FabSwingers.com forum: Facial disfigurement

By *he tactile technician OP Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

OK, so one of the people in your fab hot list is unfortunate to have an accident on the road and a result of this is that they now have a facial disfugurement, would you still want to fuck them, or have them as a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are already a friend or I've fucked them, then nothing like that will change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, now if they lost their dick that may be different, I do so love penile penetration.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

oooh... the judging a book by its cover quandry.... this should be interesting...

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By *he tactile technician OP Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"If they are already a friend or I've fucked them, then nothing like that will change my mind. "

Hey! you're obviously a sincere friend Laine, yet people with facial disfigurement are subjected to all kinds of prejudice merely for living with a face that is different. It may be a somewhat unfair thread to post by me as other than by touch I wouldn't see any difference or the change in their looks, but still I'm fascinated how I and other people would react to a friend or one of my hotties having experienced something like what happened to Katey Piper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gonna get slated for this but being honest, if it was so bad that i no longer found them attractive then id not continue with planning a meet

naturally it doesnt change who they are as a person, but i'm not wanting to fuck a personality. Id not be pressured into persuing the meet because then it would just be a sympathy shag and id not do that either.

Remain friends without a doubt though :D xx

ps.. i hope no one has any nasty accidents xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is a hard topic to comment on and i would like to think that i wouldnt but you dont know untill your in that situation... Beauty isnt just skin deep and personality speaks volumes...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would support them thro friendship, if they wanted that..

when the time was ready for them, we would discuss it and if we both agreed .. we would have sex.

I wouldn't fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who suffer such traumas can also undergo severe personality changes.

This would be the deciding factor for me.

When I befriend someone, it's for the long haul, but such life changing occurances can challenge the strongest wills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are already a friend or I've fucked them, then nothing like that will change my mind. "

*Nods in agreement*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gonna get slated for this but being honest, if it was so bad that i no longer found them attractive then id not continue with planning a meet

Remain friends without a doubt though :D xx

ps.. i hope no one has any nasty accidents xx"

I didn't see the question like that, I saw it as would you get rid of them as a friend.

If they were a friend and I'd already fucked them then they would remain a friend.

If they were hideously disfigured would I fuck them again? No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost a breast through cancer.

It was then that I discovered who my real friends and playmates were, the ones who couldn't 'cope' with my illness shot themselves in the foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boxing Helena turned me on. Are there any 'bobs' out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boxing Helena turned me on. Are there any 'bobs' out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer can`t see the essence o the liquid thru a bottle of coloured glass..

Its a twinkle in the eye, and that elusive erotism that piques my interest, that doesn`t nessasarily depend on looks...more a vibe..however I do eat with my eyes in honesty, but that isnt the defining factor wether I want to have fun...and some things like poor hygiene, I can never get past..ever..but a facial disfigurement wouldn`t ever seem enough fer me to be prejudiced..in the past it hasn`t presented a problem..I don`t notice the disfigurement...it kinda fades, if that makes sense..I learn`t a long time ago..all that glitters ain`t gold %"

My friendship isn`t based on looks...but the person and their values, attitudes etc, this is a completely different circumstance, to wether I find them attractive sexually..

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

True friendship is taking the mental and emotional(personality) connection over the physical (looks) one, and very little should change that. So, for me, if they were already a friend then they would stay one.

As for fucking, couldn't say until I was actually in that particular situation.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

How severe is the facial disfigurement?

If it's like a lil scar on the cheek that's fine, but if it's like a piece of head missing I would have to cut them loose.

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By *he tactile technician OP Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"How severe is the facial disfigurement?

If it's like a lil scar on the cheek that's fine, but if it's like a piece of head missing I would have to cut them loose."

Hmmmmmm. lets use Katey Piper as an example then Funkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard to say without seeing the person. If i was already friends and i might see through the issue. But if it was a new meet it would be different. Its like saying how long is a bit of string. You don't know till its in frount of you.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"How severe is the facial disfigurement?

If it's like a lil scar on the cheek that's fine, but if it's like a piece of head missing I would have to cut them loose.

Hmmmmmm. lets use Katey Piper as an example then Funkey

she is an incredible young girl... a true inspiration to a very lot of people.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"How severe is the facial disfigurement?

If it's like a lil scar on the cheek that's fine, but if it's like a piece of head missing I would have to cut them loose.

Hmmmmmm. lets use Katey Piper as an example then Funkey

she is an incredible young girl... a true inspiration to a very lot of people.

As View says she is an outstanding individual with balls of steel! and as it happens a cracking rack!

In all seriousness though why the fuck would anyone drop a friend because they looked different?

My flippancy was one born of incredulity at the question

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"OK, so one of the people in your fab hot list is unfortunate to have an accident on the road and a result of this is that they now have a facial disfugurement, would you still want to fuck them, or have them as a friend?"

It depends...our hotlist is used as a notlist plus a hotlist for sexy people...but some of them we havn't spoken to yet, so can't be classed as friends. Splitting hairs I know

But, if it was a friend before their disfigurement then I can't see there being a difference after.

The only way things would change is if they put a wall up while dealing with it themselves.

As for fucking them, if I didn't have them as friends, then we are back to straight NSA sex, where looks come into play, so it would still depend if I fancied them or not.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

So they are only on my hotlist? To me that means I haven't met them and I haven't yet formed any sort of rapport with them.... which means they would be none the wiser if I binned them off as a possible or not.

Would I bin off someone I didn't know because of the way they looked... yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK my friends list is for people I have met and chat to regularly....not always played with them.....

My Hotlist is only for people I have either played with or wish to play with.

Therefore, If I had a person on my Hotlist that I had met and played with in the past........taking a Katy Piper example....then why the hell not......they were hot enough to fuck in the past, get over the scars.....

Yes I have friends that I have tried and failed with because I found I was not sexually attracted to them after chatting and flirting for donkeys, howeverk, if I had successfully met and played with someone on a regular basis and they had an accident that left them similar to Katy Piper...I would have no problem whatsoever in continuing my current relationship.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a boyfriend a few years ago who had sever scarring on his face. He had had 54 stiches in his face some 25 years previously when they didnt do such a good job, some where lumpy and definetly not pretty. This was before i knew him so i was with him seeing them from the start. But after about 3 months i didnt think about them. We split up after 18 months but nothing to do with that

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By *he tactile technician OP Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

Yeah! I realise that such a hypothetical question leaves many of the unknown factors missing as you have said Fruitylicious. Personally I think that my friendship would remain as strong as it ever was so long as anyother contributory factors remained the same, a huge shift in personality could make things difficult, but I'd like to think that I was strong enough to find a way that I could support them and remain a friend. As for continuing to have a sexual relationship with that person, I suppose my circumstances may make me luckier than most; that isn't to say that I don't value beauty or find looks hugely important. We all live in a very image conscious media driven world, the air brush and the photo that makes good copy are forever veing rammed down our throats, so I fear that unless whomever was misfortunate to be the unlucky person emulted Katey Pipers energy and enthusiasm to re-build their beauty it may cause me to back away sexually.

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