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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. If I have something to say I'll say it. Regardless of outcome. After all. It's only a website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope the lady in question is ok. That's all i have to say.

I don't know many people well enough to get personal and vent so no, i'd leave quietly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope the lady in question is ok. That's all i have to say.

I don't know many people well enough to get personal and vent so no, i'd leave quietly."

Which thread are we talking about

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Nah. If I have something to say I'll say it. Regardless of outcome. After all. It's only a website"

I kind of agree although I am never personal when I do it but and I never enjoy having to do it .

which begs the question why not just walk away again up bringing its just not the way i was raised to deal with conflict i was raised to face conflict head on its the east end way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why some people vent. Its got me on the naughty step a few times!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I hope the lady in question is ok. That's all i have to say.

I don't know many people well enough to get personal and vent so no, i'd leave quietly.

Which thread are we talking about "

why is it

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time "

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion .

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I read it this morning it didn't make a pleasant read! That's going to be pretty awkward in a week when she's back,personally I don't get that involved with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity begets negativity some really enjoy it and threads that start off with a negative always seem to attract those people ,you can't please alla the people alla the time but what's the point of all jumping on bandwagon to have a dig ,say something nice or dont say anything at all that's my motto I'm sat by pool having a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone."
you havnt met me yet cmon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.you havnt met me yet cmon"

i was just admiring your pics

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I read it this morning it didn't make a pleasant read! That's going to be pretty awkward in a week when she's back,personally I don't get that involved with people."

it was a outburst of supressed emotion and as i read it i felt nothing but sadness for how bad things must have got for such a outburst to happen in the first place .

i never gossip behind anyone's back as that is again not how i was raised to behave and because it leads to the kind of outbursts witnessed in said threads

sad and a lesson in how bitter things can turn when negative emotions are allowed to fester .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion ."

That thread was a prime example of fab forums, it had everything, male bashing, bandwagon jumpers, forum warriors. Every thread all rolled into one

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone."

That's a good point actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people post things that others have been thinking for a while though. I can understand how it would happen, how many times have people written a post, telling it as it is, to then delete it before posting? Or sometimes posting it and then deleting straight away?

We are all human and despite our best efforts to avoid stuff, sometimes we get drawn in and comment. That's why you have to love fab, the diversity of it all, oh and the comedy gold moments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why some people vent. Its got me on the naughty step a few times!

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OK. Ive just read it. It appears I didnt know what the true meaning if venting was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion .

That thread was a prime example of fab forums, it had everything, male bashing, bandwagon jumpers, forum warriors. Every thread all rolled into one"

both threads were very nasty and because of that fact if you a newbie i bet very very off putting and not a good advert for fab or swinging in general in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its better to vent than to bottle it up. So doing when when you leave a medium which essentially has minimal repercussions seems ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.you havnt met me yet cmon

i was just admiring your pics "
awwww thankyou I hope I'm so much better in the flesh

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can understand why some people vent. Its got me on the naughty step a few times!

OK. Ive just read it. It appears I didnt know what the true meaning if venting was "

That's what I did when I read it...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I imagine it would depend on why I am leaving. But I make it obvious now those I like and those I'm not particularly fond of so there wouldn't be anything to explode about really.

I do wonder how much bitching on these kik groups goes on now though. Thank fuck I'm not part of that and don't really share things with people on here.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Sometimes people post things that others have been thinking for a while though. I can understand how it would happen, how many times have people written a post, telling it as it is, to then delete it before posting? Or sometimes posting it and then deleting straight away?

We are all human and despite our best efforts to avoid stuff, sometimes we get drawn in and comment. That's why you have to love fab, the diversity of it all, oh and the comedy gold moments! "

as adults we are all accountable for our actions and nether are we sheep who follow the leader . that means we are responsible for our own words and actions .

i for one never start i only respond that's because again my up bringing which was to never be or act as a bully and to always stand up for myself and others if the need arises .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day the site is doing anything other than amusing you, is the day you should simply hide your profile, ponder then if you still feel like that days later just delete it.

