FabSwingers.com forum: What's one thing that a person could say or do that would put you off meeting them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I really enjoy seeing another -married- thread on FB, I hope you do too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they start making a meet to-do list. Hate to feel that it is choreographed and that it is just a tick list for him.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It is not so much what they say but what they don't say.

We like to arrange a meet with as few messages as possible, we are here to meet not to chat.

Therefore if the person waffles on just passing the time of day we get bored and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Can we borrow your car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sort of meaningful emotion. I'd be gone!

Also if the meeting adress turned out to be at my mums! Definitely be gone.

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

"just got to wash the bloodstains from my cellar after the last meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they hound me for cock pics am more than just a dick fs, at least leave summit to the imagination fs.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Which hotel you booking..

Lets meet first!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

Telling me they're looking for quality over quantity, and then they post a couple of verifications from other guys, when I was under the impression I am the only bloke she's talking to

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

Asking how big my cock is.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Anything thats smells of billy liar. Whatever it is or however its said doesnt matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which hotel you booking..

Lets meet first! "

If she's half decent send her my way, I'll book the hotel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we borrow your car

This one made me laugh so much as I have:

(A) loaned a car to one lady I met on fab

(B) had the loan of a car from two (one of them the one above)

Now good friends with (A) although she is no longer on the scene.

For me it would be something along the lines of: " Do you like seafood? Because I've got crabs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them."

And that's why I'm loathe to meet

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

"Which hotel you booking..

Lets meet first!

If she's half decent send her my way, I'll book the hotel!

Haha. Never done hotel rooms. I prefer homely creature comforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them.

And that's why I'm loathe to meet

As in I look younger and thinner in pics.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them.

And that's why I'm loathe to meet

As in I look younger and thinner in pics.

What can possibly have happened since this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them.

And that's why I'm loathe to meet

As in I look younger and thinner in pics.

What can possibly have happened since this morning?

What happened this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What names do you prefer if it's a boy?

And a girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What names do you prefer if it's a boy?

And a girl?"

I was just being practical. You say bareback, I say what are we going to call junior?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What names do you prefer if it's a boy?

And a girl?

I was just being practical. You say bareback, I say what are we going to call junior?!

The mortar in our house of love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What names do you prefer if it's a boy?

And a girl?

I was just being practical. You say bareback, I say what are we going to call junior?!

The mortar in our house of love

There's been a mortar!!!....(said Taggart stylie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Demanding gifts! for god sake I'm a Yorkshire man and that is never going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Demanding gifts! for god sake I'm a Yorkshire man and that is never going to happen

Then we are at an impasse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't kiss.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Swearing in messages, the worst words being the C or the T word. I've led a sheltered life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I don't kiss. "

That definitely, bu that's easily established before messaging, check kissing threads simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they said no, that's an instant put me off

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

""I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

See veris verbal clarification not necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't kiss.

That definitely, bu that's easily established before messaging, check kissing threads simples

Oh yes. I'll go and search through all the kiss fuck avoid threads to see if they actually fancy me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

See veris verbal clarification not necessary

I'll just check yours..........

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

They want anal.

I have this fb that fancies you but doesn't have a profile or pictures

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Do you have any more pics?

When they have already had face/body/couple pics and a few naughty ones.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

""I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

See veris verbal clarification not necessary

I'll just check yours..........

I've already checked yours and sent pms to them for additional info

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Do you have any more pics?

When they have already had face/body/couple pics and a few naughty ones."

..and " What are you going to wear?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

See veris verbal clarification not necessary

I'll just check yours..........

I've already checked yours and sent pms to them for additional info

I know. They've warned me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she says I'm handsome, then I know she's fake and will be UNLOS by the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying Star Wars is better than Star Trek, or Marvel is better than DC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ferrets can't wait to meet you

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Offer you a joint..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When some uses nothing but text speak. And is abreviates speak for example.

Wha's up?

Ow u doin.

Can't abide it

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

""I once met and had sex with [insertname here] "

See veris verbal clarification not necessary

I'll just check yours..........

