FabSwingers.com forum: MEN!!!

By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not a man n I'm bad at keeping in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

I was thinking about this the other day.

Women love to keep in touch and there is nothing wrong with that

But men can go weeks without talking and still happily go for a pint with their mates as if they seen them yesterday

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By *erfect TenWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have found they are pretty good at it too good at times lol.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You mean fab men or men in general?

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

I do try and keep in touch with people I'm talking with

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I find some keep in touch too much for my liking

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Fab men, but I suppose men in general really?

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

I always text a woman. Texting a man is a completely different story lol

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I can be rubbish too

I've been a bit like that this week

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Fab men, but I suppose men in general really?"

Then, yes I have to agree with you about fab guys but I can't comment about other guys because they don't talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at it. I'm just naturally a hermit who occasionally has spikes of sociability.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm hopeless at chatting aimlessly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm terrible at it. I'm just naturally a hermit who occasionally has spikes of sociability."

You are utterly shit at replying!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes they can be poor at it but I just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHzjgNoRmjg

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm hopeless at chatting aimlessly

Oh no, that's what I dreamed of doing with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm terrible at it. I'm just naturally a hermit who occasionally has spikes of sociability.

You are utterly shit at replying! "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If a man wants to text/chat/call he will. If he doesn't then he won't.

No point hassling him or messaging him, just leave it and keep talking to everyone else

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm hopeless at chatting aimlessly

Oh no, that's what I dreamed of doing with you

We have something to talk about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm terrible at it. I'm just naturally a hermit who occasionally has spikes of sociability.

You are utterly shit at replying! "

Kettle meet pot

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"If a man wants to text/chat/call he will. If he doesn't then he won't.

No point hassling him or messaging him, just leave it and keep talking to everyone else

Not hassling him. Worse thing I could do, I know that!! Just a bit frustrating lol, that's why I started the thread to get other points of _iew x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm hopeless at chatting aimlessly

Oh no, that's what I dreamed of doing with you

We have something to talk about.

Oh yeah

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If a man wants to text/chat/call he will. If he doesn't then he won't.

No point hassling him or messaging him, just leave it and keep talking to everyone else

Not hassling him. Worse thing I could do, I know that!! Just a bit frustrating lol, that's why I started the thread to get other points of _iew x"

That's my point, I forget about them so there's no frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what the OP is asking exactly. But when my wife and first got together it was a long distance relationship, so lots of texting was important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we just dont want to seem pushy. Nobody wants to appear clingy or over-keen.

I'm always up for a conversation but when the replies dry up and message 'ping pong' becomes all ping and no pong, then I get the message and stop sending.

Find the right person, on your communication wavelength and I can happily whatsapp my arse off, every day, with a big silly grin

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By *8rkMan
over a year ago

Windsor

I always reply. I feel guilty if I don't and have a timer running g in my head until I've replied. Isn't it simple courtesy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm terrible at it. I'm just naturally a hermit who occasionally has spikes of sociability.

You are utterly shit at replying!

Kettle meet pot

Haha!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i'm shit at keeping in touch also. it's not always men, just i overload myself and get distracted easily and focus on things other than keeping in touch.

i didn't used to be but just got into the habit since i started chatting to a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm pretty bad to be fair

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm quite crap at keeping messages going within a set time frame so I don't mind if men are too as it takes the pressure off me.

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother "

He chats when he wants it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

Texting works for me right now. It's quite exciting getting a message sometimes. Unless it's o2 telling my data is going to run out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im really bad for reading a message and forgetting to reply. I think I might be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im really bad for reading a message and forgetting to reply. I think I might be a man

Don't say that

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Thanks everyone, think I understand now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im really bad for reading a message and forgetting to reply. I think I might be a man

Behave bunny X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother

He chats when he wants it lol"

Id tell him to get fucked it should be when you want to talk to!

Some guys on here really are all just chat anyway and need to do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

I'll happily text / message anyone about anything. Just had a decent fun exchange over music!

Try me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm hopeless at chatting aimlessly

Me too, I got blown out cos I wasn't on the phone 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

He mustn't like you, if he did he'd keep in regular contact without prompt.

Some are willfully oblivious and completely ignore or choose not to acknowledge obvious cues ..

I don't mean to seem harsh but in all likelihood he's probably not bad at staying in contact with those he wants to stay in contact with. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

Yes we like staying in touch. May I ask you OP, how often are you texting people? Do you give them time to respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
I'm crap at keeping in touch. I admit it . And I think I'm female .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"

I must be different then. I always message and stay in touch. I find it's the fab women who don't! Sometimes makes me feel like a bit of a nuisance and pushy.