I've done it over the past several years. Why do people enjoy drama so much? Is it because their lives are missing important things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go out with a wimper.

Did anyone get her birthday?

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


" The day the site is doing anything other than amusing you, is the day you should simply hide your profile, ponder then if you still feel like that days later just delete it.

I've done it over the past several years. Why do people enjoy drama so much? Is it because their lives are missing important things? "

because misery loves misery . that saying sums it all up you know a miserable unhappy person a mile away as they will always be causing or trying to cause misery at every opotunity .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised that thread hadn't been removed yet. As soon as admin see it it'll go.

So much dramarana hey? FFS this is meant to be fun innit? Why all the angst and gossip and behind-people's-backs whispering

Anyone - can someone tell me who UNLOSed please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh my goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go out with a wimper.

Did anyone get her birthday? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The day the site is doing anything other than amusing you, is the day you should simply hide your profile, ponder then if you still feel like that days later just delete it.

I've done it over the past several years. Why do people enjoy drama so much? Is it because their lives are missing important things?

because misery loves misery . that saying sums it all up you know a miserable unhappy person a mile away as they will always be causing or trying to cause misery at every opotunity . "

True, though let's face it going out in a blaze of glory only leaves you with the negative emotions.

Learn to debate on the forums,not argue?

We're all different but I doubt they feel better doing it that way. Slip away quietly or say goodbye politely. People go, but they way they left stays forever as a good friend once said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why some people vent. Its got me on the naughty step a few times!

OK. Ive just read it. It appears I didnt know what the true meaning if venting was "

I may need to up my game on the Thursday Rant threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey people come and people come mmmmm

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm surprised that thread hadn't been removed yet. As soon as admin see it it'll go.

So much dramarana hey? FFS this is meant to be fun innit? Why all the angst and gossip and behind-people's-backs whispering

Anyone - can someone tell me who UNLOSed please? "

I'm surprised it's still there. Can't tell you who is was,was it Scarlett someone don't know...

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Which thread? What's it called and in which area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which thread? What's it called and in which area?"

I know. Fucking love this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet there were some awkward pm's between folk after that thread though!

Name dropping bombs all over it!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??"

Why is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it "

Ahh right 180 posts, thank you.

I hate being out the loop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people should just let sleeping dogs lie. People have stuff going on in their lives that will make them feel shite and sometimes attack is the first form of defence. Let people go Unlos in peace.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


" oh my goodness"

shocking tink wasn't it .

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it "

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me .

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Well fuck me, my eyes just went

Seems people get way too involved with each other on here, glad I'm a miserable twat sometimes.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me ."

How many time's do you fall out with people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people post things that others have been thinking for a while though. I can understand how it would happen, how many times have people written a post, telling it as it is, to then delete it before posting? Or sometimes posting it and then deleting straight away?

We are all human and despite our best efforts to avoid stuff, sometimes we get drawn in and comment. That's why you have to love fab, the diversity of it all, oh and the comedy gold moments!

as adults we are all accountable for our actions and nether are we sheep who follow the leader . that means we are responsible for our own words and actions .

i for one never start i only respond that's because again my up bringing which was to never be or act as a bully and to always stand up for myself and others if the need arises . "

I know what it means, but thanks for explaining. Just because you don't start a thread it doesn't mean that you can't act as a bully in responding (this is a general comment), some may believe they are standing up for themselves but it usually comes across as something totally different. Surely the best way is not to comment at all?

There have been times when I've written responses to people on here but then deleted them because actually it's like young children, any response whether good or bad is going to feed into their behaviour so it's best to ignore them. (Although I don't always succeed!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone."

Not everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people post things that others have been thinking for a while though. I can understand how it would happen, how many times have people written a post, telling it as it is, to then delete it before posting? Or sometimes posting it and then deleting straight away?