I've already checked yours and sent pms to them for additional info

I know. They've warned me.

They said they had, don't think they want to share

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Swearing in messages, the worst words being the C or the T word. I've led a sheltered life

Oh christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything remotely suggesting they were looking for more than just casual sex

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I had been chatting with a guy and we were getting to the point of meeting. He suggested I go round to his but I said I wasn't going our as I had cystitis and was in pain. He said I could still go round and just give him a blow job!! Instant block.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Slyly asking me to be mummy or a naughty daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post up a pic of them participating in a bareback gang bang

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Swearing in messages, the worst words being the C or the T word. I've led a sheltered life

Oh christ"

Yes madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man asking if I'd meet him alone first as his wife/gf is away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying something like " I can only stay 15 minutes I have to be home to take the wife to work..

Shows me that they haven't even bothered looking at my profile.

Another is calling me baby, darling, love etc...grrrrr

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Swearing in messages, the worst words being the C or the T word. I've led a sheltered life

Oh christ

Yes madam

I never say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the what would you do to me question

I'm on a sex site so I'm not going to read you a book

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Could be anything. Once they pissed me off i wont meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u arrange for them to come to yours and then last minute they say grandad just died or something similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking like it is a foregone conclusion and that the social is definitely going to lead to sex

Or using words like slut, whore, bitch - real turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about past meets in a derogatory way. If he talked about her like that then I've little doubt he'll talk about me in the same way.

Someone who keeps asking for pics and vids. It's just a no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me what to wear. Or when the guy wants me to bring one of my friend's (never gunna happen)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you going to wear?

Have you ever played with a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about past meets in a derogatory way. If he talked about her like that then I've little doubt he'll talk about me in the same way.

Someone who keeps asking for pics and vids. It's just a no go

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a young guy keeps asking me for vids of me sucking a cock. Needless to say i wont be meeting him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about past meets in a derogatory way. If he talked about her like that then I've little doubt he'll talk about me in the same way.

Someone who keeps asking for pics and vids. It's just a no go

This hate people that kiss and tell .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you going to wear?

Have you ever played with a woman?"
i get asked that and am a straight female and it never gunna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""just got to wash the bloodstains from my cellar after the last meet" "

Hahahaha that's hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post up a pic of them participating in a bareback gang bang

Totally agree. BIG no no for me.... Don't meet guys with bare back pics in their profiles

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sadly never had that problem....

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

If we were already chatting it would have to be something really bad.... this was already mentioned.... racist, homophobic or Nasty for example.

But an instant no, before a conversation has started is assuming I'm domme because i have a strap on and like men in stockings. I'm not. I get lots of messages asking me to be in charge. Instant delete. I like my men in stockings to be real men !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I cum in you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the what would you do to me question

I'm on a sex site so I'm not going to read you a book

Not even a sexy book?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xenophobia, racism, homophobia or any other type of discrimination.

Or if they listen to one direction

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

Telling me they're looking for quality over quantity, and then they post a couple of verifications from other guys, when I was under the impression I am the only bloke she's talking to

You know this is fab, right?

Most of us aren't here to meet just one person - and women get a LOT of messages so it's highly unlikely that they'll only be chatting to one guy! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The deluded egotistical ones that put things in there profile like-

You must send us face pics and read our full profile and put your a god in your message and you must write a 6 page essay about yourself before even saying a simple hello.

This is meant to be fun not just a ego boost so I just skip straight past those abnoxious ego junkies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more how they act. Constant messaging or if they're a regular forum user, blowing smoke up everyone's bottoms isn't an attractive quality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont know why poop play isn't listed in the interests I would have ticked that as my favourite".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

Telling me they're looking for quality over quantity, and then they post a couple of verifications from other guys, when I was under the impression I am the only bloke she's talking to

You know this is fab, right?

Most of us aren't here to meet just one person - and women get a LOT of messages so it's highly unlikely that they'll only be chatting to one guy! Xx"

Now you say.............. pfffftttttttttt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's more how they act. Constant messaging or if they're a regular forum user, blowing smoke up everyone's bottoms isn't an attractive quality!"

