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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I seem to have faced a lot of liers this week, (one major one) all which I've caught out and has now meant I won't meet them. I have a question are most people programmed that way that they truly believe telling you what they think you want to hear will mean they get what they want in end? It's baffling me as I'm always honest and upfront what I want and yet they still feel need to lie? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sometimes liars DO get what they want in the end, which is why they lie.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a 10 inch cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a 10 inch cock "

I want to ride it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frustrating. Especially people who lie about things they don't need to.

Maybe they just want to maximize their chances of meeting?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What do they lie about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do they lie about"

I've had faking a car accident, being married/attached and what they want in general haha all this week x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have a 10 inch cock

I want to ride it "

See? Lying DOES get what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is easier to lie.

You get what you want (in theory.)

Obviously lying doesn't work. It usually destroys exactly what you are trying to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being married to a compulsive liar for 22 years I can say I don't know what drives them to lie. The truth soon comes out. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hate lies!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues "

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help. "

You've met the ex wife then

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then "

Were we married to the same woman ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then "

Is she related to my ex?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then

Were we married to the same woman ? "

Nothing would surprise me any more

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then

Is she related to my ex? "

Maybe a little to closely if you get me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then

Is she related to my ex?

Maybe a little to closely if you get me "

Yup, same mold!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think some people lie to give themselves the illusion of the lie, more than the person that they are telling the lie to.

Creatures of habit, they don't check themselves nor deal with the underlying insecurities or issues

Yes, when someone starts believing their own lies I think they may be beyond help.

You've met the ex wife then

Is she related to my ex?

Maybe a little to closely if you get me

Yup, same mold! "

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Lying and time wasting seems to be a game and tactic for some.

My guess, many are attached and bored. Rather than be a grown up and address their issues, come here and see it as a bit of harmless flirting, forgetting there's someone else at the end of it.

Once I've caught a liar out they're gone. No time for that nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being lied to op. And as frustrating as is, it will happen. youve already answered your own question.

They only want to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... You can't handle the truth!.."

Sorry couldn't help myself, just seemed like a prime opportunity.

I don't know why people lie on here. I've never lied to get my wicked way with someone, seems counter productive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what they lie about. Maybe they want to be discreet.

One guy I had arranged to meet said he fell off scaffolding and couldn't contact me as he was in hospital. I met him a couple of weeks later and he was still bruised. Sometimes crazy sounding 'lies' are the truth.

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