We are all human and despite our best efforts to avoid stuff, sometimes we get drawn in and comment. That's why you have to love fab, the diversity of it all, oh and the comedy gold moments! "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

Not everyone. "

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me .

How many time's do you fall out with people?! "

I've only had to pull three people up in my time on here but i viewed them as nice people who over stepped so i asked them out right what the problem was and we chatted about it and it was all good .

the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" oh my goodness

shocking tink wasn't it .

"

I have had to bleach my eyes and do some extra twirls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to vent every now and again to let it all out, rather than explode like that poster did.

That's why I'm up front about my thoughts, but in a adult even tempered way.

It's all very well to say it's just words on the Internet - but it's recorded digitally. Even if the thread gets deleted, it's still likely to be held on a server somewhere.

We've had problems with fab and swinging before. So we've taken a break by deleting or hiding the profile.

It just seems incredibly childish.

We've got plenty of dirty laundry to air, but we understand the meaning of discretion, it seems more and apparent that others don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

Not everyone.

"

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me .

How many time's do you fall out with people?!

I've only had to pull three people up in my time on here but i viewed them as nice people who over stepped so i asked them out right what the problem was and we chatted about it and it was all good .

the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away . "

I seem to remember we had a disagreement the other day, I don't seem to remember any discussion between us in private........

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me .

How many time's do you fall out with people?!

I've only had to pull three people up in my time on here but i viewed them as nice people who over stepped so i asked them out right what the problem was and we chatted about it and it was all good .

the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away . "

Suppose it depends on how much you care about what random people on here say about you. I'd just tell them to f*ck off if I couldn't be bothered,but that's where I may be going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well fuck me, my eyes just went

Seems people get way too involved with each other on here, glad I'm a miserable twat sometimes."

It's liberating being a miserable twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion .

That thread was a prime example of fab forums, it had everything, male bashing, bandwagon jumpers, forum warriors. Every thread all rolled into one

both threads were very nasty and because of that fact if you a newbie i bet very very off putting and not a good advert for fab or swinging in general in my opinion ."

Good, newbies should know the forums are full of keyboard warriors and often has a mob mentality surrounding it.

I don't mind because I'm very easy going and don't really give a toss what others think, im just here to have a laugh and a joke

But others who are more sensitive should view that thread of possibilities to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away . "

Sometimes walking away is actually the most sensible option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooft I've just read that thread. It's going to make for a pretty uncomfortable read for some.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away .

Sometimes walking away is actually the most sensible option. "

I don't want to be made to leave here for a long time so just not responding and taking a break is a good way of doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooft I've just read that thread. It's going to make for a pretty uncomfortable read for some.

"

Who was the op?

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Love this ay when people are talking about a thread but never say the name of it. What thread is it??

Why is it

and another where it was even worse .

why people don't hash it out in private like i do 9 times out of 10 is beyond me .

How many time's do you fall out with people?!

I've only had to pull three people up in my time on here but i viewed them as nice people who over stepped so i asked them out right what the problem was and we chatted about it and it was all good .

the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away .

Suppose it depends on how much you care about what random people on here say about you. I'd just tell them to f*ck off if I couldn't be bothered,but that's where I may be going wrong "

yes that exactly the right attitude and the east end way you see i would say that in the middle of a crowded pub to someone who over stepped the line.

i do the sanme on here the east end way is to take no shit from a stranger but to chat things out with your friends hence if i view you as someone who in normal life id associate with i chat privately to you about things if not i will publicly pull you up .

different behaviour for different opinions on someone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion .

That thread was a prime example of fab forums, it had everything, male bashing, bandwagon jumpers, forum warriors. Every thread all rolled into one

both threads were very nasty and because of that fact if you a newbie i bet very very off putting and not a good advert for fab or swinging in general in my opinion .

Good, newbies should know the forums are full of keyboard warriors and often has a mob mentality surrounding it.

