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"Stating your sexual preference isn't misogynistic. To do it in this way is definitely rude but it has nothing to do with misogyny. " what does stating your sexual preference has to do with this thread? And yes, this way of trying to pay compliment is literally definition of misogyny | |||
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"Maggots. Horrible little maggots. " ftfy Honestly, what a twat  | |||
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"Maggots. Horrible little maggots. ftfy Honestly, what a twat "... and actually i got this about 5 times in this month. so maybe this is new trend or something. seriously makes me puke. | |||
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"i got this about 5 times in this month. so maybe this is new trend or something. seriously makes me puke." Was it off the same guy? If so just block him.  | |||
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"The definition of misogyny is prejudice against women. I fail to see how saying that someone is more attractive than someone else (admittedly in an unacceptable, rude, obnoxious way) is prejudice against an entire sex? " little tone-death, aren't you?: 
but ok, i will try to patient.
(I am not native English, so forgive me if I am not too good with grammar, trying to do my best)
The point of this compliment is not to say that I am hotter then his gf, I bet there is no gf at all. The point is, he thinks I will feel better, when he humiliate his girlfriend, so, I could be better then her. And his assumption I must like to humiliate other girl, to boost my self esteem.
Misogyny is objectifying woman, and - yes - being hat_ed towards them too. But there is so many levels of it. And usually man, who use women for their sexual pleasure only and manipulating them, are in that group.
And trying to manipulate one woman into feeling better because he said "my gf looks like shit next to you" is low class of manipulations, but must be working, if it is used more and more often. | |||
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"i got this about 5 times in this month. so maybe this is new trend or something. seriously makes me puke. Was it off the same guy? If so just block him. "No. From various other. When I got it first time I thought - oh just a douchbag But now I see it is kind of new way of paying compliment.:/ | |||
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"Misogynists. Horrible little misogynists. " Yes. This. | |||
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"The definition of misogyny is prejudice against women. I fail to see how saying that someone is more attractive than someone else (admittedly in an unacceptable, rude, obnoxious way) is prejudice against an entire sex? little tone-death, aren't you?:
but ok, i will try to patient.
(I am not native English, so forgive me if I am not too good with grammar, trying to do my best)
The point of this compliment is not to say that I am hotter then his gf, I bet there is no gf at all. The point is, he thinks I will feel better, when he humiliate his girlfriend, so, I could be better then her. And his assumption I must like to humiliate other girl, to boost my self esteem.
Misogyny is objectifying woman, and - yes - being hat_ed towards them too. But there is so many levels of it. And usually man, who use women for their sexual pleasure only and manipulating them, are in that group.
And trying to manipulate one woman into feeling better because he said "my gf looks like shit next to you" is low class of manipulations, but must be working, if it is used more and more often."It's a technique used by "pick up artists" (PUAs) who are one of the most openly misogynistic groups out there. | |||
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"i got this about 5 times in this month. so maybe this is new trend or something. seriously makes me puke. Was it off the same guy? If so just block him.
No. From various other.
When I got it first time I thought - oh just a douchbag
But now I see it is kind of new way of paying compliment.:/"Must be a social media thing that is doing the rounds, none of them have probably even met a real woman apart from their mother, let alone have a "girlfriend" | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx" Fixed that for you | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you " Thank you. ..it was bugging me...but I felt daft asking! | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you Thank you. ..it was bugging me...but I felt daft asking! " you can always ask google | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you Thank you. ..i want buggering me...but I felt daft asking! " If you insist 
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? " Ive had thus alot. I find it vile!! Wonder if its the same fella or a trend? | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you Thank you. ..i want buggering me...but I felt daft asking! If you insist
See what I did there "Oh I did see! | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you Thank you. ..it was bugging me...but I felt daft asking! you can always ask google" Yes...of course I could. ..but when there's so many friendly folk on here...why bother? | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? Ive had thus alot. I find it vile!! Wonder if its the same fella or a trend?" I said you were the best thing since sliced bread not winif_ed | |||
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then.... "You are posting on forum where people post their opinions and impressions. you may not like them or not to understand them, deal with it. You don't have to answer every thread to manifest your lack of understanding, we - all egomaniacal woman - we get you don't. | |||
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then.... "I'm no white knight fella but that is ridiculous. All of it. | |||
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"Damn! I thought I was the only one who made their girlfriend look like shit " I think you'd need to be inc_edibly naive to fall for a message like this. Although some women do get off on thinking that a guy finds them more attractive than their partner.