I couldn't of put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have any more pics?

When they have already had face/body/couple pics and a few naughty ones."

That's me I have a shit memory so if there pics ain't public I've no chance.

PTU xxx

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"It's more how they act. Constant messaging or if they're a regular forum user, blowing smoke up everyone's bottoms isn't an attractive quality!

I couldn't of put it better myself "

Yeah it's more about their actions for me too.

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Bareback and price switch me off totally on here but there are other disrespectful words that equally switch me off and block people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there are certain words but what puts me right off, is when I only hear from people when they are horny and still continue to go on about it even when I've specifically said that being horny is way down on my list of priorities at that particular moment. There have been a couple of people who have been on my meet list who then get taken totally off because they have annoyed me (and I'm sure the same has happened to me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dislike it when guys call me a 'real woman' for being bigger..

dislike it also when they feel the need to belittle slender women to try n prove they like larger ladies..

those kinda guys arent for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there are certain words but what puts me right off, is when I only hear from people when they are horny and still continue to go on about it even when I've specifically said that being horny is way down on my list of priorities at that particular moment. There have been a couple of people who have been on my meet list who then get taken totally off because they have annoyed me (and I'm sure the same has happened to me!)"

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything racist, sexist or homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off "

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day! "

Indeed. It's bemusing that as a swinging couple people think we're constantly at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day!

Indeed. It's bemusing that as a swinging couple people think we're constantly at it.

I'm horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm not in your age range but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day!

Indeed. It's bemusing that as a swinging couple people think we're constantly at it.

I'm horny

Hi horny, pleased to meet you.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day!

Indeed. It's bemusing that as a swinging couple people think we're constantly at it.

I'm horny

Hi horny, pleased to meet you. "

Wanna meet?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm... quite a few things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things.

Flirting with EVERYONE being one. I'd like to think they are attempting to flirt with me because they are actually interested in me, and not just because flirting is something they do to all and sundry.

I also get pissed off with men who tell me they are using my pics or something as edging material for another meet they have lined up imminently.

And i also bin off men who message me and then dissapear for weeks only to pop up again as their latest female project proved fruitless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same! More to life than sex..

the constant 'im horny' thing is a right turn off

Glad it's not just me! No one is horny 24/7, blimey somedays I don't even manage feeling horny for 5 minutes of my day!

Indeed. It's bemusing that as a swinging couple people think we're constantly at it.

I'm horny

Hi horny, pleased to meet you.

Wanna meet?

Maybe

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Swearing in messages, the worst words being the C or the T word. I've led a sheltered life

Oh christ

Yes madam

I never say that

No of course you don't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few things.

I also get pissed off with men who tell me they are using my pics or something as edging material for another meet they have lined up imminently.

And i also bin off men who message me and then dissapear for weeks only to pop up again as their latest female project proved fruitless.

Preach!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250"

Fuck does that happen????? My hair only costs 150 quid and I thought that was expensive

V x

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"A few things.

I also get pissed off with men who tell me they are using my pics or something as edging material for another meet they have lined up imminently.

And i also bin off men who message me and then dissapear for weeks only to pop up again as their latest female project proved fruitless.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

loads of crude verifications is the biggest off put for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hypothetical situation (honest!) -

Say you've been talking to someone for a while, you get on brilliantly, but one day they say something that totally puts you off them. What would that be?

For me, it would be something racist or homophobic, being dismissive about a hobby of mine, or implying they're only attracted to me in a purely shallow way.

He's in a relationship, and looking for extras without permission.

Anything disrespectful to women.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When they block you and you've no idea why?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Starts telling you what he'd like you to wear (ie, thigh high boots, fishnet stockings, suspenders, corset and crotchless panties) to your 11am social coffee in the local cafe

dream on dreamer!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally unpleasant, judgemental, angry types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starts telling you what he'd like you to wear (ie, thigh high boots, fishnet stockings, suspenders, corset and crotchless panties) to your 11am social coffee in the local cafe

dream on dreamer!!!

