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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're not interested

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Playing hard to get. Send another 'why?' message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are pure feckin evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are pure feckin evil "

Or.....they dont like you

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By *erfect TenWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?"

People do change their mind all the time isn't it something we are all allowed to do? Well I hope we are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they don't like me then why swap numbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't message them,that'll teach them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they don't like me then why swap numbers? "

They are toying with you,like a cat with a mouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have the wrong number?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Because they are pure feckin evil "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Let them text you first

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Let them text you first"

Keep it short and snappy though like

"Fuck?" And "meet" and "where?" And "washed?" Etc etc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Possibly not a woman?

Why do you think it is op?

Did the request for a number happen at the wrong insertion point of the interaction?

Not good at giving rejection, so ignore you or misdirect you?

Early bird got the worm instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And send her a cick pic......seal the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And send her a cick pic......seal the deal "

Cock*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?"

What do you write as your first message?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

i'm guessing women give you a fake number thinking you're trying to con them? we do get warned anyone trying to take us off site asap is trying to con us.

do you mention who you ae in the text or not? i ignore any new texts if i'm not sure who the person is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?"

What did you say?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Unfortunately OP they have lost interest. Best to delete the number and move on.

Tip though. Don't moan about them to other women as it can be off putting. I had this on a dating site with a few guys and it made me stop chatting with them. Stay positive.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

"

Oooh I hate that if I havn't decided how I feel about them, I nearly cancelled a social the other day because of that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

i'm guessing women give you a fake number thinking you're trying to con them? we do get warned anyone trying to take us off site asap is trying to con us.

do you mention who you ae in the text or not? i ignore any new texts if i'm not sure who the person is."

Innuendos are so passé especially when men always try to slip one in.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

Oooh I hate that if I havn't decided how I feel about them, I nearly cancelled a social the other day because of that. "

makes it obvious how they think about me exactly. shouldn't complain really and at least i didn't meet him.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

i'm guessing women give you a fake number thinking you're trying to con them? we do get warned anyone trying to take us off site asap is trying to con us.

do you mention who you ae in the text or not? i ignore any new texts if i'm not sure who the person is.

Innuendos are so passé especially when men always try to slip one in. "

lol, sometimes they are funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, not sure, have you asked them why they do this, then you'll know and not have to waste time worrying about it

As someone else said, they're probably not interested. Spend time on the ones that are and not stress about the others, it's pointless.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

Oooh I hate that if I havn't decided how I feel about them, I nearly cancelled a social the other day because of that.

makes it obvious how they think about me exactly. shouldn't complain really and at least i didn't meet him. "

Unless you have actually spoken to them they are almost certainly men pretending to be women. And the few women are often scammers trying to get you to sign up to other dating sites that won't let you cancell their subscription untill they have got a few hundred off your bank card.

The truth is almost no attractive women use dating sites as they get so many offers just walking down the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you attatch dick pics? If not school boy error fs.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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[Removed by poster at 11/05/17 19:55:39]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol because they are not women

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

She's either:

Changed her mind about you

She's keeping her options open

She's had a better offer

That's my take on it anyway.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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nvm, thought that reply was for me. realised it was not and just i was quoted.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"i stopped talking to the last guy i gave my number to coz he turned every single fucking thing i said into an innuendo. it put me off.

i'm guessing women give you a fake number thinking you're trying to con them? we do get warned anyone trying to take us off site asap is trying to con us.

do you mention who you ae in the text or not? i ignore any new texts if i'm not sure who the person is.

Innuendos are so passé especially when men always try to slip one in. "

If only they had some wit!

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?"

Umm OP it's not just women who 'do this' I know a lady who has arranged a date on two occasions and the guy just doesn't bother showing up or just buggers off the dating site without a word so please don't think it's just the ladies !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?

Umm OP it's not just women who 'do this' I know a lady who has arranged a date on two occasions and the guy just doesn't bother showing up or just buggers off the dating site without a word so please don't think it's just the ladies !!"

Yep, men do it too, been done to me but I just delete the number and assume they're not interested. I'd rather this than they waste my time keep messaging back if they're not interested. Its really not worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's waiting for you to say 'Well you're fat and ugly anyway' that will get her engine running.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I've been on a dating site. Looking to have a genuine relationship. Text on the site, exchange phone numbers. Send the first text and then nothing. This has happened on a few occasions now. Why do women do this?"

Let's just call it as it is. Some people have different things they like. You won't be everyone's cup of tea and that's basically the bottom line. Don't take it to heart.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I really don't understand the games some people play.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Why is it games. We all have different preferences. There's just a percept that single guys are entitled to get laid because ladies are on the site. We are all different and like different things so that's all there is to it

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