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then....
I'm no white knight fella but that is ridiculous.
All of it."Agreed. It's almost entertaining how bitter he comes across. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? " Yup that guy messages me too. I just delete. | |||
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"If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here.." I think you may find nearly all women and men are aware they do not look like Hollywood stars, yet don't go around telling each other they look like shit. Also personally I have seen everything on this site, from the hideously malformed to the divinely beautiful, in both male and female form - just like out there in the real world. So it makes me question what your standards are, and how they relate to real, everyday women's faces and bodies. | |||
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then.... "Hahaha, no, solely laughter, there are plenty of absolute stunners on fabs!! | |||
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"Some men are just idiot's we have to accept that,thankfully there's decent one's on here as well." I wonder if I qualify as decent ? | |||
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"Some men are just idiot's we have to accept that,thankfully there's decent one's on here as well.I wonder if I qualify as decent ?" Do you think you are? | |||
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"Some men are just idiot's we have to accept that,thankfully there's decent one's on here as well.I wonder if I qualify as decent ? Do you think you are?" I'm lovely but then I'm biased | |||
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"Misogynists. Horrible little misogynists. " | |||
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"Male twats thats who" Don't hold back. Say what your thinking. | |||
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"Male twats thats who" ha but then shes not saying all males are ' twats' well not yet anyway | |||
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"I once sent a really nice message to a woman, I fabbed her pics too, her reply we "No thanks, I don't fuck ugly fat cunts" So it isn't just the men who send hurtful messages, but I would never tar you all with the same brush " I hope you reported her and unfabbed her pics  | |||
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"I once sent a really nice message to a woman, I fabbed her pics too, her reply we "No thanks, I don't fuck ugly fat cunts" So it isn't just the men who send hurtful messages, but I would never tar you all with the same brush I hope you reported her and unfabbed her pics "I didn't report her, she was just voicing her opinion. I didn't think to unfab the pics lol. In all walks of life we come across rude people, I just don't let it get to me lol | |||
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"I have a few points to make on this. Firstly, any men who think this sort of message in an attempt to attract anyone on here is acceptable, are both idiots and as explained highly misogynistic. Secondly, I'm ashamed that some men have come on the thread in an attempt to either "mansplain" what misogyny is to women, or just simply to say they think there's nothing wrong with this type of message. Seriously guys, don't be such utter dicks" | |||
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"I have a few points to make on this. Firstly, any men who think this sort of message in an attempt to attract anyone on here is acceptable, are both idiots and as explained highly misogynistic. Secondly, I'm ashamed that some men have come on the thread in an attempt to either "mansplain" what misogyny is to women, or just simply to say they think there's nothing wrong with this type of message. Seriously guys, don't be such utter dicks " | |||
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"Who gives a dam" Who gives a damn? Women do. | |||
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"Who gives a dam" China always needs dams. | |||
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"For people like me I had to look up definition of Misogynistic . Reflecting or exhibiting hat_ed, dislike, mistrust, or mistreatment of women. " Maybe more than misogynistic? Maybe in society where it is fashionable to diss people and watch them squirm and battle to be best on so called reality TV, some people see that continual battling against each other as normal. Theses guys think they are making you a 'winner' by saying such things but in fact they are just looking like wide mouths with narrow brains.. Blimey, its only 9.30 and that's a bit deep!  | |||
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"For people like me I had to look up definition of Misogynistic . Reflecting or exhibiting hat_ed, dislike, mistrust, or mistreatment of women. Maybe more than misogynistic? Maybe in society where it is fashionable to diss people and watch them squirm and battle to be best on so called reality TV, some people see that continual battling against each other as normal. Theses guys think they are making you a 'winner' by saying such things but in fact they are just looking like wide mouths with narrow brains.. Blimey, its only 9.30 and that's a bit deep! "Deep or not, it's a good point. | |||
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then.... "I bet* they were stunningly attractive before they turned you down. *know for certain | |||
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"For people like me I had to look up definition of Misogynistic . Reflecting or exhibiting hat_ed, dislike, mistrust, or mistreatment of women. Maybe more than misogynistic? Maybe in society where it is fashionable to diss people and watch them squirm and battle to be best on so called reality TV, some people see that continual battling against each other as normal. Theses guys think they are making you a 'winner' by saying such things but in fact they are just looking like wide mouths with narrow brains.. Blimey, its only 9.30 and that's a bit deep!
