FabSwingers.com forum: Do you plan?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for my next meet, I have a newish (charity shop find) dress already bought to wear, on the Sunday or Monday before we meet I will redo both my nails and toes in a gel varnish colour they like and I'll probably buy a new underwear set (just in case) and I need a new set anyway. Said meet will be in the next monthish so I definitely have a plan!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You ask what colour they like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask what colour they like? "

Yes I ask them what they would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always well dressed for social, smelling and looking like a Greek God.

Never plan for anything more unless I know it's a play meet, and on those occasions I call in the mobile hair and makeup specialist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask their favourite colour and wear undies of that colour

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lynx under each armpit, wash my face and put on a fresh pair of boxers and socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask what colour they like? "

I already know the person's favourite colour so I must've asked at some point over the past few months

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

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I always put a lot of thought and effort into my appearance in an attempt to look (and feel) as good as I can. If I hadn't done that I'd probably feel too self conscious to enjoy myself.

And I'd hope anyone I was meeting would do the same for me ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You ask what colour they like?

Yes I ask them what they would like "

Would you go and buy something or get ready a different way to please them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

What about you OP?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September."

And is it intended to a one off?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If it's a first meet and definitely a social with no play, then the things I plan are how to get to/from the meeting place (usually a pub) and whether to eat beforehand. I might freshly shower.

If it's a play meet, I have a bag ready with toys and kink apparatus. If I am meeting a lady after work then I will take deodorant and a few toys that can be discretely deposited in the bag I bring to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off? "

Why?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes."

I might shave my legs.

Or throw on a pair of heels and some lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with a plan. Always prepare.

I do think it takes more for women to prepare. Waxing/ trimming, nails, underwear choice etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

What about you OP?

I have dirt on my boots and paint on my jeans. It's how I roll.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Lynx under each armpit, wash my face and put on a fresh pair of boxers and socks

I brush ma teeth as well, and the job's a good 'un

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off?

Why?"

I'm interested in how others do things because I know I'm not typical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes."

Those guys that get the sometimes are lucky.

Those that didn't, not so much.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

What about you OP?

I have dirt on my boots and paint on my jeans. It's how I roll.

You forgot the cheeky smile and the glint in your eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lynx under each armpit, wash my face and put on a fresh pair of boxers and socks

I brush ma teeth as well, and the job's a good 'un

I'd go as far as avoiding a hangover for the right girl.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes.

Those guys that get the sometimes are lucky.

Those that didn't, not so much. "

Usually I neck a glass of wine and hope for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off?

Why?

I'm interested in how others do things because I know I'm not typical

Well I don't discuss the ins and outs of my meets on the forums, and my psychic powers are a bit rusty today so I couldn't tell you what might progress.

But I tend to talk for a while before I meet = I only meet those I'm really interested in = I make a particular special effort as the small details are important to me. I like to impress. So sue me.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Ih yes if possible I will brush my teeth before and will refrain from drinking beer on a social as they often end in kissing.

When accommodating at home or using a hotel I try to arrange timings so I can shower, shave and brush my teeth before she arrives.

The lady I am seeing after work today, however, is very sensitive to the smell of deodorant, toothpaste and mouth wash so I shall not use those things.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off?

Why?

I'm interested in how others do things because I know I'm not typical

Well I don't discuss the ins and outs of my meets on the forums, and my psychic powers are a bit rusty today so I couldn't tell you what might progress.

But I tend to talk for a while before I meet = I only meet those I'm really interested in = I make a particular special effort as the small details are important to me. I like to impress. So sue me.

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes.

Those guys that get the sometimes are lucky.

Those that didn't, not so much.

Usually I neck a glass of wine and hope for the best."

If you made more effort you'd take the bottle along with you, for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off?

Why?

I'm interested in how others do things because I know I'm not typical

Well I don't discuss the ins and outs of my meets on the forums, and my psychic powers are a bit rusty today so I couldn't tell you what might progress.

But I tend to talk for a while before I meet = I only meet those I'm really interested in = I make a particular special effort as the small details are important to me. I like to impress. So sue me.

Me too.

Well you impress me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always go with a plan. Always prepare.

I do think it takes more for women to prepare. Waxing/ trimming, nails, underwear choice etc "

I think so too. I think the woman might actually care more about the impression she has to keep up.

You guys look beautiful. A man just has to be polite and clean doesn't he?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes.

Those guys that get the sometimes are lucky.

Those that didn't, not so much.

Usually I neck a glass of wine and hope for the best.

If you made more effort you'd take the bottle along with you, for him.

