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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please are beautiful creatures please if you ask to do something on the profile. Like for example "Be nice , polite, don't write that"

And we do or simply write how gorgeous and sexy bodies or pictures you got.

At lest have respect to write message thx or no thx or for those who are at least nice , couple more words. if you not interested

I will explain you simply why?

1 you don't respond we sitting and thinking did you write the message and u ignore or forget or etc.

2 and we write second one with the hope you didt see the first one - what showing to us the message in red u sent already one message do you want send another one without respond on first.

3 we thinking I will send wink

4 after sending wink we have another doubts did you see

5 you liking us cos we stalking or bother you . Or the best you rude cos we don't get it when woman is not interested.

6 and maybe one time do us favour and try write one of the message like we do after reading your profile long like 50 shades of Gray to fit your requirements. What always have more from 15 words usually . And then wait to be ignore, write another one thinking "she didt read, then think send wink or not ? To the end be blocked or called names and hear how rude we are.

Then count the time how long is taking.

And answer your self after how many ignore messages you will give up be nice, polite or give up at all to even bother write anything .

And then you see how glad you are if someone even give you like or write simple words like Thank you.

And one questions do you ever hear complains " don't send me pussy pic send face"?

Or

Expected messages like (I want to lick you pussy , I will fuck you , I will stick . This and that if u have pictures of you pussy or gang bang ms and what ever pics in your profile.

We are humans too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think thats cleared that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for men, it's unticked on my looking for. I haven't filtered men as I play some of the forum games etc. I still get random messages from men. When they message it will have said - this person isn't looking for men, do you still want to message?

Am I obliged then to say thank you ? Because I don't think I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm...

Yes, no, maybe, 42.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm thinking maybe English isn't your first language OP but get the gist of it. If you search, you'll find loads of threads from other guys wondering why they don't get replies, don't get noticed etc., which are full of info and advice about how to make your profile the most appealing it can be, as well as setting realistic expectations. Most women get so many messages it'd be physically impossible to reply to them all, and a lot of women ignore winks. Not replying isn't rude, it's the way of the site. There simply aren't enough hours in the day for what you're suggesting and women are under no obligation to reply to anyone they don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it's mean you got wrong set up . Becouse if you have tick no men we are not able to send message

It is write this person not accept messages from your sex ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes English is not mine firs language truth . But for knowing 6 languages is little bit silly call that person stupid like some people do it , when they don't know exactly perfect there's own language.

And yes maybe I don't sound like professor of Cambridge but everyone understand and I know that to I do not write how I should.

And next thing, yes women's get many massages but we writing them and they take much longer time to write after reading encyclopaedia on there's profile what is not even realy what they want . From reply back (thx no ) for example . They write "any thing anywhere anytime. But not knowing meaning of this words.

Last think I know there is subject all the time in the forums . But do any one see some progress from writing and loosing even more time to get angry on it?

Any solution? Any ideas? Any changes? Or we will be like woman's just complain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lee Fee Verte i send you message

And when i was sending i Notice on top ????

I did sent already message you dindt get reply ....... simply knowin as (you Not the guy bro )

???????? so read If you can . ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*facepalms*

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Errr OP ... I mean this in the nicest possible way ... I was trying to offer you advice earlier, not invite you to message me.

I won't be replying because you're not for me, sorry. But to be honest, the sort of message you sent me wouldn't be one that'd get my attention anyway as it appears to be a generic cut and paste type, albeit that it's probably the longest first message I ever got

I'm going to block you - no offence intended but there's no point in you wasting your time.

And my last word on the matter, most women like an individually tailored message. Like I said before, there are loads of threads on this topic offering advice .....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think you're over thinking all of this a bit much. When you send a message don't keep checking up on it. If they want to reply, they will. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could read the FAQ's that clearly state no response means they are not interested.