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then....
I bet* they were stunningly attractive before they turned you down.
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? " The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? " They do say that the truth hurts x | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men. "Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said | |||
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"It's awful. Oh...by the way...could anyone tell me what FTFY means...please xx Fixed that for you Thank you. ..it was bugging me...but I felt daft asking! you can always ask google" had to google PAWG lol | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men. "Not quite the same as calling your own girlfriend shit, is it. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said"So, if a hot woman said to you don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me? you would say yes, you make my girlfriend look shit? | |||
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"Some men are just idiot's we have to accept that,thankfully there's decent one's on here as well." Why thank you | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Not quite the same as calling your own girlfriend shit, is it."As is life it's open to interpretation my dear just like yer pink/white slippers fs. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said"Facts are facts fs | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
So, if a hot woman said to you don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me? you would say yes, you make my girlfriend look shit? "Of course not,it was the song lyrics i was agreeing with not the op | |||
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"Misogynists. Horrible little misogynists. " lesbians horrible little lesbians | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
So, if a hot woman said to you don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me? you would say yes, you make my girlfriend look shit? "If she really was hotter than my hypothetical gf and laid it on a plate like that for me, then you bet yer arse I'd tap it fs, I'd be in there like a rat up a drain pipe fs | |||
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"I reckon, if Cate Blanchett did get a message like that from a man, she would think exactly the same as I did (who doesn't look like her). That would be along the lines of stupid cunt, where's your brain, if you actually have a girlfriend she deserves better, get a life. " Well said.  | |||
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"Misogynists. Horrible little misogynists. lesbians horrible little lesbians "Bi-curious horrible little bi-curious | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men. "women can be mysogenistic as well...it appears to be a man who has picked up the ball and run with it, if indeed that is the origin...doesnt exactly let him off the hook now does it? | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
So, if a hot woman said to you don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me? you would say yes, you make my girlfriend look shit?
If she really was hotter than my hypothetical gf and laid it on a plate like that for me, then you bet yer arse I'd tap it fs, I'd be in there like a rat up a drain pipe fs "She wasn't offering you sex. She was letting you know she's too hot for you, because you can only get women who aren't hot, like her. You would be degrading your girlfriend for the hot woman's ego. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
women can be mysogenistic as well...it appears to be a man who has picked up the ball and run with it, if indeed that is the origin...doesnt exactly let him off the hook now does it?"There's a hook? Ohhhhhh behave...... | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
So, if a hot woman said to you don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me? you would say yes, you make my girlfriend look shit?
If she really was hotter than my hypothetical gf and laid it on a plate like that for me, then you bet yer arse I'd tap it fs, I'd be in there like a rat up a drain pipe fs
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"Why would a woman not offering me sex say she was hotter than my gf? That's against women logic, a woman would only engage in said type of convo if she wanted my boaby to spite the gf fs." No. She's saying Look at this, you can't have this. You can only get the ooglies. | |||
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It's definitely Thursday!
I usually block and ignore charmers that spout bile.
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
Facts are facts fs "Your argument is crap. This kind of dickishness has been going on since before the PCD were formed. | |||
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"when it started to be new way of paying compliment? Am I missing something? Personally I find it disgusting, even if it is hypothetical gf. To compliment one girl by dissing the other. Who does it? The concept arose from a pussy cat dolls song sung by an all girl group, 'don't you wish your girl friend was hot like me' or some pish lyrics. So it was started by females and not mysogonistic men.
Haha i never thought id end up agreeing with you but well said
Facts are facts fs
Your argument is crap. This kind of dickishness has been going on since before the PCD were formed.