Nah,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I have found that most people on fab aren't like this. It bugs me a bit, but everyone's different, I suppose. The only problem is that when I'm meeting someone who isn't a planner, I tend to not really plan anything - I go to the other extreme. Which is a bit shit because then no one is planning at all and it all comes together in a rush.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

If its a social meet I'll give some thought to the where and when, and plan my wardrobe/look around that (I ain't strolling into my local Costa at 11am on a Thursday looking like I'm about to go clubbing

If its a social meet which has a likelihood of escalating, or is a repeat meet, even more planning is involved, depending on how long it is since my last wax, haircut, etc. New lingerie most likely... Unless he has a thing for something in particular in my wardrobe, then I'll wear that. If I'm accommodating a hell of a lot of planning and prep is involved... Everything from food, music, scents, whatever it takes for the meet to flow smoothly and make the most use of the time, rather than looking for things or preparing things at the time and wasting precious time together.

That's not to say I can't be spontaneous and fun, just that I like to have all the essentials (and a few luxuries) at hand too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If its a social meet I'll give some thought to the where and when, and plan my wardrobe/look around that (I ain't strolling into my local Costa at 11am on a Thursday looking like I'm about to go clubbing

That's not to say I can't be spontaneous and fun, just that I like to have all the essentials (and a few luxuries) at hand too

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything for a social, have gone in pyjama bottoms and slippers before now. Just brush my teeth, deodorant and perfume for a social!

A sex meet would require A LOT of prep!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a bit of a planner. But for socials, it's the night before kind of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Sorry can I just ask, is this someone you've met previously or is it a first meet and if so is it intended to be a one off?

First meet but we have been talking since September.

And is it intended to a one off?

Why?

I'm interested in how others do things because I know I'm not typical

Well I don't discuss the ins and outs of my meets on the forums, and my psychic powers are a bit rusty today so I couldn't tell you what might progress.

But I tend to talk for a while before I meet = I only meet those I'm really interested in = I make a particular special effort as the small details are important to me. I like to impress. So sue me.

Thank you I appreciate you answering x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything for a social, have gone in pyjama bottoms and slippers before now. Just brush my teeth, deodorant and perfume for a social!

A sex meet would require A LOT of prep!"

Pyjamas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

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I try and plan everything out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything for a social, have gone in pyjama bottoms and slippers before now. Just brush my teeth, deodorant and perfume for a social!

A sex meet would require A LOT of prep!

Pyjamas?

Yep pyjamas. Back last year I was meeting a certain ospreys rugby player and one particular evening I'd just come out the shower and not even dried my hair. Had the call to get there NOW, explained I wasn't even ready in still in pjs and was just told that he didn't care so I arrived in full pyjamas and slippers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Zero."

Haha. I bet you try and get some other job/chore done at the same time.

Walk the dog if it's a social. Put your clothes in the hotel laundry if it's a sex meet ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I plan. It actually irritates me not being able to plan as I like being in control and organising things. It depends on the meet really and, to an extent, who I'm meeting as to how far the planning goes.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Anything for a social, have gone in pyjama bottoms and slippers before now. Just brush my teeth, deodorant and perfume for a social!

A sex meet would require A LOT of prep!

Pyjamas?

If they know what is underneath then the wrapping doesn't matter..so I'm told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a goody bag of toys etc. Chuck a few cloths, shaving kit and toothbrush etc. Several "socials" over tge years have turned into much more.

I normally entertain at home tho...so I keep a new toothbrush etc. Just in case too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask what colour they like?

Yes I ask them what they would like

Would you go and buy something or get ready a different way to please them? "

I have bought new underwear for meets and a new dress before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I plan. It actually irritates me not being able to plan as I like being in control and organising things. It depends on the meet really and, to an extent, who I'm meeting as to how far the planning goes."

I far prefer to be in control of it all too, but if I'm not then I fix what I can & I can concentrate more on the little details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything for a social, have gone in pyjama bottoms and slippers before now. Just brush my teeth, deodorant and perfume for a social!

A sex meet would require A LOT of prep!

Pyjamas?

I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you."

Awww! Now I really like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you."

An all new reason to go doggin? *sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a social, I will just make sure I'm dressed nice , smell nice and know where we're going.

If it's a play meet then it's a case of the works, shave, shower and nice underwear. Perhaps something he's requested, have bought new underwear in someone's favourite colour before. And if we're taking toys the bag packed the night before. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you.

Awww! Now I really like you

Awww

I'll PM you the name of the bar so you can check it out for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you.

An all new reason to go doggin? *sorry. "

No. Just, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ? "

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky. "

Like that magnificent hair needs brushing

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky. "

What kind of brush do you use?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky. "

And wear a hat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to plan. I pack a day or two before any trip. I usually have a route planned out and everything is in this proper place.

