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"All I want is to get my penis sucked and my shoes polished. " Have you put a meet on? | |||
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"All I want is to get my penis sucked and my shoes polished. " Better than wanting to get your shoes sucked and your penis polished I guess!! | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " Yeah exactly | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " I wouldn't mind some back and forth with you | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" It depends on the thread. | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " With you there!! | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! I wouldn't mind some back and forth with you Let's take it to the max " Ok, I like your avatar. Let me sit on your lap | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" I don't mind fella all I worry about when I start a thread is I respond to those I like and that I respond to any new posters so they feel welcome in the forums . | |||
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"Is there a clique still?" Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face" Ouch!! | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face" That's my show tonight. Be nice | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face" Is that not just people who are up late? | |||
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"All I want is to get my penis sucked and my shoes polished. " There's a fetish fantasy in that somewhere | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Ouch!!" Ouch indeed | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? " All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" Yes really annoying | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? " Yeah basically. I mean the OP actually replies to everyone. That rarely happens on a thread on here - people just respond to those they like generally. | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" Avoid | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" I would think by the posts you make, you are self inflating, and don't like to feel undermined. JS | |||
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"I'm guilty of this at times, and of public back and forth flirting. Sometimes the enjoyment or confidence to do it is in the public rather than PM aspect too. Whilst I'm sorry if it irritates anyone, I certainly don't post with the intent to irritate the person who gets irritated (and have no power over that person's choice of response anyhow), I'm also perfectly entitled to post for my enjoyment as they are entitled to be irritated by it. Such is life! It's the same as the fact I get irritated with people feeling they can tell people to take it to PM and dumping their irritation on others -- they've every right to say and do it, it irritates me -- it's life! " You need spanking | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time " *plans to gatecrash the clique later* | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time " You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread" Fuck yes! I'm finally seen as a vampire! | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later*" Come on by | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread" Yep. Whilst you frantically fap over our photos | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread Fuck yes! I'm finally seen as a vampire! " I've got fangs | |||
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"I'm guilty of this at times, and of public back and forth flirting. Sometimes the enjoyment or confidence to do it is in the public rather than PM aspect too. Whilst I'm sorry if it irritates anyone, I certainly don't post with the intent to irritate the person who gets irritated (and have no power over that person's choice of response anyhow), I'm also perfectly entitled to post for my enjoyment as they are entitled to be irritated by it. Such is life! It's the same as the fact I get irritated with people feeling they can tell people to take it to PM and dumping their irritation on others -- they've every right to say and do it, it irritates me -- it's life! You need spanking " I second that. | |||
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"I don't think the clique takes it over but just friends who flirt or are very chummy. I do find it mildly irritating when it's someone asking for help only to have their thread taken over and mocked. That doesn't really make the forums the inclusive place it should be. But the mods are good at sorting that out if it gets ridic." I agree with this. Very often I can't be arsed to post because of this. | |||
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"Never bothers me, flirting starts at some point on most threads, just the way it is." | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" oooh so annoying I throw a tantrum ha nope do people do that then I'm new here | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by " But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win | |||
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"Sometimes I enjoy a thread going off at a tangent. Can be a lot of fun as it gives people more choice than the rigid questions at times x " | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit " I know what you mean, but I try not to take the forums too seriously. | |||
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"Sometimes I enjoy a thread going off at a tangent. Can be a lot of fun as it gives people more choice than the rigid questions at times x " I enjoy just going off | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face" You see that's unfair. There may be a group of people who post regularly there that you define as a clique because they enjoy interacting with each other, but...it's unfair in that the whole spirit of that particular thread by erectjim is based on the premise of "everyone being welcome and in particular newbies" -- read the opening intro to the thread. Look at the fact that Jim answers every single person on the thread (despite getting teased for slowness as it's bloody hard work to keep up) and he encourages new people and reminds the rest of the gang in there to do the same. As Meli posted above, that's atypical of threads (bar some) on the forum re answering everyone -- it's certainly unusual to actively start by encouraging newbies to post. So whatever "feeling" you have (joking, pissed off, irritated, whatever) about why you think that's a "cliquey" thread actually you're being a bit daft, in my opinion. Honey and I are starting the thread tonight and Jim will be joining later -- you're very welcome to join in and feel the inclusiveness, unless you'd prefer to be part of the clique that likes to pretend they're not for having human interactions! | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you can get a bloody word in but people only respond if you're friendly and post something they want to respond to,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win" FTFY | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" As fuck ... bitchy ladies | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win" I'll make sure you are looked after | |||