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"Stating your sexual preference isn't misogynistic. To do it in this way is definitely rude but it has nothing to do with misogyny. what does stating your sexual preference has to do with this thread? And yes, this way of trying to pay compliment is literally definition of misogyny" It's not. But it is pretty unsavoury. | |||
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"Stating your sexual preference isn't misogynistic. To do it in this way is definitely rude but it has nothing to do with misogyny. what does stating your sexual preference has to do with this thread? And yes, this way of trying to pay compliment is literally definition of misogyny It's not. But it is pretty unsavoury. " It shows contempt for women... therefore.... misogyny/m?'s?d?  ni/
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dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
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"I'm guessing that those arguing the loudest are those most threatened by it. Personally I couldn't care less, but then again I am fucking hot! "Who would be threatened by someone saying you make my girlfriend look shit? | |||
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"The definition of misogyny is prejudice against women. I fail to see how saying that someone is more attractive than someone else (admittedly in an unacceptable, rude, obnoxious way) is prejudice against an entire sex? " i honestly think they are appealing to the shallow nature of women who would find this a compliment, and some would. my cousin used to go for attached guys as a way of boosting her own ego. she reasoned if someone was attached but wanted to fuck her then she was better than their wife/gf. they never left the wife/gf for her so she was wrong in a way. but she was stunning, very much so, so she probably genuinely was better looking than pretty much anyone's partner. | |||
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"I'm guessing that those arguing the loudest are those most threatened by it. Personally I couldn't care less, but then again I am fucking hot!
Who says your hot? "The 100 plus men who message me every day saying Katie you are fucking hot! | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. So a woman can't enjoy sexual freedom as a man does? She must be an object of sexual gratification for others and not mistress of her own sexual liberation? Oh yes... a woman demanding equal status is a sign of mental illness. Classic. Can't you be my sexual object and I be yours ?" Of course I can. That would be my choice as mistress of my liberation. But there is a big difference between being the object of someone's desires, and being objectified by strangers and society as a whole. And as mistress of my sexual liberation, I'd say you're not my type. | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also." Well said fs | |||
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"I'm guessing that those arguing the loudest are those most threatened by it. Personally I couldn't care less, but then again I am fucking hot! ha well you do look hot so an element of truth "Does she make your girlfriends look like shit? Would you tell them that ? | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs "Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it. | |||
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"I'm guessing that those arguing the loudest are those most threatened by it. Personally I couldn't care less, but then again I am fucking hot! "Why yes, yes you are! In a totally non-comparative way of course.... | |||
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"For people like me I had to look up definition of Misogynistic . Reflecting or exhibiting hat_ed, dislike, mistrust, or mistreatment of women. Maybe more than misogynistic? Maybe in society where it is fashionable to diss people and watch them squirm and battle to be best on so called reality TV, some people see that continual battling against each other as normal. Theses guys think they are making you a 'winner' by saying such things but in fact they are just looking like wide mouths with narrow brains.. " Yes, in everything from Jeremy Kyle to Question Time people seem to think all this screapping is entertaining.......I'm a lover not a fighter!! | |||
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"For people like me I had to look up definition of Misogynistic . Reflecting or exhibiting hat_ed, dislike, mistrust, or mistreatment of women. Maybe more than misogynistic? Maybe in society where it is fashionable to diss people and watch them squirm and battle to be best on so called reality TV, some people see that continual battling against each other as normal. Theses guys think they are making you a 'winner' by saying such things but in fact they are just looking like wide mouths with narrow brains.. Yes, in everything from Jeremy Kyle to Question Time people seem to think all this screapping is entertaining.......I'm a lover not a fighter!! "frisky come make love to me | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs "i should've said anyone sexualising themselves for men is participating. but yeah it's exactly the same even if the woman is in control of that. it's a source of conflict for me at times. on the one hand people want sex, on the other this place is a shallow place to do that. | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. " I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs
Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it. "it's not a weak argument. women can be just as misogynistic as men. in a partriarchic world why wouldn't they be? | |||
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"Love how this post is ultimately about lack of respect and then the OP displays exactly that in one of her replies...... "
..but back to the thread, the message clearly sound like a trolling attempt.
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs
Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it.
