FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Acceptable terms of endearment

Jump to newest
 

By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends call me panda. Marc has his own name for me. Other than that, Courtney is just fine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

"

Cunt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

Cunt "

You like or dislike?

I prefer to refer to the wonderful lady garden as a hairy axe wound myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handsome

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"My friends call me panda. Marc has his own name for me. Other than that, Courtney is just fine "

Panda is a lovely name ms Courtney! is there a story behind it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

None from a complete stranger or someone I'm just getting to know

My name/nick name would suffice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who it's from.

I see my full name from a lover as an endearment as, outside of work and family, I don't let anyone else call me it.

I like sweet/sweetie/sweetheart too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like any terms of endearment from someone I don't know.

Just use my name

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

"

What's wrong with calling women by their first name?? I'd much prefer that.

I hate chavvy expressions such as babes, babe or hun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

What's wrong with calling women by their first name?? I'd much prefer that.

I hate chavvy expressions such as babes, babe or hun. "

Nothing wrong with that at all Louisa.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

"

I play with terms of endearment and I am happy for people to do the same, I just won't stand for anything demeaning or disrespectful.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've our own terms of endearment for each other.

I dislike pal, buddy, mate - get these at work from customers - how do they know I'm not a psycho and if I'm their 'pal' when's my birthday and where's my presents?

On fab - babe or hunni grind my gears in a message.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round these parts women get called love, barmaids, shop keeps, Any woman you don't know the name of

"Alright love"

"Cheers love"

No one bats an eye. Heard in other areas women hate it

Men get called mate mostly

Personally I hate being called pal.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when anyone calls me anything (just not anything rude!)

G x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun ..lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?

What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??

"

What's acceptable is a completely different thing depending on the type of interaction happening at the time, as you have found out what is acceptable to one isn't to another. You will have to gauge it with the person at the time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top