I don't mind because I'm very easy going and don't really give a toss what others think, im just here to have a laugh and a joke

But others who are more sensitive should view that thread of possibilities to come "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I commented on it last night to see if they gave their true thoughts about me, I love honesty threads. Who was it anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that is why I don't do drama, by the way Lib, I love you !

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


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the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away .

Sometimes walking away is actually the most sensible option.

I don't want to be made to leave here for a long time so just not responding and taking a break is a good way of doing it."

taking a break would imply that you are in the wrong

why should someone take a brake who is on the end of a forum post or even a forum topic of pure malice designed to cause offence and trouble take a break or walk away .

you don't stop a bully by walking away you stop them by calling then out showing the world there actions in the process .

well that how I was brought up and you no something I never suffered from any form of bullying ether as a kid or adult nor have any of my friends because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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I do wonder how much bitching on these kik groups goes on now though. Thank fuck I'm not part of that and don't really share things with people on here."

I agree, there are too many going on and why I actually have a comment at the bottom of my profile about them, as I have been subjected to the bullying that goes on behind closed doors, some people are just twats by nature though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can be bullied on the internet. It's just words. You can't even argue properly on here cos you'll get timeouts and what's the point of arguing on a screen with someone miles away from you that you'll never bump into.

I'd rather meet and have a scrap and sort it and be friends again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

Not everyone.

I don't "
me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you can be bullied on the internet. It's just words. You can't even argue properly on here cos you'll get timeouts and what's the point of arguing on a screen with someone miles away from you that you'll never bump into.

I'd rather meet and have a scrap and sort it and be friends again. "

A good old rumble followed by make up sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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the rest i will publicly call out again because of up bringing i was raised to never start but to always stand my ground if i feel I'm being wronged a stark contrast to how kids are raised today where its all walk away .

Sometimes walking away is actually the most sensible option.

I don't want to be made to leave here for a long time so just not responding and taking a break is a good way of doing it.

taking a break would imply that you are in the wrong

why should someone take a brake who is on the end of a forum post or even a forum topic of pure malice designed to cause offence and trouble take a break or walk away .

you don't stop a bully by walking away you stop them by calling then out showing the world there actions in the process .

well that how I was brought up and you no something I never suffered from any form of bullying ether as a kid or adult nor have any of my friends because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you ."

Someone disagreeing though isn't necessarily bullying is it?

Plus if they are bullying why bother retaliating as they will show themselves up without the need for biting back. They're not worth the effort in my eyes.

And taking a break can be good if you're not in the right frame of mind to be here. That's why hiding a profile is an option on site otherwise they wouldn't bother having it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go full on Britney. Hair shaved craziness! Or maybe I'd just quietly delete my profile without mentioning it....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you ."

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go full on Britney. Hair shaved craziness! Or maybe I'd just quietly delete my profile without mentioning it.... "
awwwww and your bum cheeks would be sadly missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you can be bullied on the internet. It's just words. You can't even argue properly on here cos you'll get timeouts and what's the point of arguing on a screen with someone miles away from you that you'll never bump into.

I'd rather meet and have a scrap and sort it and be friends again. "

Good point. I think though from those threads there was an element of people who've interacted in the 'real world' and were then using the forums to pick a fight. But I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm quite chilled anyhow gotta dash I'm busy with pipe bombs today

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I don't think you can be bullied on the internet. It's just words. You can't even argue properly on here cos you'll get timeouts and what's the point of arguing on a screen with someone miles away from you that you'll never bump into.

I'd rather meet and have a scrap and sort it and be friends again. "

really no bullying on the internet oor that people don't use the internet who are bullies by nature to bully invisibly safe behind there key board

you joking right adults and children have committed suicide over social media bullying

which always starts with a unfounded rumour being started by one sad individual that leads to others pilling in making the life of said individual a misery to the point said individual feels the only way out is to end there life .

