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Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
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"But what do you like OP?  "Read the profile. That'll give you a good idea what I like. Oh no, wait... You want me to spell it out for you  | |||
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"But what do you like OP?
Read the profile. That'll give you a good idea what I like. Oh no, wait... You want me to spell it out for you "Shall I just send a cock pic instead? They work don't they?  | |||
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"Add the What are you wearing? messages to that too  "Yep, and then you should tell them how you're sitting there in your butterfly thong with your toy ready to be inserted  | |||
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"But what do you like OP?
Read the profile. That'll give you a good idea what I like. Oh no, wait... You want me to spell it out for you
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"I think the anticipation of finding out over time is exciting. Don't want to blow your load right off the starting line..." That's thankfully how a lot of people on here feel. Wouldn't be on the site if everybody had the attitude as described in my post x | |||
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"Brilliant! I always hate being asked what I like! I especially hate it when the conversation is going well and there is potential only for all momentum to be lost in one stupid question! " It does filter out pretty quickly you're not compatible. Suppose that's kind of a time saver as well x | |||
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"Add the What are you wearing? messages to that too
Yep, and then you should tell them how you're sitting there in your butterfly thong with your toy ready to be inserted "The last time I got asked this i was totally honest... my Elsa from Frozen nightie . Surprisingly it wasn't the response he was after. | |||
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"Call me thick but I still don't know if OP likes it up the ass or not. I hate these cliff hanger threads." Keep hanging on to that cliff | |||
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"Brilliant! I always hate being asked what I like! I especially hate it when the conversation is going well and there is potential only for all momentum to be lost in one stupid question! It does filter out pretty quickly you're not compatible. Suppose that's kind of a time saver as well x" I feel exactly the same! I really dislike being asked 'what I like' - hasn't that already been covered on the profile anyway? I also have eye rolls at 'what are you up to?' Er.. skipping over saucepans? Reading picture books?' Etc etc  | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
x"This is THE best post I've had the pleasure of reading in the forums. It's so very true. Spot on OP. Well said for getting it out there and I couldn't agree more | |||
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"Add the What are you wearing? messages to that too
Yep, and then you should tell them how you're sitting there in your butterfly thong with your toy ready to be inserted
The last time I got asked this i was totally honest... my Elsa from Frozen nightie . Surprisingly it wasn't the response he was after. "Oh man!!! Such a buzz kill | |||
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"Call me thick but I still don't know if OP likes it up the ass or not. I hate these cliff hanger threads. Keep hanging on to that cliff " | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
x"yes but you can't please all of the people all of the time so the fact that they have foolishly asked you that question not realising you've been asked it a 1000 times is not their mistake just their misfortune ,many women dont actually want you to know anything about them they want NSA but as do you and I we want to know and understand what each other wants from this place ,most single people I hazard a guess are looking for a partner many will disagree with that statement but many are ,we are all different in our needs and our tastes . I think it would also depend on who asked the question if they supplied a pic and had a nice profile write up I think your degree of frustration with the question would be less than that of a faceless profiless person . I for one read profiles and have a grasp of the English language but having said that never ask that annoying question | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
x This is THE best post I've had the pleasure of reading in the forums.
It's so very true. Spot on OP. Well said for getting it out there and I couldn't agree more "Thanks x Wish I could take the credit for it
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
x yes but you can't please all of the people all of the time so the fact that they have foolishly asked you that question not realising you've been asked it a 1000 times is not their mistake just their misfortune ,many women dont actually want you to know anything about them they want NSA but as do you and I we want to know and understand what each other wants from this place ,most single people I hazard a guess are looking for a partner many will disagree with that statement but many are ,we are all different in our needs and our tastes .
I think it would also depend on who asked the question if they supplied a pic and had a nice profile write up I think your degree of frustration with the question would be less than that of a faceless profiless person .
I for one read profiles and have a grasp of the English language but having said that never ask that annoying question "And that's why I posted this. To hopefully enlighten a few people. Not telling anyone off x | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
x This is THE best post I've had the pleasure of reading in the forums.