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"The definition of misogyny is prejudice against women. I fail to see how saying that someone is more attractive than someone else (admittedly in an unacceptable, rude, obnoxious way) is prejudice against an entire sex? " Misogyny (/m?'s?d??ni/) is the hat_ed of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification. I would say that bit about "belittling of women" hits the nail on the head in this case | |||
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Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it.
it's not a weak argument. women can be just as misogynistic as men. in a partriarchic world why wouldn't they be?
I didn't say it was a weak argument. It's weak minded men who use it as an excuse. "it's nothing to do with women 'asking for it' either. it's to do with women pandering to using looks as competition/validation. by enforcing that your body type/part is attractive you (indirectly) invalidate others looks and place more importance on your own as a sexual favourite. i'm biased myself. i do think that there are certain people who are not attractive and others who are. is that normal? yes, coz i was brought up under a regime that placed importance on that. is it natural? no, coz everyone has different types and therefore everyone is attractive. i'm well aware of my hypocrisy though, but i never participate in the competitive topics coz they don't actually make sense anyway and are ways for men to try and find their type to sexualise individuals who particpate. | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. I'd put money on it, that some wee mysogonist on here is having a jolly good chug tae your avatar, profile and words, so in turn you are providing sexual gratification albeit unwillingly. I'm sure there are. I'm sure some men also do that over my Facebook profile, my twitter profile, and over my university profile. That doesn't mean I'm mentally ill because I think some men are misogynists." Properly reading what you reply to will help you with that. | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs
Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it.
it's not a weak argument. women can be just as misogynistic as men. in a partriarchic world why wouldn't they be?
I didn't say it was a weak argument. It's weak minded men who use it as an excuse.
it's nothing to do with women 'asking for it' either. it's to do with women pandering to using looks as competition/validation.
by enforcing that your body type/part is attractive you (indirectly) invalidate others looks and place more importance on your own as a sexual favourite.
i'm biased myself. i do think that there are certain people who are not attractive and others who are. is that normal? yes, coz i was brought up under a regime that placed importance on that. is it natural? no, coz everyone has different types and therefore everyone is attractive. i'm well aware of my hypocrisy though, but i never participate in the competitive topics coz they don't actually make sense anyway and are ways for men to try and find their type to sexualise individuals who particpate. "I don't pander to men for compliments, my photos are not flattering at all, yet I get the "You make my girlfriend look shit" messages. | |||
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"i think making women compete over looks is shallow. you see it all the time on here though, who has the biggest boobs, fattest arse, hottest *whatever*, appreciation threads. and many women actually participate in that but it's exactly the same thing. it might be misogynistic for the reason that women are _educed to looks, but again this site encourages that with it's top fabbed pics and allowing misogynistic topics mentioned above and site members participating in them willingly. anyone sexualising themselves is participating also. Well said fs
Weak men would use that argument. Oh, she was showing a bit of leg so I thought she wanted it.
it's not a weak argument. women can be just as misogynistic as men. in a partriarchic world why wouldn't they be?
I didn't say it was a weak argument. It's weak minded men who use it as an excuse.
it's nothing to do with women 'asking for it' either. it's to do with women pandering to using looks as competition/validation.
by enforcing that your body type/part is attractive you (indirectly) invalidate others looks and place more importance on your own as a sexual favourite.
i'm biased myself. i do think that there are certain people who are not attractive and others who are. is that normal? yes, coz i was brought up under a regime that placed importance on that. is it natural? no, coz everyone has different types and therefore everyone is attractive. i'm well aware of my hypocrisy though, but i never participate in the competitive topics coz they don't actually make sense anyway and are ways for men to try and find their type to sexualise individuals who particpate.
I don't pander to men for compliments, my photos are not flattering at all, yet I get the "You make my girlfriend look shit" messages. "you/your in general. the women who do that. and they do do it, you must have seen that on here loads coz i have. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. ok, great to know. Next time I sent 'shit compliment guy" to you, no compliment should be left unappreciated!"