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x

Yes we like staying in touch. May I ask you OP, how often are you texting people? Do you give them time to respond? "
I think 5 hours is enough??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting on a few replies this evening. I'll respond in morning if they get back...if not ill wait

I do respond and initiate often.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting

Couldn't agree more, you and I should get together and never text each other

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Thanks everyone, I am not a text freak but when someone says they want you then you expect some communication? I will back off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess so, take into account people's work and lifestyle. I'm often accused of not replying soon enough on here.... however I work shifts , nights etc... so replying may not be as fluid as some people would like

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've had some what appeared to be great meets and tried to keep in touch infrequently only to see replies become less often or not at all...

I would always reply to a text even if it was a thanks but no thanks, and if I felt there was something positive would be the one to initiate contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it varies. Our longest standing playmates is rubbish at texting, yet there have been others who have made a nuisance of themselves with too much texting. And others have almost brought me to orgasm with text messages. There's all sorts out there, but ultimately the quality or frequency of texting has no baring on what they are like face to face.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting

Couldn't agree more, you and I should get together and never text each other

i need pen pals like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a text respond to it mentally and then sometimes forget to actually respond to it fs #mabad

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Maybe we just dont want to seem pushy. Nobody wants to appear clingy or over-keen.

I'm always up for a conversation but when the replies dry up and message 'ping pong' becomes all ping and no pong, then I get the message and stop sending.

Find the right person, on your communication wavelength and I can happily whatsapp my arse off, every day, with a big silly grin

Ditto

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By *nglishdave57Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Texting is good

But it's the bloody public phone calls that go on for ages about masses of trivial stuff by women that's irritating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone (of either gender ) genuinely wants to stay in touch then they will. If they never initiate any kind of communication or rarely reply then I think that speaks volumes - I would move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man. When I was dating him he always kept in contact and sent me cute little texts. Now we live together he messages me on his breaks at work and calls when running late etc so down to the man but if he's genuinely interested he will make the effort to keep in contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I am bad for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never spoke to you op. So stop blaming me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love texting, breaks up the day and its nice to receive them too. You know your being thought about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love keeping in touch, social is important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mom says if she didn't call any of her 4 boys she'd swear she'd no kids at all.

I make more of an effort now and so do my brothers. Only right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my friends are productive when it comes to communicating with people. If we didn't keep our communication to a good standard , I would be feeling like Fred flinstone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the same for women to be honest, not all of them of course, we're only human after all.

If I'm chatting with a women I'll reply pretty mush straight away if I can and will sign off with an ending comment when it's called for, I've chatted to a few women the past week and they've all just stopped replying, one I can understand but the other two women have gone quiet for reasons only they know.

It happens, it is what it is.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's either an avalanche of sexting or a text when an immediate meet is expected

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I meet for sex, not text chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet for sex, not text chat."

Show off.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Depends, I go through fazes.

As long as they reply, what difference x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think 5 hours is enough??"

For a man to text back? That's pressure in my eyes.

A husband, a boyfriend, a family member maybe that's ok.

But for guys we meet on here, for NSA, it's unreasonable in my eyes.

They come back when they want and then it's up to us whether we want to see them or bin them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im really bad for reading a message and forgetting to reply. I think I might be a man

I reply when I can and never forget I maybe a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two favourite people on Fab, are over 200 miles away. Frequent communication between visits, keeps us going.

Jokes, giggles and the occasional 'ninja hug', help to pass the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message anyone ever. On here, or other social media nor via text etc. All the folk on my friendslist will tell you that!!

I don't know why. I never know what to say and always feel like i'm bothering folk when they're busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply, but I might take ages to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find some keep in touch too much for my liking

Your profile is very interesting... the following in particular:

"Blindfolded in a hotel room and someone comes in, does what they want with me and I never see their face."

I have been lucky enough to do similar scenarios and various role plays... soo exciting!

A female friend came to meet me in London last year. We had hotel for 4 days. She thought we were just going to go to clubs... but I had other ideas and surprised her! I know what she likes so had her tied up and blindfolded... on the first day I invited a male friend join us.

On the second day I invited two male friends to join us.

On the third day had another male friend join us...

4 guys played with her while she was tied up and blindfolded. She did not have a clue until they touched her. God she was soo happy over those 4 days

Oh and we still went to 2 parties inbetween private play. I had it all planned out to make sure she had maximum pleasure for her London visit

However...

I do like to keep in touch with people after sex though. One of my female friends called me a chatterbox!!

#unfuckingbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean fab men or men in general?

Is a fab man like fab straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum. "

Like a plague

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum. "

Spray like a skunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.

Like a plague

Bring out your dead!

https://youtu.be/grbSQ6O6kbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.

Spray like a skunk"

Skunk I-fancy -- Hedonism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.

Like a plague

Bring out your dead!

https://youtu.be/grbSQ6O6kbs"

Estella fucking people to death on fab - you heard it here first.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.

Spray like a skunk

Skunk I-fancy -- Hedonism "

Weak as I am I would love you to skunk your fancy in my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always texting.

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