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up . "

I haven't seen the thread in question and I'm quite glad about it. My answer is no. If it ever got to that point that I felt that strongly about people I have never met, enough to post a thread full of suppressed anger, then it would be a sign I should have gone UNLOS years back. I have been on the receiving end of such rancour once on here (to my knowledge; it could have happened again but I remain unaware). It didn't feel very nice so why would I want anyone else to feel that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you can be bullied on the internet. It's just words. You can't even argue properly on here cos you'll get timeouts and what's the point of arguing on a screen with someone miles away from you that you'll never bump into.

I'd rather meet and have a scrap and sort it and be friends again.

A good old rumble followed by make up sex "

Make up sex is great but max factor gets expensive

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up . "

What is the thread called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up .

What is the thread called"

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

If I had a great shit in the morning I decide to leave Fab, I wouldn't.

But if I had a bad shit, (diarrhea, sore rectum coupled with a rotten smell...)hell yes I would.

It is all related with my bowel movement at the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never see the point in the threads anyway really, most come back eventually one way or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

If I had a great shit in the morning I decide to leave Fab, I wouldn't.

But if I had a bad shit, (diarrhea, sore rectum coupled with a rotten smell...)hell yes I would.

It is all related with my bowel movement at the minute.

"

Tut tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up .

What is the thread called

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom. "

It's actually gone now so we all need to stop discussing a deleted thread.

I understand the frustration of not knowing what it is people are talking about but I'll tell you honestly that it was just someone having a go at some people they knew on a personal level. Nothing juicy and upon reading I was just like, ahh right well that was shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up .

What is the thread called

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom. "

I'm sure it's been removed as I can't find it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

What is the thread called

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom. "

Looks like it's been deleted and probably rightly so if it was as bad as I'm hearing

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"

What is the thread called

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom.

Looks like it's been deleted and probably rightly so if it was as bad as I'm hearing"

it was and not very nice reading like a lots of posts on here end up in my opinion once the nasty thinly hidden anger begins to show through in posts

in all honesty it was pre planned by someone with a lot of anger at others giving full voice to it as they were leaving .

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up .

I haven't seen the thread in question and I'm quite glad about it. My answer is no. If it ever got to that point that I felt that strongly about people I have never met, enough to post a thread full of suppressed anger, then it would be a sign I should have gone UNLOS years back. I have been on the receiving end of such rancour once on here (to my knowledge; it could have happened again but I remain unaware). It didn't feel very nice so why would I want anyone else to feel that way? "

it wasn't a nice read I feel sorry for the op and those involved and as a advert for fab and the swinging world in general well no wonder they removed it as from a pr stand point it was a career ender .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was funny finding out who was fucking who though tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly been an eye opener. I didn't even know these forum kik groups existed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You women are such gossips

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess."

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It was funny finding out who was fucking who though tbh "

veries must make you laugh your arse off then

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation ."

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative "

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was funny finding out who was fucking who though tbh

veries must make you laugh your arse off then "

Well there are some classics. Although I'm referring to the ones whose partner didn't know they were fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart . "

Someone is a coward for not standing up to bullies?!

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It was funny finding out who was fucking who though tbh

veries must make you laugh your arse off then

Well there are some classics. Although I'm referring to the ones whose partner didn't know they were fucking"

ooo you mean malice practiced by a sad person designed to cause misery you find funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What is the thread called

It's called "why is it" 180 posts long and the meltdown is towards the bottom.

Looks like it's been deleted and probably rightly so if it was as bad as I'm hearing

it was and not very nice reading like a lots of posts on here end up in my opinion once the nasty thinly hidden anger begins to show through in posts

in all honesty it was pre planned by someone with a lot of anger at others giving full voice to it as they were leaving ."

I don't think any of us really know the ins and outs unless we were there or are the people involved. Probably best to not speculate and especially talk about others when they're not here to defend themselves!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart .

Someone is a coward for not standing up to bullies?! "

Could be a million different reasons. Confidence various conditions etc. Labelling as cowardly is not helpful.

