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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Has anyone ever had a really great message and they have Thought wow how good is this guy or girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From everyone I've met yes. Also from a very select few, they have read my profile and become great fab friends

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, and we're still great friends after 4.5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My messages are so good that people delete them because they don't feel good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I've learnt not to get taken in by a message

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes! A particularly amazingly witty poem recently.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a marriage proposal today

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Yes! A particularly amazingly witty poem recently."

I was just writing a poem this minute about a leather jacket and having dark hair.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Did you say yes?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Piss on my cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Piss on my cock" "

He means "I want to make you gush"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's odd.

Some really thought out messages get nothing.

And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.

I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.

Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had one

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"It's odd.

Some really thought out messages get nothing.

And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.

I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.

Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between "

Very rarely get a lot of messages myself.

But all depends on the chemistry of a person at that particular time. It can be very scientific how the brain works and responds to messages someone may think a person may of sent the best message in the world, whilst someone else doesn't read it as they think it's utter rubbish.

Factors such as grammar, punctuation, or a person may look to deep into the meaning of a message.

It can depend on how tired a person may be or what else is happening in a persons life outside this bubble of Fab.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"It's odd.

Some really thought out messages get nothing.

And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.

I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.

Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between

Very rarely get a lot of messages myself.

But all depends on the chemistry of a person at that particular time. It can be very scientific how the brain works and responds to messages someone may think a person may of sent the best message in the world, whilst someone else doesn't read it as they think it's utter rubbish.

Factors such as grammar, punctuation, or a person may look to deep into the meaning of a message.

It can depend on how tired a person may be or what else is happening in a persons life outside this bubble of Fab.

"

Short and to the point or long and interesting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean with intentions to meet?

With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.

These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"You mean with intentions to meet?

With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.

These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since. "

I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"You mean with intentions to meet?

With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.

These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since.

I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is."
i still await the messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean with intentions to meet?

With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.

These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since.

I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is.i still await the messages xx"

There are some good people here. You

Can and probably will find people who will send a good awesome message.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

There's lots of nice people on here. I don't send many messages and seem I browse rather than go shopping. I never feel I am the greatest in selling myself to others and in essence that's what you need to do to even get some sort of conversation started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, usually when someone I fine attractive messages I'm already WOW'ing!

Even if it's just an emojee

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By *oss2810Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

looking at your pics i can see why xx

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"looking at your pics i can see why xx"

I don't put a lot of pictures on due to various reasons, but I understand your point at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

You'd be surprised how many women are surprisingly unoriginal and dare I say, boring when messaging.

Also what's surprising is how many just say "Hi" yet look on their profile and they want you to be original, witty, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

You'd be surprised how many women are surprisingly unoriginal and dare I say, boring when messaging.

Also what's surprising is how many just say "Hi" yet look on their profile and they want you to be original, witty, etc.

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Good point, it doesn't surprise me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever had a really great message and they have Thought wow how good is this guy or girl?"

Every message I've ever sent. They don't agree though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Has anyone ever had a really great message and they have Thought wow how good is this guy or girl?"

Yeah, when I send my intro message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm more taken by profiles than messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My birthday is the 14th ... yours is the 15th .... "

Oh my

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