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Is 'kinky' the most over/inappropriately-used word on Fab?

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

I fully blame EL James and those dreadfully disappointing books for this, but I'm constantly asked if I'm kinky.... Which puzzles me... Surely kinky is subjective, a matter of perspective? What's kinky to one person will be viewed as mundane to others... Hell some think its kinky just being on a swing site...

So recently I've started asking "well what do YOU consider kinky?" just in order to very able to answer honestly....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

With you all the way on that one!!

There are some for whom putting the lights on is considered the ultimate kink!! Others still who'd be hogtied, whipped and put in the fourth plinth in Trafalgar Square and still not think it remotely kinky!!

So yes it's subjective, and can only be clarified through discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with bums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you say kinky is subjective. My normal can be someone else's really kinky or my kinky could be like constant missionary with the lights off to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't answer this one as I have my mouth full ... am I being kinky or perverted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My level of kink would be different from other. I saw a profile other day saying it was kinky because he did a bitta of rough sex. Kinda smirked and moved on

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree totally. Was chatting with a group of my friends who were talking about the whole 50 shades and thinking how good a bit of being tied up would be kinky. But to me that's tame and not really that kinky at all. So yes I do think when having that conversation further clarity is needed. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think 'cake' is

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Respect as in 'treat this person with...' I mean come on really, some people have to be told that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky yes kinky I kinky think kinky it kinky is kinky

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I fully blame EL James and those dreadfully disappointing books for this, but I'm constantly asked if I'm kinky.... Which puzzles me... Surely kinky is subjective, a matter of perspective? What's kinky to one person will be viewed as mundane to others... Hell some think its kinky just being on a swing site...

So recently I've started asking "well what do YOU consider kinky?" just in order to very able to answer honestly.... "

I thought thursday was rant day around these parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo

`Fun' is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect as in 'treat this person with...' I mean come on really, some people have to be told that?"

I've always wondered if it's code for 'this person is vulnerable'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think our (Fabbers) kinkometers have been recalibrated to a different scale from Vanillas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still see shit on fetlife that makes me suck in air and go "alright mate, calm down"

So I'm not the kinkiest but I like to think I'm on the spectrum, not just the austistic one ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still see shit on fetlife that makes me suck in air and go "alright mate, calm down"

So I'm not the kinkiest but I like to think I'm on the spectrum, not just the austistic one ha"

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