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"I know karate " same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face" Unnecessary | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win" Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. | |||
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"I know karate same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury " Try wing chun. No roundhouses, and it's more punches and blocks. | |||
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"I know karate same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury " 2nd Dan in kickboxing but lost my licence in 2006 due to an incident (that wasn't my fault) | |||
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"I know karate same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury 2nd Dan in kickboxing but lost my licence in 2006 due to an incident (that wasn't my fault) " Just go to another association. There's loads of different kick boxing clubs and associations. | |||
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"I know karate same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury Try wing chun. No roundhouses, and it's more punches and blocks. " Sounds like a plan, the hand speed is still there | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " | |||
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"I know karate same here, 1st dan but had to stop training due to long term hip injury 2nd Dan in kickboxing but lost my licence in 2006 due to an incident (that wasn't my fault) Just go to another association. There's loads of different kick boxing clubs and associations. " I can't ever go for another belt though. Caution for common assault and a total ban from WKU. I can help sometimes in my daughters academy but could never be an instructor on my own. | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread Yep. Whilst you frantically fap over our photos " Damn, you said the word now. Guess I'll have to go and fap..... | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. " I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face You see that's unfair. There may be a group of people who post regularly there that you define as a clique because they enjoy interacting with each other, but...it's unfair in that the whole spirit of that particular thread by erectjim is based on the premise of "everyone being welcome and in particular newbies" -- read the opening intro to the thread. Look at the fact that Jim answers every single person on the thread (despite getting teased for slowness as it's bloody hard work to keep up) and he encourages new people and reminds the rest of the gang in there to do the same. As Meli posted above, that's atypical of threads (bar some) on the forum re answering everyone -- it's certainly unusual to actively start by encouraging newbies to post. So whatever "feeling" you have (joking, pissed off, irritated, whatever) about why you think that's a "cliquey" thread actually you're being a bit daft, in my opinion. Honey and I are starting the thread tonight and Jim will be joining later -- you're very welcome to join in and feel the inclusiveness, unless you'd prefer to be part of the clique that likes to pretend they're not for having human interactions! " I've always been made to feel very welcome on that thread, and I certainly wouldn't say I'm part of any clique. I just jump in and join in a conversation on things I feel comfortable with. Always see new people being welcomed x | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " I do find that odd. But then I am odd ... so..... | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! I do find that odd. But then I am odd ... so....." Even odder when they are meant to be in the same room. | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! I do find that odd. But then I am odd ... so....." I like your posts you seem to have my sense of dry humour | |||
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"Who put 'angry' in the water this weekend? I preferred that weekend when everyone was horny as fuck " Well I've been drinking horny water then | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! I do find that odd. But then I am odd ... so..... I like your posts you seem to have my sense of dry humour" Or is that dry sense of humour? Oh you know what i mean | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy " Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. " And I'm probably saying this more based on the abuse I've had by PM and on forum in my time for daring to interact my way. People can be quite shitty. | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! I do find that odd. But then I am odd ... so..... I like your posts you seem to have my sense of dry humour Or is that dry sense of humour? Oh you know what i mean" | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread" Aww i have little images of cute fluffy bats like in Team Titan in my head now... *ups her medication* | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread Aww i have little images of cute fluffy bats like in Team Titan in my head now... *ups her medication* " I like your new name | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. " I've been here since before I had grey hair... I don't think there are cliques either, just people that like each other and interact. I don't join in on the night threads cos they go too fast for me but I smile from afar. | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. And I'm probably saying this more based on the abuse I've had by PM and on forum in my time for daring to interact my way. People can be quite shitty. " Not off me my sweet,i think once you get to know me you will get my humour and you will realise im just a sacastic pussy X | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time You all turn into bats and sit in your caves with phones and chat in the nocternal thread Aww i have little images of cute fluffy bats like in Team Titan in my head now... *ups her medication* I like your new name " thank you | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. I've been here since before I had grey hair... I don't think there are cliques either, just people that like each other and interact. I don't join in on the night threads cos they go too fast for me but I smile from afar. " Totally going to give you a wave tonight | |||