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. being on a sex site is not the actual problem here. women are allowed to sexualise themselves and, in turn, gratify themselves sexually. and be in control of that (on a compatible level). when they allow men/others to do that, then that is the problem. so allowing your pics to be fabbed (and therefore compete sexually with others or allow others to favour you) is a problem. most pics will be being fabbed because someone enjoys that pic for it's attractiveness (although some will fab for reasons other than sexual favouritism). by participating in topics that ask for certain types of bodies or body parts is similar in that you're promoting certain types as better than others. is that flattering? sure it is, in a world where we seek validation for shallow things that mean nothing. it's when you allow anyone but yourself (as a woman) to be in control of your sexuality, that is the problem. and women will participate in these things because we were brought up under patriarchy and taught to value these things (to the detriment of others)." Goddamn it. I want to be you. | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. I'd put money on it, that some wee mysogonist on here is having a jolly good chug tae your avatar, profile and words, so in turn you are providing sexual gratification albeit unwillingly. I'm sure there are. I'm sure some men also do that over my Facebook profile, my twitter profile, and over my university profile. That doesn't mean I'm mentally ill because I think some men are misogynists. Properly reading what you reply to will help you with that. " Which bit did I misread? | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. ok, great to know. Next time I sent 'shit compliment guy" to you, no compliment should be left unappreciated!
You come across as a little rude. I dont know why people dont just delete messages they get if they dont like it "Maybe. But it was you who said that you like this 'shit' compliment. So if I am rude, pointing that out, let it be. And I guess people do delete unwanted emails. But does it mean we cannot discuss it? | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. being on a sex site is not the actual problem here. women are allowed to sexualise themselves and, in turn, gratify themselves sexually. and be in control of that (on a compatible level). when they allow men/others to do that, then that is the problem. so allowing your pics to be fabbed (and therefore compete sexually with others or allow others to favour you) is a problem. most pics will be being fabbed because someone enjoys that pic for it's attractiveness (although some will fab for reasons other than sexual favouritism). by participating in topics that ask for certain types of bodies or body parts is similar in that you're promoting certain types as better than others. is that flattering? sure it is, in a world where we seek validation for shallow things that mean nothing. it's when you allow anyone but yourself (as a woman) to be in control of your sexuality, that is the problem. and women will participate in these things because we were brought up under patriarchy and taught to value these things (to the detriment of others). Goddamn it. I want to be you. " trust me you do not but thank you. i will accept that compliment happily. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. ok, great to know. Next time I sent 'shit compliment guy" to you, no compliment should be left unappreciated!
You come across as a little rude. I dont know why people dont just delete messages they get if they dont like it
Maybe. But it was you who said that you like this 'shit' compliment. So if I am rude, pointing that out, let it be.
And I guess people do delete unwanted emails. But does it mean we cannot discuss it?"I actually said a compliment was a compliment. I didnt give my opinion on whether i liked them or not. | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. being on a sex site is not the actual problem here. women are allowed to sexualise themselves and, in turn, gratify themselves sexually. and be in control of that (on a compatible level). when they allow men/others to do that, then that is the problem. so allowing your pics to be fabbed (and therefore compete sexually with others or allow others to favour you) is a problem. most pics will be being fabbed because someone enjoys that pic for it's attractiveness (although some will fab for reasons other than sexual favouritism). by participating in topics that ask for certain types of bodies or body parts is similar in that you're promoting certain types as better than others. is that flattering? sure it is, in a world where we seek validation for shallow things that mean nothing. it's when you allow anyone but yourself (as a woman) to be in control of your sexuality, that is the problem. and women will participate in these things because we were brought up under patriarchy and taught to value these things (to the detriment of others). Goddamn it. I want to be you. trust me you do not but thank you. i will accept that compliment happily. "Maybe. I know there's a lot going on with you. But fuck you're intelligent on so many levels | |||
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" I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. I'd put money on it, that some wee mysogonist on here is having a jolly good chug tae your avatar, profile and words, so in turn you are providing sexual gratification albeit unwillingly. I'm sure there are. I'm sure some men also do that over my Facebook profile, my twitter profile, and over my university profile. That doesn't mean I'm mentally ill because I think some men are misogynists. Properly reading what you reply to will help you with that. Which bit did I misread?" 'Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs.' This bit | |||
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" I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. I'd put money on it, that some wee mysogonist on here is having a jolly good chug tae your avatar, profile and words, so in turn you are providing sexual gratification albeit unwillingly. I'm sure there are. I'm sure some men also do that over my Facebook profile, my twitter profile, and over my university profile. That doesn't mean I'm mentally ill because I think some men are misogynists. Properly reading what you reply to will help you with that. Which bit did I misread? 'Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs.' This bit "Ah. So I'm delusional. I mean if you're going to be honest it should really read: 'Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs.' Because some men will wank over you after they've just seen you in the street. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. ok, great to know. Next time I sent 'shit compliment guy" to you, no compliment should be left unappreciated!
