FabSwingers.com forum: Goodbye negativity, hello positivity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello forumites, it's been a funny few weeks with lots of negative posts and some frankly scary behaviour off some people.

So I want to bring back the good times, what is it you all like about the site? Is it the forums, the people, the freedom.

Post what you like about being on here, no negative comments please this is all about the good things.

I for one love most of you forumites, always willing to share a few laughs and have made me very welcome from the start.

Share the love everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At last,well said,im staying in here today,big love to you op X

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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There are some cracking forum folk indeed, I quite like some of the twunts too.

A couple of them are extra special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello forumites, it's been a funny few weeks with lots of negative posts and some frankly scary behaviour off some people.

So I want to bring back the good times, what is it you all like about the site? Is it the forums, the people, the freedom.

Post what you like about being on here, no negative comments please this is all about the good things.

I for one love most of you forumites, always willing to share a few laughs and have made me very welcome from the start.

Share the love everyone x

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I love your attitude to it all I'm generally a very happy person so getting a laugh is always my aim hopefully I achieve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick to death of these "positive" threads. I'm stuck in office while the sun shines gloriously. Just let me complain woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humbug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at pretty people, and talking to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy..

Both my new pictures have now been approved...the light and the dark side of YOWD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break free from the captivity of negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sick to death of these "positive" threads. I'm stuck in office while the sun shines gloriously. Just let me complain woman!

Woah...take this attitude to another thread please sir,move along

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Great thread and liking the positivity

Threads like this and the smile thread are the rays of sunshine the forums need to keep them upbeat.

For me the forums are the heartbeat of the site and I know only a small percentage of members actually use them, but it's where you can get to know people, discuss all manner of things, swinging related and otherwise, and generally lose yourself for a while...ok...a long while!!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I'm feeling positive today, I've got a bit done in last couple of days so can chill into a special weekend ( I better get cake!) ......however I have a double swing hammock to put together shortly so everything can change

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I like it all.

You can't have light without shade. So I welcome even the trolls.

But most of all I like all the pictures of fajiners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is what I love about the forums, lots of nice people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a pretty good week. I've managed hugs with two of my favourite forumites and I've snorted with laughter at too many messages/threads to count.

Trip abroad booked and a gig next year booked as well.

It's not sunny here at the mo but it's not cold so I'm happy enough

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Wow, it's getting very dysfunctional around here today, I think a refuge is a good idea......game of frisbee anyone?? I might have to re-open the commune in a minute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sick to death of these "positive" threads. I'm stuck in office while the sun shines gloriously. Just let me complain woman!

Woah...take this attitude to another thread please sir,move along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums, my hotlist and some people on the forums.

I also like to flirt sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the forums, my hotlist and some people on the forums.

I also like to flirt sometimes

Flirt , whatever next. As if anyone here would flirt. Much

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

The forums is better than face book

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't like thing's to be to nicey nicey all the time,but some people do appear to be rather a bit to mean for my liking. It's good to put a point across without getting to personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sick to death of these "positive" threads. I'm stuck in office while the sun shines gloriously. Just let me complain woman!

Get back in the kitchen you make us ladies some more cake for us. Yes the sun out so that means us ladies got less clothes on for you men to look at us stop been a party poop.

I love the forums people on here make me laugh that's a good thing. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Wow, it's getting very dysfunctional around here today, I think a refuge is a good idea......game of frisbee anyone?? I might have to re-open the commune in a minute lol

I haven't played frisbee for year's!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

The forums are a neverending source of amusement (or bemusement, but I'm trying not to be negative). There are some posters here whose contributions frequently and literally make me snort with laughter. On occasion, they've even provided me with useful and interesting information - book, TV and film recommendations, shopping advice, all sorts really, even breaking news on occasion!

I don't reply to threads *that* often - I'm crap at all the flirty stuff - but am happy enough to quietly observe what's going on to get the measure of people, and have made some good friends through doing that and then chatting to them in private. Something I'd never anticipated at all when I first joined Fab.

The site itself has been an invaluable source of info and reviews for various clubs I've been to, and it's also allowed me to indulge my creativity through trying to create appealing profile photos - something I'd never done prior. And the feedback I've had for that has boosted my dire self confidence considerably.

Overall, my Fab experience is going pretty well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a great day... the beach azure sea my dogs... it's about as good as it gets.

Great thread nice to see the happy side of fab ...

Maybe we could do it every day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been here long, but my fave thing so far about all this has to be the people that have helped and given me advice.

Kind individuals that make sure you're welcomed, that then point you in the right direction.

Plus the diversity of people on here in the forums, such a fun read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the whole aspect of swapping opinions and views ..... I like watching bun fights.... I like playing devils advocate and I love seeing exchanges of natu_ed banter and acerbic wit

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wow, it's getting very dysfunctional around here today, I think a refuge is a good idea......game of frisbee anyone?? I might have to re-open the commune in a minute lol

I haven't played frisbee for year's!"

Oh it's just fabulous, frisbee on the beach, and frisbee at the hippie festival - bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the forums, my hotlist and some people on the forums.

I also like to flirt sometimes

Flirt , whatever next. As if anyone here would flirt. Much

Flirting on the forums is a dangerous game, I've experienced the backlash first hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live and learn and fab has helped in different ways over the years. x

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I just love you guys, you make me roar with laughter, but I tend to see the funny in most things. I love meeting you for whatever the reason, coffee, dinner, hugs, gossiping and not forgetting those extra special meets with some "complete gentleman", see part deux of aforementioned thread for clarification

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the forums, my hotlist and some people on the forums.

I also like to flirt sometimes

Flirt , whatever next. As if anyone here would flirt. Much

Flirting on the forums is a dangerous game, I've experienced the backlash first hand

It's a fine art to master x

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Its good to be surrounded by positive people anywhere, but for the most part the good folk here also have the benefit of being slightly higher on the naughtiness scale too

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I learn a lot about others here. I like learning.

But tend to ease back every now and then when things get too repetitive or the attention seeking goes into overdrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people I get to talk to by pm, or meet regularly for chats are people i met on the forums. I hope to get to talk to the majority of you guys.

Nice thread op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bumping up for the evening fabbers. Some good answers so far x

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