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"I'm guilty of this at times, and of public back and forth flirting. Sometimes the enjoyment or confidence to do it is in the public rather than PM aspect too. Whilst I'm sorry if it irritates anyone, I certainly don't post with the intent to irritate the person who gets irritated (and have no power over that person's choice of response anyhow), I'm also perfectly entitled to post for my enjoyment as they are entitled to be irritated by it. Such is life! It's the same as the fact I get irritated with people feeling they can tell people to take it to PM and dumping their irritation on others -- they've every right to say and do it, it irritates me -- it's life! " And this is why I you | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. I've been here since before I had grey hair... I don't think there are cliques either, just people that like each other and interact. I don't join in on the night threads cos they go too fast for me but I smile from afar. Totally going to give you a wave tonight " Me? | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Yes,you will find them later in the late late nocteral thread smiley fuckin face Is that not just people who are up late? All the clique wait until the others are asleep. It's been that way since the beginning of time *plans to gatecrash the clique later* Come on by But after jim has welcomed you thats it,you cant get a bloody word in,its just the vampires giggling away to themselves,i fucked of and went in the rock/metal thread then she went unlos!! Cant fuckin win Post! Interact! That's how you get a word in. Come on. Or start your own thread! So your frustration is that some people know each other a bit more and you feel left out -- people get to know each other by interacting/finding common interests etc, it's life -- you have to put effort in. I know how the forum works iv been in them for 5 years,and i was part of a clique until i fucked off,but im back more dry and acidic than before...only kidding im a pussy Thing is singling out that thread as being cliquey when the OP's aim is the oppposite is actually quite hurtful to him. Cliques/people all being familiar with each other (however you call it) beyond his control is one thing but digging at the thread premise is hurtful. As the overly familiar groups could do with breathing and being conscious of new posters without compromising their own enjoyment, the sarky "I tell the real truthers" of saying what's wrong and criticising others could do with considering if they care that what they say can hurt. I've been here since before I had grey hair... I don't think there are cliques either, just people that like each other and interact. I don't join in on the night threads cos they go too fast for me but I smile from afar. Totally going to give you a wave tonight Me? " Yeah you!! Like this.... / | |||
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"I think the answer to those who think there's a clique and want to be in one is to form their own. " I'm in my own little world | |||
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"I think the answer to those who think there's a clique and want to be in one is to form their own. I'm in my own little world " I'd like to clique your arse. | |||
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"I don't find it irritating as such, people should enjoy themselves in the way they wish. However I do feel its rude in that they are disregarding the original poster with their own agenda / attention seeking. " | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject " Well what did you expect? ?...cabbages? ?? | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject " So many - unusual that | |||
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"Sometimes I just think 'take it to PM FFS!' when two people go on a 50-post back and forth flirtathon! " But then we wouldn't be made aware of their connection mate | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject Well what did you expect? ?...cabbages? ?? " Oh, come off it - we didn't even get to broccoli or sprouts. It was all 'oohs and ahs' and stuff | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject So many - unusual that " The two messages (after some translation with their vulgar slang) amounted to something along the lines of "let's talk about something else" | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit " Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's " Just send out loads of messages, you will become immunised | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's " On the plus side I got to look at your pics | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's " I listen | |||
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"Sooo, who can I flirt with on here? " Bicep Bill | |||
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"All I want is to get my penis sucked and my shoes polished. " Or your ceiling cleaned or your oil changed | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject " Oooo I'll have you | |||
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"I started a thread about cabbages once and it only took 3 posts to get completely off subject " | |||
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"Sooo, who can I flirt with on here? Bicep Bill " Is Bill your left or right one, I forget | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's I listen " Then I'm happy ,you are the only one though To be fair I don't write much as I only text with one finger and it get's exhausted after a while | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's I listen Then I'm happy ,you are the only one though To be fair I don't write much as I only text with one finger and it get's exhausted after a while " I always type with one hand IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN!!!! | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's I listen Then I'm happy ,you are the only one though To be fair I don't write much as I only text with one finger and it get's exhausted after a while I always type with one hand IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN!!!!" What like is the other one occupied?! | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's I listen Then I'm happy ,you are the only one though To be fair I don't write much as I only text with one finger and it get's exhausted after a while I always type with one hand IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN!!!!" Because you're too busy pumping..... IRON!? | |||
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"Is there a clique still?" Absolutely 100% But the clique is a constantly changing entity. Different people will be in on the "in jokes" which change all the time therefore the people in the perceived clique change. I don't believe there's a clique club with the mentality of you can't join our ultra cool "in the know" club. | |||
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"All I want is to get my penis sucked and my shoes polished. " Me too. | |||