Haha!

Walking into Costa like Pretty Woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that 6 th sense thing - sometimes you just know they are bad news - maybe if you had recently watched crimewatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They start on about how good they're life is and don't seem I terested in your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say their inteligent and rticul8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They start on about how good they're life is and don't seem I terested in your views "

have met someone in the past who harped on about the place abroad - this car - their house etc -especially when i live hand to mouth payday to payday - also many years ago i met a guy i think 3 or 4 times and he commented that i had worn a particular pair of trousers on a previous time - sorry but i didnt have much at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you going to wear?

Have you ever played with a woman? i get asked that and am a straight female and it never gunna happen."

Same

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them."

Has that happened to you? What would you say and do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They start on about how good they're life is and don't seem I terested in your views

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this happened to my mate when he started dating after he got divorced he met a lady and all she talked about was her daughter and her horses hence he never went on another date with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they turn up several years older and several pounds/stones heavier than the pics they've sent, and you don't recognise them.

Has that happened to you? What would you say and do?

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met people who look older than photos but then we are all guilty of not updating our pics

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

"Talking about past meets in a derogatory way. If he talked about her like that then I've little doubt he'll talk about me in the same way.

Someone who keeps asking for pics and vids. It's just a no go

This hate people that kiss and tell .

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that's why our verifications are not on display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thing would be if they say how good in bed . lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Gotta go, the missus just got home"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Can you pay for hotel and no mention of sharing costs

Also I like bareback

Those two things would put me off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they say their inteligent and rticul8"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a man"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Ohhhh.... My favourite....

You're at the point of arranging that first meet...

You're thinking 'this is going great... I'm excited about finally meeting this guy.... We really seem to be on the same page...'

...and he says 'do you think any of your single fem friends would join us?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any really liberal political views, feminism, misandry, PC agenda etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Graphic descriptions of recent activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe you that a mince beef and onion pie sandwich is delicious."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

""I don't believe you that a mince beef and onion pie sandwich is delicious."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250

Fuck does that happen????? My hair only costs 150 quid and I thought that was expensive

V x "

My hair cost me £350. Paid for it myself I may add lol.

My off put is when guys live nowhere me but still message saying they've read my profile, they like it so when we meeting! Er clearly you haven't read it!

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250

Fuck does that happen????? My hair only costs 150 quid and I thought that was expensive

V x

My hair cost me £350. Paid for it myself I may add lol.

My off put is when guys live nowhere me but still message saying they've read my profile, they like it so when we meeting! Er clearly you haven't read it!

Crikey! I spend £10 a year on haircuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250

Fuck does that happen????? My hair only costs 150 quid and I thought that was expensive

V x

My hair cost me £350. Paid for it myself I may add lol.

My off put is when guys live nowhere me but still message saying they've read my profile, they like it so when we meeting! Er clearly you haven't read it!

Crikey! I spend £10 a year on haircuts.

£10!? That has to be the male half talking lol.

That £350 was for real hair extensions and the fitting cost. Sadly I'm addicted to them. Love long locks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When.they ask...What you going to do to me...

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"i want to look pretty for you, will you pay for me to have my hair done, please £250

Fuck does that happen????? My hair only costs 150 quid and I thought that was expensive

V x

My hair cost me £350. Paid for it myself I may add lol.

My off put is when guys live nowhere me but still message saying they've read my profile, they like it so when we meeting! Er clearly you haven't read it!

Crikey! I spend £10 a year on haircuts.

£10!? That has to be the male half talking lol.

That £350 was for real hair extensions and the fitting cost. Sadly I'm addicted to them. Love long locks. "

Indeed, and North Wales prices!

Still, looks like money well spent from your photos

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

When I haven't even met a guy yet and they start asking if I have another girl I could bring because they've always wanted an MFF threesome. I'm not averse to setting friends up in that respect when I think they might get on but jeez, there are limits to my munificence.