You come across as a little rude. I dont know why people dont just delete messages they get if they dont like it
Maybe. But it was you who said that you like this 'shit' compliment. So if I am rude, pointing that out, let it be.
And I guess people do delete unwanted emails. But does it mean we cannot discuss it?
I actually said a compliment was a compliment. I didnt give my opinion on whether i liked them or not. "Well. You came on threat which is about "shit compliment" saying that that. So "shit compliment" that must be compliment for you. (even if for majority woman here is just a misogynist insult. Words DO have meaning and power. You said it, owe it. Or you can always say - sorry I wasn't thinking | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. being on a sex site is not the actual problem here. women are allowed to sexualise themselves and, in turn, gratify themselves sexually. and be in control of that (on a compatible level). when they allow men/others to do that, then that is the problem. so allowing your pics to be fabbed (and therefore compete sexually with others or allow others to favour you) is a problem. most pics will be being fabbed because someone enjoys that pic for it's attractiveness (although some will fab for reasons other than sexual favouritism). by participating in topics that ask for certain types of bodies or body parts is similar in that you're promoting certain types as better than others. is that flattering? sure it is, in a world where we seek validation for shallow things that mean nothing. it's when you allow anyone but yourself (as a woman) to be in control of your sexuality, that is the problem. and women will participate in these things because we were brought up under patriarchy and taught to value these things (to the detriment of others). Goddamn it. I want to be you. trust me you do not but thank you. i will accept that compliment happily.
Maybe. I know there's a lot going on with you. But fuck you're intelligent on so many levels "i was even thinking the other day is intelligence really that important, you can by without it. but now i'm wondering is is shallow to admire that, haha. fuck my thought processes, i was enjoying myself a minute ago. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. ok, great to know. Next time I sent 'shit compliment guy" to you, no compliment should be left unappreciated!
You come across as a little rude. I dont know why people dont just delete messages they get if they dont like it
Maybe. But it was you who said that you like this 'shit' compliment. So if I am rude, pointing that out, let it be.
And I guess people do delete unwanted emails. But does it mean we cannot discuss it?
I actually said a compliment was a compliment. I didnt give my opinion on whether i liked them or not.
Well. You came on threat which is about "shit compliment" saying that that.
So "shit compliment" that must be compliment for you.
(even if for majority woman here is just a misogynist insult.
Words DO have meaning and power. You said it, owe it.
Or you can always say - sorry I wasn't thinking"Regardless if its well thought out or not. It's still a compliment. For the record i wouldnt mind a message saying this. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. Regardless if its well thought out or not. It's still a compliment. For the record i wouldnt mind a message saying this. " even if the person he fucks after you makes you look like shit? | |||
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"Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs. being on a sex site is not the actual problem here. women are allowed to sexualise themselves and, in turn, gratify themselves sexually. and be in control of that (on a compatible level). when they allow men/others to do that, then that is the problem. so allowing your pics to be fabbed (and therefore compete sexually with others or allow others to favour you) is a problem. most pics will be being fabbed because someone enjoys that pic for it's attractiveness (although some will fab for reasons other than sexual favouritism). by participating in topics that ask for certain types of bodies or body parts is similar in that you're promoting certain types as better than others. is that flattering? sure it is, in a world where we seek validation for shallow things that mean nothing. it's when you allow anyone but yourself (as a woman) to be in control of your sexuality, that is the problem. and women will participate in these things because we were brought up under patriarchy and taught to value these things (to the detriment of others). Goddamn it. I want to be you. trust me you do not but thank you. i will accept that compliment happily.