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"Is there a clique still? Absolutely 100% But the clique is a constantly changing entity. Different people will be in on the "in jokes" which change all the time therefore the people in the perceived clique change. I don't believe there's a clique club with the mentality of you can't join our ultra cool "in the know" club. " It's exactly this. You miss a day on the forum and you'll suddenly be outside of some joke or other. It's the clique attackers I often think are the non-inclusive ones. | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. " / Hi | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi" Hello. | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. " Wanna see some puppies? | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies?" Only if they're in the back of a van and you have sweeties. | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies?" Yes please. | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies?" I like puppies. Can I see puppies? I don't know the in jokes but I can tap out a secret knock? | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies? I like puppies. Can I see puppies? I don't know the in jokes but I can tap out a secret knock?" Yes. Do it now. | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies? I like puppies. Can I see puppies? I don't know the in jokes but I can tap out a secret knock? Yes. Do it now. " You wanot me to tap one out? | |||
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"This is my thread now. And its about puppies and rainbows. Enjoy. / Hi Hello. Wanna see some puppies? I like puppies. Can I see puppies? I don't know the in jokes but I can tap out a secret knock? Yes. Do it now. You wanot me to tap one out? " Only if you show me. | |||
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"I'm still quite new here, but I have found it very easy making friends and talking to people. I haven't found it to be at all cliquey, but I guess that's because I just talk to anyone " Being an attractive single woman helps | |||
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"I'm still quite new here, but I have found it very easy making friends and talking to people. I haven't found it to be at all cliquey, but I guess that's because I just talk to anyone Being an attractive single woman helps " I was just going to say that | |||
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"I'm still quite new here, but I have found it very easy making friends and talking to people. I haven't found it to be at all cliquey, but I guess that's because I just talk to anyone Being an attractive single woman helps I was just going to say that " Imm glad you did. Hello. . | |||
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"*tips hat to op* When you start a thread and someone takes over it..... because you've only posted twice in 140 plus posts " I had other things to do and got bored of people taking over. So let them. | |||
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"*tips hat to op* When you start a thread and someone takes over it..... because you've only posted twice in 140 plus posts I had other things to do and got bored of people taking over. So let them. " Touché | |||
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"Is this thread too big yet?" 28 post to go..... oops 27 now :D | |||
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"What gets my goat is when you reply and put your heart and soul into a response and the op replies to everyone but you. Makes me die inside a little bit Yeah it kinda make's you feel like you shouldn't have bothered. I do generally talk to myself on here nowaday's I listen " And I do. I notice lots of people. Sometimes I mail and tell them I like their posts. Though often blocked for age or sex or carrots. | |||
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" And I do. I notice lots of people. Sometimes I mail and tell them I like their posts. Though often blocked for age or sex or carrots. " But how can someone message you...when age filters are set at 98 to 99 | |||
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" And I do. I notice lots of people. Sometimes I mail and tell them I like their posts. Though often blocked for age or sex or carrots. But how can someone message you...when age filters are set at 98 to 99 " They aren't filters, anyone can mail me. | |||
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"I'm still quite new here, but I have found it very easy making friends and talking to people. I haven't found it to be at all cliquey, but I guess that's because I just talk to anyone Being an attractive single woman helps I was just going to say that " Great minds and all that.... | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" Oh this made me chuckle wildly - especially some of the replies! There are some sad individuals on here | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all over" hey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years " Has fab been going that long.....sorry | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry " You I've been on here ten years! | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! " Is there anyone else here that has been on that long? | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! Is there anyone else here that has been on that long? " Yes. Plenty | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! " It started in 2006 apparently | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! It started in 2006 apparently" Haha I lost track of time! I just know I've been on here with either this profile or my other one since very early days | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! It started in 2006 apparently Haha I lost track of time! I just know I've been on here with either this profile or my other one since very early days " It's all your fault then? | |||
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"ho hum - do i read all of this or not - maybe later - not long to go til its all overhey I started this thread in 1996 its been going for years Has fab been going that long.....sorry You I've been on here ten years! It started in 2006 apparently Haha I lost track of time! I just know I've been on here with either this profile or my other one since very early days It's all your fault then? " Ahhh why not - everything else seems to be! Hahahahaha | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" Not but then i'm not passive nor paranoid. | |||
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"Due to being in a clique. Do you find it annoying or not?" You'll find they probably do the same thing in person when speaking to others. Someone starts a convo, broaches a subject or personal matter. Within a few sentences the person they're speaking to inevitably refocuses the convo or starts talking about themselves one way or another. Sadly some people have lots to say but nothing to talk about. The art of two way conversation certainly is that. It doesn't really annoy it just creates a grin and spells a few things out. | |||
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