I am supporting a worker whose son is being bullied due to crippling shyness. To say he was a coward would be very counter productive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go it will be riding on the back of the most elaborate full on diva inspired feather boa flicking flounce out ever seen on forums....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something.

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart . "

You just typed it's not bullying if they stand up for themselves

Fuck me I'm done with the contradictory circular logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read any threads today apart from this one, but in answer to the OP then no I wouldn't rant and leave. I am not that involved or interested enough in other people on here to do so. It is only a website, peoples opinions on here have no input into my life in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a couple of melt down threads on here where someone leaving the site decided to let rip with all the suppressed anger they had for some on here .

now the question is would you go for it like that if you decided to leave .

me personally I wouldn't because i wouldn't need to /

if I have something to say I don't let it fester a say it privately or sometimes publicly to the person involved no hidden innuendo or beating around the bush i say it out right as that's how i was brought up . "

Depends on how I'm feeling.. sometimes it's a relief to let it all blow out.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart .

Someone is a coward for not standing up to bullies?! "

most people who suffer at the hands of a bully don't speak out for fear of reprisals

that is how bullies operate they rely on fear instil in normally a insecure person who will not speak out because of there insecurities and lack of self believe .

that makes the bullies a coward and all those who jump on the bandwagon no better than the bully the victim is a victim only until they don't stand up for themselves .

as for your question is a victim a coward if they lack the self believe to stand up for themselves not really in my opinion .

because put such a person in a environment where they can find themselves and find confidence in themselves and you will have a person who will never stand by while others are bullied nor would they join in .

bullies are often victims themselves hence why you hear me quote the line misery loves misery but that doesn't excuse there actions everyone is accountable for their action something i strongly believe in due to a little thing called free will free choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart .

Someone is a coward for not standing up to bullies?!

most people who suffer at the hands of a bully don't speak out for fear of reprisals

that is how bullies operate they rely on fear instil in normally a insecure person who will not speak out because of there insecurities and lack of self believe .

that makes the bullies a coward and all those who jump on the bandwagon no better than the bully the victim is a victim only until they don't stand up for themselves .

as for your question is a victim a coward if they lack the self believe to stand up for themselves not really in my opinion .

because put such a person in a environment where they can find themselves and find confidence in themselves and you will have a person who will never stand by while others are bullied nor would they join in .

bullies are often victims themselves hence why you hear me quote the line misery loves misery but that doesn't excuse there actions everyone is accountable for their action something i strongly believe in due to a little thing called free will free choice . "

Many times the bullied at some point become the bully.

Happened to me.. I was picked on physically by three lads at school.. I ended up picking on teenagers with special needs when I was 12.. Still very ashamed of those two incidents.. I was a kid, I'm not the same person anymore.. but not quite fully forgiven myself yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because its only bullying if you do nothing about it when it happens to you .

What utter bollocks. It's bullying regardless of if you do nothing about it or something. And I was saying it from my viewpoint thanks - it doesn't mean I'm in the wrong but more I decide it's not worth my time. But it's great you have your opinion about how to deal with things - everyone has different I guess.

a bully bullies because no one stands up to them,

a victim is a victim until the moment they stand up for themselves at that point the bully can not bully so really cant be called a bully any more than the person standing up for themselves can say they are being bullied .

logically really well to me it is the best way to handle any negative behaviour towards you is not to walk away but to face it head you wont feel better about it but you still have respect for yourself the day after .

the hardest thing for a coward is to wake up every day knowing their a coward who did nothing out of fear for you own self preservation .

OP, still bollocks. You referenced those who have committed suicide to through cyber bullying. There are several incidents where people have 'stood up for themselves' and yet it doesn't go well and sadly things happen. Don't cheapen it by saying it's not bullying to suit your nonsense narrative

its bullying as you well know be it verbal or otherwise and standing up to such behaviour is always the best response

being a mouse leads to more and more people pilling in joining the bandwagon normally for fear of being next victim of the bullies again coward behaviour practised by cowards much like bullying is at its heart .

