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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?

I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.

I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.

I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get messages like that, the benefit of being single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?

I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.

I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.

I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "

Drives me bonkers especially when you write the "list" and think, shit, I'm not as naughty as I thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah - but what ARE you in to?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Yeah - but what ARE you in to? "

This will be a real shocker............MEN

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I'm feeling blessed by Loki I will reel off a long list of genres, musical periods and art that interest me.

I don't mind that question. I tend to ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err I like the great outdoors, sailing, bike riding and the other stuff.

I didn't think sex was a sport..just take your clothes off and interact...it's fairly obv5 when they knee you in the balls you've done something unpleasant for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get messages like that, the benefit of being single male "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get messages like that, the benefit of being single male "

Haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?

I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.

I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.

I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "

Tell me about it, I just say oh the normal stuff. I have our interests listed, if we want different we'd ask. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?

I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.

I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.

I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "
some people just dont have great conversational skills oh and just want to get straight to sex suppose sometimes you've just got to see beyond the occasional daft question

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its a good way to filter out people who haven't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's make things short then. What DONT you like?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If anything I will actually ask the opposite (i.e. what are you NOT into) and even then only once we've progressed as far as talking about a meet and to be sure I'm aware of any boundaries before that meet.

Would much prefer a meet that is fluid, where you find out unconciously what makes each other tick, without having a shopping list of things to tick off during that meet.

If there's something they particularly like and they choose to tell me beforehand that's slightly different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess maybe it cuts to the chase quicker. What works for some won't for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess maybe it cuts to the chase quicker. What works for some won't for others. "
true we are all different and moods come into the equation too oh and if profile pics amazing that could sway you to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits OP

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


" Err I like the great outdoors, sailing, bike riding and the other stuff.

I didn't think sex was a sport..just take your clothes off and interact...it's fairly obv5 when they knee you in the balls you've done something unpleasant for them "

Depends what you're into ha;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice tits OP "

Great photographer ha

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