It's so very true. Spot on OP. Well said for getting it out there and I couldn't agree more
Thanks x Wish I could take the credit for it
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"So true OP, but you have to laugh!! I get asked what I like, what I'm wearing, what am I doing etc a lot. It's an instant turn off! Great filter as someone has said. I didn't even consider that they might be knocking one out though "Sometimes feels like that's the whole idea behind messages like this - "getting to knock one out". x | |||
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"Laugh how is that a filter I'm sorry that's an excuse to move onto another because the message pile is to great its not a legitimate filter unless of course they are illiterate and In your face with sexual innuendo and bad mannered" Don't mind messages like these from new members who are trying to figure things out, but if someone's been on for over a year and still starts this way, I'm not wasting my time on them. So there's my filter x | |||
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"Laugh how is that a filter I'm sorry that's an excuse to move onto another because the message pile is to great its not a legitimate filter unless of course they are illiterate and In your face with sexual innuendo and bad mannered" Messages like the ones described are sexual innuendos and bad manners!! | |||
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"Add the What are you wearing? messages to that too
Yep, and then you should tell them how you're sitting there in your butterfly thong with your toy ready to be inserted
The last time I got asked this i was totally honest... my Elsa from Frozen nightie . Surprisingly it wasn't the response he was after. "I find it rarely puts them off tbh...Bambi PJs....Star Wars nightie...spongebob knickers...all good apparently...they still won't get a pic of em | |||
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"Brilliant! I always hate being asked what I like! I especially hate it when the conversation is going well and there is potential only for all momentum to be lost in one stupid question! It does filter out pretty quickly you're not compatible. Suppose that's kind of a time saver as well x I feel exactly the same! I really dislike being asked 'what I like' - hasn't that already been covered on the profile anyway? I also have eye rolls at 'what are you up to?' Er.. skipping over saucepans? Reading picture books?' Etc etc "At least you got proper words...Yesterday we had the abysmal wuu2? I replied with "Trying to avoid people who can't speak English!!" Funnily enough we've not had another message from him since. | |||
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"Laugh how is that a filter I'm sorry that's an excuse to move onto another because the message pile is to great its not a legitimate filter unless of course they are illiterate and In your face with sexual innuendo and bad mannered Don't mind messages like these from new members who are trying to figure things out, but if someone's been on for over a year and still starts this way, I'm not wasting my time on them. So there's my filter x" oh well of course if ill mannered then I understand the filter process but a well written mannerable question shouldn't be a filter | |||
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"It is painful how accurate this is! Too many people ask this, but they could just look at my profile as it is on there. " Noooo, they want to hear you say it. Every single detail please | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
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"Absolutely brilliant, the amount of those type of conversations I get. I am more than a vagina, my brain does work. I want normal conversation, to know them as a person. The most erotic conversation I've had didn't contain any of the usual type of filth but the thoughts it conjured up was a bigger turn on than the I want you to suck my cock brigade x " Thankfully it's not only the "suck my cock brigade" on here. Plenty decent folk as well x | |||
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Him - what would you like?
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"Absolutely brilliant, the amount of those type of conversations I get. I am more than a vagina, my brain does work. I want normal conversation, to know them as a person. The most erotic conversation I've had didn't contain any of the usual type of filth but the thoughts it conjured up was a bigger turn on than the I want you to suck my cock brigade x Thankfully it's not only the "suck my cock brigade" on here. Plenty decent folk as well x" Yes, there is. Most are nice it's just the odd one that has me rolling my eyes skyward x | |||
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
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"After being asked yet again "so what do you like?" I thought I'd put a blog I read a while ago on here (not my own work). Wondering if other females feel the same and hopefully some advice for the men who weren't too sure about this
Asking a woman what she’s into is a conversational dead end. It is really best left unasked.
It comes across as if the one and only thing guys want to know about is our sexual proclivities. Nothing else is of any interest, except the degree of freakiness.
You don’t want to get to know her and what type of person she is, you merely want to know what kind of sex you can expect from her.
The problem here is that, even if the woman in question were to answer it, it doesn’t open up conversation. Here’s what will most likely happen if you try:
Him: What are you into?
Her: Nothing particularly exotic
Him: Oral sex? Vaginal sex?
Her: I think that’s a pretty safe assumption for nearly all women here
Him: Nothing else?
Her: As I said, nothing exotic
Him: How about anal? Do you like anal sex?
Her: I’m not having anal sex with you
Him: I know, I’m just wondering what you like is all
Her: I’m not blown away by anal, and I absolutely won’t do it with a new partner
Him: But you’ve done it?
Her: Why is it so important for you to hear me say it? Yes, I’ve done it
This is NOT a conversation. None of these questions need to be asked. Nothing of any significance got revealed. It is not getting you any closer to meeting the lady in question. You’re sending all the wrong messages and you’re losing points every step of the way.
You know how a conversation like this really comes across?
Him: What are you into? I need to get off. So I need to hear about your sexual exploits
Her: The usual stuff
Him: That’s not good enough. You have to describe it in detail. You need to use words like “pussy” and “tits” or I won’t be able to masturbate to completion. Do you like sucking dick?
Her: I enjoy oral
Him: No! You have to say DICK. Do you like sucking DICK?? Oh my god, I’m so fucking HARD here and you’re not helping. Do it right!!!!
Her: Ok, ok … don’t have an aneurysm … I like sucking dick
Him: Do you want dick in your pussy?
Her: What you’re describing is sex. This is a sex site. I’m pretty sure everyone here enjoys sex or they wouldn’t bother being here
Him: No! You have to say how WET your PUSSY is
Her: Because you’re being so insistent … yeah, my pussy gets wet when I think about having sex, doesn’t everyone’s?
Him: I just came in my pants. Want me to take a pic of it for you?
Her: Lovely.... Take care
End of conversation. Period.
We are all on here for sex, but the mind needs a little bit more than what is described here. Nothing wrong with normal conversation and a hint of cheekiness, but don't try to drag it out of us like this. If the connection is there you'll find out everything single dirty little detail sooner or later. But better not start it off this way.
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