I'm a total planner too. Don't worry, when you get your butts over to me I'll have everything planned to the last millisecond

I approve

Can't wait.

No word of a lie, I'm already considering somewhere dog friendly to eat in case you bring your dogs with you.

An all new reason to go doggin? *sorry.

No. Just, no.

I know, knew as I typed it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

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Comb the chest wig

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That just for meets or socials too?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

And wear a hat.

I hope he does walk around in a hat otherwise my dreams are shattered

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Kfc wipes surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky. "

I'll brush your hair for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example. "

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

Why all the questions?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

My fanny does. I do it because I know they like it and that makes the sex better.

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

You're*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

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Comb the chest wig

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Kfc wipes surely? "

Ah thanks - free as well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

My fanny does. I do it because I know they like it and that makes the sex better. "

So the more I put in, the more I get out? So to speak?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

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Job done

Kfc wipes surely?

Ah thanks - free as well!"

If you rub the end around a greasy bucket you are guaranteed a lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

My fanny does. I do it because I know they like it and that makes the sex better.

So the more I put in, the more I get out? So to speak.

Ftfy

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

You're*

There's a grammar thread somewhere.

. It's not got enough kints in there already.

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over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

Like that magnificent hair needs brushing

On occasion, just to make it look extra sleek.

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over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

And wear a hat.

I hope he does walk around in a hat otherwise my dreams are shattered "

I do. Sometimes nothing but a hat.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

He isn't English. Breed of their own up there

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over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

I'll brush your hair for you

Awww. You can, any time.

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

You're*

There's a grammar thread somewhere.

. It's not got enough kints in there already. "

Hypocrisy is a terrible thing bud. Those who live in glass hooses shouldnae throw stanes, nahameen?

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

Yes, but for men it's different - well dressed, a bit shaved if needs be, smelling clean.

Whereas for me at least I put a lot of work in to feel really good. So shower, shave all those awkward bits, hair, make up, matching gel varnish on my fingers and toes, nice underwear and nice outer wear if the meet has the potential to move past a social.

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over a year ago

"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

Pop a button open

Job done

That just for meets or socials too?

Have to be prepared for any eventuality

In seriousness, I think about conversations we've had and any style of clothes that might have been mentioned and I'll try to match to that. I've never been asked to wear something specific though.

Everything is clean, shaved, teeth brushed etc even for social meets.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

He isn't English. Breed of their own up there "

Hmmmmm does that include me?

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over a year ago

"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

And wear a hat.

I hope he does walk around in a hat otherwise my dreams are shattered

I do. Sometimes nothing but a hat."

Where do you wear the hat then?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Socials, I've been known to put a fair amount of planning into them.

Other than that, run a brush through my hair, spray of deodorant, clip my toe nails if they're very lucky.

And wear a hat.

I hope he does walk around in a hat otherwise my dreams are shattered

I do. Sometimes nothing but a hat."

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jOotsq4soug

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over a year ago

"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

Pop a button open

Job done

Kfc wipes surely?

Ah thanks - free as well!

If you rub the end around a greasy bucket you are guaranteed a lick"

Is that before or after I've used the wipes?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

He isn't English. Breed of their own up there

Hmmmmm does that include me?

Nah you are alright

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

Pop a button open

Job done

Kfc wipes surely?

Ah thanks - free as well!

If you rub the end around a greasy bucket you are guaranteed a lick

Is that before or after I've used the wipes?"

Wipe the balls dip the end

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over a year ago

Guy cany string a sentence together in the Queens English himself and has the audacity to pull up others hmmmmmmmmmmmm, well maybe he'll think twice in future.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

When I was meeting I'd turn up in my shell suit

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over a year ago

"Baby wipes on the undercarriage

Quick jog on the spot to produce some manly odour

Comb the chest wig

Pop a button open

Job done

Kfc wipes surely?

Ah thanks - free as well!

If you rub the end around a greasy bucket you are guaranteed a lick

Is that before or after I've used the wipes?

Wipe the balls dip the end "

Noted

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over a year ago

"Guy cany string a sentence together in the Queens English himself and has the audacity to pull up others hmmmmmmmmmmmm, well maybe he'll think twice in future. "

Just to pull this back.

I was talking about planning meets,

You want to pull someone up on English?

Go and try the grammar thread.

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over a year ago

"Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

He isn't English. Breed of their own up there

Hmmmmm does that include me?

You've got boobies you can get away with it fs

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over a year ago

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

Yes I do plan.

The last meet were specifics in what to bring toys wise and a certain outfit.