Maybe. I know there's a lot going on with you. But fuck you're intelligent on so many levels
i was even thinking the other day is intelligence really that important, you can by without it. but now i'm wondering is is shallow to admire that, haha.
fuck my thought processes, i was enjoying myself a minute ago. "Laughing! | |||
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" I think we have different ideas of what this site is for. This isn't, to me, a 'public sex site'. I am not here to have sex with any man who requests it. I am here to meet people who I can have fully consensual and mutually fulfilling sex with. Not provide gratification for the masses. Lots of the men here are misogynistic - I'm not afraid of saying that. But then, I don't have sex with those men, so I do not believe I'm delusional or have a mental health condition. I'd put money on it, that some wee mysogonist on here is having a jolly good chug tae your avatar, profile and words, so in turn you are providing sexual gratification albeit unwillingly. I'm sure there are. I'm sure some men also do that over my Facebook profile, my twitter profile, and over my university profile. That doesn't mean I'm mentally ill because I think some men are misogynists. Properly reading what you reply to will help you with that. Which bit did I misread? 'Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise being on a public sex site and then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs.' This bit
Ah. So I'm delusional.
I mean if you're going to be honest it should really read:
'Any woman who feels she is not providing gratification for males or otherwise then shouts words like mysogonistic and misandristic is in my opinion delusional, border line fruit the loop even fs.'
Because some men will wank over you after they've just seen you in the street."Woman logic right there. | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. Regardless if its well thought out or not. It's still a compliment. For the record i wouldnt mind a message saying this. " even if the person he fucks after you makes you look like shit?" Hey. Don't expect too much | |||
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"Trying to pick up a woman this way is not the definition of misogyny. I can't believe that this word is bandied about so much when a man dares to breath What I do think is...man wants sex, man says what he thinks someone wants to hear to get the sex. If women believe men mean everything they say then they are very naive" Unless it comes from me then it's gospel fs | |||
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"A compliments a compliment however its delive_ed. Regardless if its well thought out or not. It's still a compliment. For the record i wouldnt mind a message saying this. " even if the person he fucks after you makes you look like shit? Hey. Don't expect too much "lol. i have very low expectations -which is why i have thoughts like the above. | |||
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"Trying to pick up a woman this way is not the definition of misogyny. I can't believe that this word is bandied about so much when a man dares to breath What I do think is...man wants sex, man says what he thinks someone wants to hear to get the sex. If women believe men mean everything they say then they are very naive" Obviously that could apply the other way round too | |||
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"You're on a site for people to have sex. Whether in a couple or not. Deal with it. Stop being so holier than though. It's pathetic. If course you'll receive messages that are a bit stupid Or crass. Or is that misogyny too? I bet many men have wrote humourous, well thought out one liners, or long winded messages that bore you too...and that probably didn't cut mustard either... If a lady on here looked like Kate Blanchet let's say and received a comment like that then in all honesty the sender of the message was probably right! Saying that, I've yet to see a really attractive woman on here... Queue mock indignation from the egomaniacal women of fab then....
I bet* they were stunningly attractive before they turned you down.
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"Trying to pick up a woman this way is not the definition of misogyny. I can't believe that this word is bandied about so much when a man dares to breath What I do think is...man wants sex, man says what he thinks someone wants to hear to get the sex. If women believe men mean everything they say then they are very naive" Well said | |||
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" And trying to manipulate one woman into feeling better because he said "my gf looks like shit next to you" is low class of manipulations, but must be working, if it is used more and more often." I wouldn't use this kind of "compliment" but you can look at it this way: One's has a gf that he would normally like (it's rare that you get a gf that you can't stand or are embarassed by her) . She may be the most beautiful for him. What he is saying is that this most beautiful girl (whether real or imaginary) that likes so much that he never thought he would ever meet a woman prettier that her, is actually so much inferior than you. So you must be out of this world.. Something like that... People are different. What you like may be disgusting for others and vice versa. | |||
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"I wouldn't use this kind of "compliment" but you can look at it this way: One's has a gf that he would normally like (it's rare that you get a gf that you can't stand or are embarassed by her) . She may be the most beautiful for him. What he is saying is that this most beautiful girl (whether real or imaginary) that likes so much that he never thought he would ever meet a woman prettier that her, is actually so much inferior than you. So you must be out of this world." Well. Wrong. It is pick up line used by pick up artist more and more often. (as Interrupted85 mentioned, and as many woman in this thread confirm from their experience) Pick up lines like pick up lines - can be more or less cheesy. That one I find particularly cheesy and YES misogynist. | |||
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