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

If a spontaneous meet looks likelybut they say house is a mess. You'll have to take us as you find us. Accepted it once thinking it won't be that bad....oh my god it was worse than bad and the smell eurgghhh. Nope not falling for that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a miserable sod in the forums

Say they hate football

Ask me what I'm wearing

Ask for more photos of me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Be a miserable sod in the forums

Say they hate football

Ask me what I'm wearing

Ask for more photos of me

That's me fucked on the 1st 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be a miserable sod in the forums

Say they hate football

Ask me what I'm wearing

Ask for more photos of me

That's me fucked on the 1st 2

Probably why we've never met

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By *hickone48 and christinaMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Lie about there age or say they a couple and there single also fake pics

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Be a miserable sod in the forums

Say they hate football

Ask me what I'm wearing

Ask for more photos of me

That's me fucked on the 1st 2

Probably why we've never met

Possibly. I don't mind if you don't like bikes though. I'm not judgie like that

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I only really have 1 rule. Lie to me even if it's something silly your gone no 2nd chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only really have 1 rule. Lie to me even if it's something silly your gone no 2nd chances"

Shit, I'm not really called Miss Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say no to me putting things in their ass.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I only really have 1 rule. Lie to me even if it's something silly your gone no 2nd chances

Shit, I'm not really called Miss Innocent

Welcome to blocksvill. Occupants you.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If they say no to me putting things in their ass.

Byeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peanut butter... I cannot mention the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and rudeness ahhh lol can't stand it x

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over a year ago

"I only really have 1 rule. Lie to me even if it's something silly your gone no 2nd chances

Shit, I'm not really called Miss Innocent

Welcome to blocksvill. Occupants you.

I know you love me really

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Major changes to prior meet concept - ie suddenly just have 10 minutes to spare, won't be freshly showered, a new pic drastically alters their appearance etc.

Or demands for very specific clothing items to be worn.

Insulting, offensive chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am into anything

What ?? What anything ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Degrade themselves.

2. Say anything racist, sexist, homophobic or xenophobic.

3. Make poor assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can't meet you for a bit. That's fine and dandy. Life goes on.

They ask (via KiK) if you are available to meet but unfortunately it's short notice and you can't due to other committments. They say shame as they're horny. They then ask if you're ok? You say yes, why?

"Don't you ever get horny"? They ask..Erm...yes

"When?"

Well it doesn't really work like that does it. The whole feeling frisky thing.

Ah..and then the penny drops...i'm supposed to drop MY life because they've got a hard on?

There's a response for that. It's called "Dream on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressure.

We don't do pressure. We don't have to meet you. We certainly don't have to meet you now.

A coffee meet doesn't mean we have to have sex.

A pub meet doesn't mean we have to have sex.

Even if we get naked that doesn't mean we have to have sex

So certainly replying to your message doesn't mean we have to have sex

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Pressure.

We don't do pressure. We don't have to meet you. We certainly don't have to meet you now.

A coffee meet doesn't mean we have to have sex.

A pub meet doesn't mean we have to have sex.

Even if we get naked that doesn't mean we have to have sex

So certainly replying to your message doesn't mean we have to have sex"

Sums it up very nicely!

Also its not normally about one thing, it is a mixture of things

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm just here to chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've booked the room and paid for it daysinn no less she says do we get room service I want caviar and champagne ......whaaaaat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been talking to a guy on here for weeks and my wife got on with him amazingly well. They chatted for weeks.

We was told he was only meeting with us and had only ever had one meet before for a blowjob. Said he had a threesome years ago and that the couple were now married etc.

Turns out he accidentally turned his verifications on today and the guy is a complete liar and was just telling us what we wanted to hear.

What happened to honesty? Cleanliness is a huge thing for us and we won't risk our health for anything.

Needless to say we binned him the second we found out and told him it was off. Tried to talk his way out of it as well.

Apparently a swinging site isn't for us according to him.

No, all we want is a bit of bloody honesty and respect as we give them! Also, its not a cheating site, it's a swingers site and I think we will fit in perfectly well if we get mutual respect.

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