Someone is a coward for not standing up to bullies?!

most people who suffer at the hands of a bully don't speak out for fear of reprisals

that is how bullies operate they rely on fear instil in normally a insecure person who will not speak out because of there insecurities and lack of self believe .

that makes the bullies a coward and all those who jump on the bandwagon no better than the bully the victim is a victim only until they don't stand up for themselves .

as for your question is a victim a coward if they lack the self believe to stand up for themselves not really in my opinion .

because put such a person in a environment where they can find themselves and find confidence in themselves and you will have a person who will never stand by while others are bullied nor would they join in .

bullies are often victims themselves hence why you hear me quote the line misery loves misery but that doesn't excuse there actions everyone is accountable for their action something i strongly believe in due to a little thing called free will free choice . "

Have you ever been bullied? Or know someone who has? I can't believe that you would say that a victim of a bully is a coward, wow, just wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was funny finding out who was fucking who though tbh

veries must make you laugh your arse off then

Well there are some classics. Although I'm referring to the ones whose partner didn't know they were fucking

ooo you mean malice practiced by a sad person designed to cause misery you find funny "

I think people gave as good as they got

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"But it was a good read and quite funny at the time

i saw it as all rather sad to be honest fella and in my opinion it does not show fab or its forum in a the best light ether .

but that can be said of a lot of the behaviour at times in the forum in my opinion .

That thread was a prime example of fab forums, it had everything, male bashing, bandwagon jumpers, forum warriors. Every thread all rolled into one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it "

You weren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't."

Thank fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck! "

When I go I'll name you Courtney

#mylustcrush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck! "

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?"

yeah Courtney!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?"

I dunno. I get all nervous about these threads where people name people after another thread where I was named and wish I hadn't been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

When I go I'll name you Courtney

#mylustcrush"

Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

When I go I'll name you Courtney

#mylustcrush

Meh. "

*faps*

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?

I dunno. I get all nervous about these threads where people name people after another thread where I was named and wish I hadn't been. "

I feel you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?

I dunno. I get all nervous about these threads where people name people after another thread where I was named and wish I hadn't been.

I feel you. "

I want to feel you and her.

(But yes, that one was not nice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to name you all in my upcoming book. 'Confessions of a Moderately Fat Swinger'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to name you all in my upcoming book. 'Confessions of a Moderately Fat Swinger'. "

Mine's :

Waps and Flaps: the Forum Years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't."

was i mentioned....again?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I'm going to name you all in my upcoming book. 'Confessions of a Moderately Fat Swinger'.

Mine's :

Waps and Flaps: the Forum Years."

I've given this some thought :

Quintessentially Quimming - One Woman's Voyage of Forums, Faps and Frolics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to name you all in my upcoming book. 'Confessions of a Moderately Fat Swinger'.

Mine's :

Waps and Flaps: the Forum Years."

Stealing this. Just FYI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone."

You have a friend in me fs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine's :

Faps and Flaps: the Forum Years."

FTFM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine's :

Faps and Flaps: the Forum Years.

FTFM."

*faps hard because Lib semi-interacted with me*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

You have a friend in me fs "

Aww M1cks, every day in every way i you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what though, that thread made me appreciate that i have no "friends" on here, as clearly everyone just bitches about everyone.

You have a friend in me fs

Aww M1cks, every day in every way i you more "

Just send me nudes yeh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short to let rip on a forum like this. It's like some people lose a grip on reality and the things that really matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the actual fuck did I miss this morning?!

I didn't read the thread in question. I'll just hope I wasn't named on it

You weren't.

Thank fuck!

Why would you think you would be named? What you been up to?

I dunno. I get all nervous about these threads where people name people after another thread where I was named and wish I hadn't been.

I feel you. "

So do I. ..in a completely unpervy way of course

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