Just because someone sends a messages does not mean I have to respond, I ignore spam email the same as I do on fab

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By *ensualguy101Man
over a year ago

Orpington

You're obviously not the first guy to say what you've said. However, women on here get 40 or 50 messages a day. That's simply too much for anyone to manage, especially if they work during the day, etc. So I think, in fairness, you simply have to accept that it can take a long time to get a rapport going with any lady on Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's mean you got wrong set up . Becouse if you have tick no men we are not able to send message

It is write this person not accept messages from your sex ?? "

No you still can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site admin have realised that some-possibly most- women want to get so many messages that they can't, or can't be bothered to, respond but still have a full inbox. So, admin have an almost apology for them, stating no reply means not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all gave right . I think to much about becouse i give my time to write messages . So Thank you for explain you write .

Laa Fee Verte

I dont know What was the point writing that tou will block me If u did. You think i dont see Cross line on your name and What this mean

But ofcourse this will make you feel better to show off to ppl who read this post .

And If you think i copy and paste then u must get Lota of messages like that.

You dont need to worry about go to your profile . I dont bother with ppl What instead say Thank you for complements blocking you . I didt give you Any propositions in the message .

Thank you all for reading and reasponding . Have a nice day

To Rude people too . Accept people How They are Or dont be rude If you dont accept them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all gave right . I think to much about becouse i give my time to write messages . So Thank you for explain you write .

Laa Fee Verte

I dont know What was the point writing that tou will block me If u did. You think i dont see Cross line on your name and What this mean

But ofcourse this will make you feel better to show off to ppl who read this post .

And If you think i copy and paste then u must get Lota of messages like that.

You dont need to worry about go to your profile . I dont bother with ppl What instead say Thank you for complements blocking you . I didt give you Any propositions in the message .

Thank you all for reading and reasponding . Have a nice day

To Rude people too . Accept people How They are Or dont be rude If you dont accept them .

"

It's also worth you considering that you may be interpreting rudeness that wasn't there from another person. I find that failure to work on understanding someone's intent from a comment when perhaps you don't understand it, and because it doesn't give you the answer you may feel is correct, rather rude. However, I can see you've simply misunderstood LFV's meaning from her posts, and are putting incorrect assumptions on why she has said what she has or why she conducts her profile in the way she chooses, so I won't call you rude. Perhaps you could also give someone the benefit of the doubt and maybe, just maybe, consider you didn't understand them rather than accuse them of being show offs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can read or not read messages.

No reply?

Move on.

That's all that needs to be said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i like your psychological opinion , but still Is opinion . And If we will look logical and psyhological . What changing in everything .if She block me like She fone without writing in the post like i writing to her 1000 messages Or i m obsessed and she must to let know everyone. So showin this on public post indicate only to show that she close conversation with me saying I copy and paste without chance to hear my answer.

So what you think . Did I have chance stand against accusations?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said of course you all have right everyone can read or not write or not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i like your psychological opinion , but still Is opinion . And If we will look logical and psyhological . What changing in everything .if She block me like She fone without writing in the post like i writing to her 1000 messages Or i m obsessed and she must to let know everyone. So showin this on public post indicate only to show that she close conversation with me saying I copy and paste without chance to hear my answer.

So what you think . Did I have chance stand against accusations?"

I don't even understand you, so I wouldn't attempt to answer this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said of course you all have right everyone can read or not write or not ??"

I don't think the issue here lies within our reading...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's difficult to understand what your saying most the time due to the language but I can't fault that for someone in who English isn't their first language. We see this same thread every single day, I'd like to know what makes you think, no matter how well you write your message, that that means that you deserve a response? Sending a message doesn't automatically warrant getting a reply

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

You seem to be over thinking things too much fella, if you don't get a response it's a no thank you and instead of wondering why no reply? Just delete the messages after you send them and if you get a response...bonus, if not carry on plugging away.

There is someone for everyone(normally) you just have to put the leg work in and ensure you are selling yourself as best you can.

Good luck.

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey

Op don't even try to

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Your points 1-3 in your OP seem a bit ott and slightly hassling to be honest.

Just send a message and be done for a couple of days. If there's no response and it's been read take it as a no and find someone else who might be interested. It's not rocket science really.

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