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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like people that tell me when I'm being stupid. I think it shows a certain closeness, like they know me well enough to say that.

Not so keen on people that sugar coat stuff or give cheesy compliments like "ooh your new haircut makes you look like you're 28"

What do you prefer?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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haha.

i prefer the creepiness of a (not) genuine compliment. my whole value and self worth is based on these compliments and i screenshot them and put them in a folder for looking at when i need an ego boost.

i only don't like it when a guy does this if he gives similar compliments to munters, then i find it offensive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I like my friends who tell me when I need to get a grip. I also like people who tell me I look 28. even if they do mean my inside leg measurement.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"haha.

i prefer the creepiness of a (not) genuine compliment. my whole value and self worth is based on these compliments and i screenshot them and put them in a folder for looking at when i need an ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had a compliment lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Can't be doing with bullshitters tbh. Tell it how it is or keep yer trap shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer honesty. My friends tell me if Im being a twat, they also know Im probably already aware of it i just need the nudge to change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer ..stop with the flannel

and.......

I think that shows a real social awareness and a deep genuine personality lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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sorry, i laughed coz of something mostly topic unrelated and then i was off in fun land (which is part of my imagination and how i deal with life).

i'd rather people give me proper advice but not in a harsh way (like call me a dickhead but not a stupid one).

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I like people that tell me when I'm being stupid. I think it shows a certain closeness, like they know me well enough to say that.

Not so keen on people that sugar coat stuff or give cheesy compliments like "ooh your new haircut makes you look like you're 28"

What do you prefer?"

Oh I love sincere compliments, but I love being challenged too - I hope I will always be open to learn and grow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My grampy was from yorkshire, he never sugar coated anything!

My mum didn't either.

Sometimes i wish they had as i'm quite sensitive and, on a bad day, close to the knuckle comments can knock your confidence.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

My friends are blunt to the point of offensive, which sometimes makes me go and then I realise they are right!

They're definitely not ones for sugar coating, but then if they say something complimentary I know that's meant too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the people who know when each response is appropriate and act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the people who know when each response is appropriate and act accordingly."

Spider in the house, set house on fire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like you your an asshole if I really like you your a prick am usually only nice tae folk I don't know or don't care to know fs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like people that tell me when I'm being stupid. I think it shows a certain closeness, like they know me well enough to say that.

Not so keen on people that sugar coat stuff or give cheesy compliments like "ooh your new haircut makes you look like you're 28"

What do you prefer?"

Brutal honesty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the people who know when each response is appropriate and act accordingly.

Spider in the house, set house on fire?"

I don't mind spiders. So no need to start making smores!

But if I've spent all day cooking, even though I hate cooking and I know I'm shit at it, just to make someone a meal that I hope they enjoy, it would be nice for that person to just smile and say thank you instead of telling me I'm a shit cook and I shouldn't have bothered (even if it might be true)

But there are times when that kind of glossing isn't welcome or helpful. I respect people who can read a situation and respond as appropriate, rather than be brutally honest when it does no good or blow smoke when the truth is more helpful.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Tell it how it is, don't leave ppl wondering or in limbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"haha.

i prefer the creepiness of a (not) genuine compliment. my whole value and self worth is based on these compliments and i screenshot them and put them in a folder for looking at when i need an ego boost.

i only don't like it when a guy does this if he gives similar compliments to munters, then i find it offensive."

None of the guys on here have given me a compliment - you're safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary. "

I can't stand insensitive "I'll tell the truth regardless" types. They only care about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My grampy was from yorkshire, he never sugar coated anything!

My mum didn't either.

Sometimes i wish they had as i'm quite sensitive and, on a bad day, close to the knuckle comments can knock your confidence.

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I agree that a good friend would know when *not* to call me a dickhead. On a bad day any comment at all would make me feel bad though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary.

I can't stand insensitive "I'll tell the truth regardless" types. They only care about themselves. "

Me too! People that claim they're blunt and real just because they tell the truth when actually they're just people who lack diplomatic skills!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

If the cap fits

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Dickhead is a term of endearment in Hull!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Dickhead is a term of endearment in Hull! "

Not in the eat end its not it means someone who is always getting things wrong and looking like a fool over it

In only fools and horses they used the term plonker because no swearing on the bbc before the water shed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the people who know when each response is appropriate and act accordingly.

Spider in the house, set house on fire?

I don't mind spiders. So no need to start making smores!

But if I've spent all day cooking, even though I hate cooking and I know I'm shit at it, just to make someone a meal that I hope they enjoy, it would be nice for that person to just smile and say thank you instead of telling me I'm a shit cook and I shouldn't have bothered (even if it might be true)

But there are times when that kind of glossing isn't welcome or helpful. I respect people who can read a situation and respond as appropriate, rather than be brutally honest when it does no good or blow smoke when the truth is more helpful."

Couldn't agree more. Sometimes being truthfully honest isn't the best way to act in certain situations and those that do think honesty is the best policy often lack empathy in my opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary.

I can't stand insensitive "I'll tell the truth regardless" types. They only care about themselves. "

Yep and frequently its not truth just their opinion.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary.

I can't stand insensitive "I'll tell the truth regardless" types. They only care about themselves.

Yep and frequently its not truth just their opinion."

I agree

And in my opinion its normally a opinion designed to cause trouble because misery loves misery .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like honesty. Not very comfortable with compliments though, genuine or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like someone who is real but not brutal. The brutal truth isn't always necessary.

I can't stand insensitive "I'll tell the truth regardless" types. They only care about themselves.

Yep and frequently its not truth just their opinion."

The brutal truth is usually more brutal than true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good humoured bluntness that isn't meant personally or with malice over insincere saccharin any time!

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