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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or is it getting even harder to actually arrange a meet maybe I'm just not a looker but is anyone else struggling. There are some gorgeous woman on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not struggling at all

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Or is it getting even harder to actually arrange a meet maybe I'm just not a looker but is anyone else struggling. There are some gorgeous woman on here"

Loads of people on here struggle. You just have to make sure your profile stands out from all the others. Maybe go to a club on your own, rather than relying on someone to go with you.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We don't struggle but that may be because we are a couple....we meet a lot of people at parties both singles and couples. Maybe parties would work for you too? Messing around here in the forums will help too because people will be able to get to know you and your personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't struggle but that may be because we are a couple....we meet a lot of people at parties both singles and couples. Maybe parties would work for you too? Messing around here in the forums will help too because people will be able to get to know you and your personality "

I'm still waiting for my party invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh did someone say party?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't struggle but that may be because we are a couple....we meet a lot of people at parties both singles and couples. Maybe parties would work for you too? Messing around here in the forums will help too because people will be able to get to know you and "

I almost took that as my first 3 sum invite then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just you.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I'm still waiting for my party invite "

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Nope, it's not just you. But there are so many fake profiles in here, the true amount of genuine people (and therefore the possibility of actual meets) is getting less and less for sure

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"We don't struggle but that may be because we are a couple....we meet a lot of people at parties both singles and couples. Maybe parties would work for you too? Messing around here in the forums will help too because people will be able to get to know you and

I almost took that as my first 3 sum invite then lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't you have a meet last week?

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn't last week count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just talking in general

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

Some people struggle others don't its down to various things from a male/female/couple profile to be a really boring person and then there is the fugly stick and if you have been beaten black and blue with it the try try......give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not struggling at all"

Same, I'm just struggling to fit them all in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is it getting even harder to actually arrange a meet maybe I'm just not a looker but is anyone else struggling. There are some gorgeous woman on here"
I struggle yes ..........but she got me pinned down

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I have my fair share of fun, however have had a number of meets arranged recently which have been cancelled. Are they fakes or genuine excuses, who knows.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I struggle a lot on here, but I blame living in an unfortunate area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find people nearby. There's loads I want to meet further away!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I struggle to find people nearby. There's loads I want to meet further away! "

Ditto

Geography bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too "

I'm always open for an invite

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

I've done well recently but had several no shows and timewasters. Take the rough with the smooth x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

I'm always open for an invite "

I would need to try you out first

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yes I struggle a lot on here, but I blame living in an unfortunate area "

What's 'unfortunate' about Aberdeen lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

I'm always open for an invite

I would need to try you out first "

Of course you would, I'll wait for that invite first then

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

I'm always open for an invite

I would need to try you out first

Of course you would, I'll wait for that invite first then "

Don't tempt me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

I'm always open for an invite

I would need to try you out first

Of course you would, I'll wait for that invite first then

Don't tempt me "

Go on, dares ya

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I'm still waiting for my party invite

I was at a party on Saturday....you could have come if I had known you wanted too

I'm always open for an invite

I would need to try you out first

Of course you would, I'll wait for that invite first then

Don't tempt me

Go on, dares ya "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really difficult, yes. So many men play hard to get these days!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A common post and it's always the same answer, men far outweigh women in her so if a woman is looking for a meet she will get 100 plus messages so has her pick of the bunch, clubs are definitely the best way to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, it's not just you. But there are so many fake profiles in here, the true amount of genuine people (and therefore the possibility of actual meets) is getting less and less for sure "

I agree, the number of fake profiles is escalating i suspect at least 60% of 'female' profiles are not genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A common post and it's always the same answer, men far outweigh women in her so if a woman is looking for a meet she will get 100 plus messages so has her pick of the bunch, clubs are definitely the best way to meet "

On here even

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A common post and it's always the same answer, men far outweigh women in her so if a woman is looking for a meet she will get 100 plus messages so has her pick of the bunch, clubs are definitely the best way to meet "

Not necessarily for single guys, unless it's a greedy girl day

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yes I struggle a lot on here, but I blame living in an unfortunate area

What's 'unfortunate' about Aberdeen lol?"

Well it's not exactly a swinging part of the country, we don't have any clubs let alone like the club's down south so therefore I blame that for the crap attitudes shown by men towards the women on here. With that statement I am actually being very generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have to search , first browse in your area / 60 miles away , then go to meets/events and search again.

i send about 20 messages out daily .....

you have to put the effort in .

there a bit like buses , not that i use buses but none for ages then 3come along at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried and there have been promising conversations, most of the time I send a normal message, nothing short or cut and paste, it'll get deleted or the person just fizzles out.

Rx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is - in my local area, it's a case of everyone's met each other - so it feels kinda icky - and none of them interest me. So instead, I go down the forum route instead, which, due to distance and other factors, may mean that it takes weeks or months to meet but it's how I like it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

4 weeks here is a really short period of time - and having had 1 meet and verification is above average, I'd guess.

Your photos Imo don't do you justice, blurry or not enlarging when clicked etc.

It's a place to be here for the long-haul, as those who don't have the tenacity to stick with it, will give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really difficult, yes. So many men play hard to get these days!! "

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