Packed the toys a few nights before.

Clothes even though we're new were washed ironed and ready to pack the day before. Outfit that I wore to travel in I'd decided on the day before all hung out and ready the night before.

Less hassle on the day of the meet.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

All depends on how convinced I am they're gonna turn up, how well we've got on etc.

Then, as time goes on and we get to know each other I just rock up at their place in my housework clobber and slippers and use their hot water to shower, eat all their food for energy and if they're lucky I'll make them a brew after the deed is done lol.

That is an exaggeration, kinda

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over a year ago

"Guy cany string a sentence together in the Queens English himself and has the audacity to pull up others hmmmmmmmmmmmm, well maybe he'll think twice in future.

Just to pull this back.

I was talking about planning meets,

You want to pull someone up on English?

Go and try the grammar thread. "

Don't start back peddling now. Just admit your hypocritical and apologise like a man fs.

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over a year ago

"Guy cany string a sentence together in the Queens English himself and has the audacity to pull up others hmmmmmmmmmmmm, well maybe he'll think twice in future.

Just to pull this back.

I was talking about planning meets,

You want to pull someone up on English?

Go and try the grammar thread.

Don't start back peddling now. Just admit your hypocritical and apologise like a man fs. "

Naw!

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"Guy cany string a sentence together in the Queens English himself and has the audacity to pull up others hmmmmmmmmmmmm, well maybe he'll think twice in future.

Just to pull this back.

I was talking about planning meets,

You want to pull someone up on English?

Go and try the grammar thread.

Don't start back peddling now. Just admit your hypocritical and apologise like a man fs.

Naw!

See that wasn't too hard was it fs

Manhugs* MisterBee and moves on

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over a year ago

"When I was meeting I'd turn up in my shell suit

Lie. You can't buy them anymore.

Your the only one here I don't believe.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Nothing worse than when the English use bad English, kmt, smh, fs.

He isn't English. Breed of their own up there

Hmmmmm does that include me?

You've got boobies you can get away with it fs

And a crown don't forget

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over a year ago

If you know someone well, do you make more effort or know you can relax a little ?

Erm... it depends? Like one of my fbs likes a certain look so I make an effort for example.

If your making the extra effort for someone, do you expect the same level of attention?

Yes, but for men it's different - well dressed, a bit shaved if needs be, smelling clean.

It's a good insight to know what's going on in someone's else's mind before you meet them. Thanks.

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over a year ago

Social or play meets are fairly simple for us.

We are always bathed, smooth, clean clothes, teeth and clean hair anyway, everyday no matter what we are doing. I always have nice underwear on. I also always have nicely painted toe nails, body spray on and have used moisturiser on my body most days. I never have painted finger nails. I only have a tiny bit of make up on but its the same everyday regardless of what im doing. I have naturally wavy hair that does what it wants.

A social will be in a pub or cafe. Casual clothes always.

If its a play meet then all the same except when we get there we take our clothes off, put them in a locker and wear a towel or sarong

No bag to pack, just my handbag. No toys.

Easy peasey

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over a year ago

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

Yes I do plan.

The last meet were specifics in what to bring toys wise and a certain outfit.

Packed the toys a few nights before.

Clothes even though we're new were washed ironed and ready to pack the day before. Outfit that I wore to travel in I'd decided on the day before all hung out and ready the night before.

Less hassle on the day of the meet.

Wow! I'm always clean and have a heavy toy that doubles as a cosh, should it be necessary. Beyond that..

Is there an alternative site for slack, disorganised swingers?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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You wouldn't want to meet me.

I'm always late, smell of wine and wear mismatched underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You wouldn't want to meet me.

I'm always late, smell of wine and wear mismatched underwear."

Phwoar. Fancy some chicken grease?

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over a year ago

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"You wouldn't want to meet me.

I'm always late, smell of wine and wear mismatched underwear.

Phwoar. Fancy some chicken grease?

Is it chicken though?

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over a year ago

My meets are usually planned a few days (or weeks

) ahead. In terms of prep if I'm going straight from work I'll make sure I pack a towel, toiletries and change of clothes so I can grab a shower and freshen up before I leave the office.

I'll tend to have mints and mouthwash too and have a swirl right before meeting them to be as orally fresh as I can be!!

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over a year ago

It depends on the meeting I guess. I like to have time at home beforehand to calm my nerves so I have everything I have there! Be generally got an outfit in mind once a meet is agreed depending on what I think they'll like.

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over a year ago

"My meets are usually planned a few days (or weeks

) ahead. In terms of prep if I'm going straight from work I'll make sure I pack a towel, toiletries and change of clothes so I can grab a shower and freshen up before I leave the office.

