from life is great but for a few "niggles "as you say from living a life

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

What makes me happy??

The smile as you kiss someone good morning, warm sun on my skin, my daughters laughing and affectionately calling me a nobhead, hugs off them -18 & 21 they are few but so bloody good when I get them,

Disney sunsets(you know, one so good it looks like a film still ), the first swallow of a cold drink on a hot day, the smell of an open fire, watching a band side stage and waiting for the crowd to bounce - those 18hr days are then so worth it, being told 'no more orgasms for gods sake', fresh linen,

the view from whernside looking back towards ingleborough and the lakes, the smiles of my friends just being all together ..mainly the simple things in life that you can't help but smile at .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes me happy??

The smile as you kiss someone good morning, warm sun on my skin, my daughters laughing and affectionately calling me a nobhead, hugs off them -18 & 21 they are few but so bloody good when I get them,

Disney sunsets(you know, one so good it looks like a film still ), the first swallow of a cold drink on a hot day, the smell of an open fire, watching a band side stage and waiting for the crowd to bounce - those 18hr days are then so worth it, being told 'no more orgasms for gods sake', fresh linen,

the view from whernside looking back towards ingleborough and the lakes, the smiles of my friends just being all together ..mainly the simple things in life that you can't help but smile at . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son...."

Snap. He's made me feel immensely proud recently

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My children and dog

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It's Monday but I think we need reminding of what makes us happy, for me today it's believing that something wonderful is about to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now knowing what is wrong with my mini beast and having the right medicine to get her sorted out and back to her best again.

That makes me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my nieces and nephews together, knowing these little people will be the future of our family. All very different in their personalities and I can't wait to see who they all become. I have 8 of them and they're amazing

WOW - Thank you for sharing.

I can relate to this because I have 6 nieces

"

Take it you both go a bit jehovah witness at christmas

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Music makes me happy

https://youtu.be/y6Sxv-sUYtM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my nieces and nephews together, knowing these little people will be the future of our family. All very different in their personalities and I can't wait to see who they all become. I have 8 of them and they're amazing

WOW - Thank you for sharing.

I can relate to this because I have 6 nieces

"

And do you know how that gets even better? In the not too distant future (let's face it, time flies), they'll be having their own babies! I have 12 of the buggers and two of them have two of their own now and it's like a double whammy... it really is fabulous!

Other than that, simple things make me happy; walking up in the hills with the dog lollopping along all drooly besides me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the little things in life that make me happy. Not vast expenses of grandure just the little things

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

A clean house,oh and my teenage kid's when they're being vaguely human!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get a hug and a kiss from my teenage daughter, because she thinks Dad's don't need or want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a message to see if I'm ok despite mr grieving and looking after his family. And coming home to a clean house x

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