I'll tend to have mints and mouthwash too and have a swirl right before meeting them to be as orally fresh as I can be!!

A swirl?

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"My meets are usually planned a few days (or weeks

) ahead. In terms of prep if I'm going straight from work I'll make sure I pack a towel, toiletries and change of clothes so I can grab a shower and freshen up before I leave the office.

I'll tend to have mints and mouthwash too and have a swirl right before meeting them to be as orally fresh as I can be!!

A swirl? "

Of mouthwash!

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over a year ago

I wear mismatched underwear in the same colour. I don't do matching underwear i'm afraid.

I wear something that i like that is comfortable and i blow dry my hair and put on a bit of slap and some perfume.

I don't go way over the top, particularly on sex meets, because i'm usually naked in seconds and some men get a bit rip happy in trying to get your keks off

and frankly no man is worth having a favourite outfit ruined for.

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over a year ago

"My meets are usually planned a few days (or weeks

) ahead. In terms of prep if I'm going straight from work I'll make sure I pack a towel, toiletries and change of clothes so I can grab a shower and freshen up before I leave the office.

I'll tend to have mints and mouthwash too and have a swirl right before meeting them to be as orally fresh as I can be!!

A swirl?

Of mouthwash!

I thought you meant chocolate. Keeping your energy level up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

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over a year ago

"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary."

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Zero.

Haha. I bet you try and get some other job/chore done at the same time.

Walk the dog if it's a social. Put your clothes in the hotel laundry if it's a sex meet ?

Ooops.... I have actually walked the dog to social meets in the past....

But then she's a good judge of character

if she doesn't like someone they're toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do what I do when I'm going out anywhere. No special prep and certainly don't buy new stuff.

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over a year ago

So much prep! Epilating, hair plucking, nail painting, moustache waxing, hair, make up, what to wear, what underwear to wear, clean flat, clean sheets.

In reality, I'm far too lazy to be promiscuous...

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"So much prep! Epilating, hair plucking, nail painting, moustache waxing, hair, make up, what to wear, what underwear to wear, clean flat, clean sheets.

In reality, I'm far too lazy to be promiscuous... "

You put it like that, I can't be bothered meeting anyone.

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social? "

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code."

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask.

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask. "

Even though i dress casual i have still made an effort.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots of effort and planning. I don't do last minute meets.

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over a year ago

"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask.

Even though i dress casual i have still made an effort. "

Don't think I mean dressing casual isn't making an effort. I mean, if I went out and bought a new shirt, which I don't normally wear. Or buy underwear of their favourite colour. That to me is making an extra effort on my side.

If I turned up wearing my jeans and t-shirt that I wear each day anyway. I feel casual.

*note to those who asked -why all the questions? I asked a question. I'm interested, I enjoy socials to do this type of thing as well. (Hint hint to anyone. I actually literally drink real coffee. )

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over a year ago

"Lots of effort and planning. I don't do last minute meets. "

I don't think I'd manage a 'meet now' type scenario!

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask. "

I don't want people to have sex with me because they think I'm someone else. I prefer to be myself, and if they don't like that then they don't like that.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have a number if outfits fir playing, I do ask what a guy may like

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask.

I don't want people to have sex with me because they think I'm someone else. I prefer to be myself, and if they don't like that then they don't like that."

Thats how i think too. If they dont like me as i am then we wont get on well anyway.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Long story sort - So you've set a date to meet, even if it's just a social, you've got a date to meet up.

How much do you plan? Do you get a bag ready the night before? Do you just throw in clothes that are drying? Do you go shopping for something new?

How much effort do you put in?

When we go out it's always with a view to play so we ensure we are both clean , smart and ready to play

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over a year ago

I enjoy dressing up, that's all part of it for me whether it's a social or a play meet. If it's a play meet then I'll take a bag of toys with me.

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"I have a shower and dress presentably. That's it. I wouldn't go shopping or do anything out of the ordinary.

Is that for any type of meeting/social?

Yes. If going to a club then I would obviously meet the dress code.

Part of me agrees. I want to dress casual and comfortable with me. It I also know if the woman is dressing and making an effort for me, I want to do the same.

I'm in a constant battle what to do.

I wonder if this is why some people ask. "

I like the other person to be comfortable. I'd hate for them to go to effort for a coffee social.

I don't get dressed up in case they don't turn up and I'm left sat there looking like an utter twat. But I don't look like a bag lady. I hope.

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over a year ago

I'll plan and prepare for the outcome I expect... with maybe a little extra if things go better on the day.

All in all I'll be clean and presentable (...but may have filth bouncing around in my head!)

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