FabSwingers.com forum: Family on fab :s

By *ruman77 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I was talking to a fellow fab user about the site, and we both didn't know how we'd react if we ever found a relative using the site, or worse, if we'd begun talking and flirting with them unknowingly and later discovered who they were, perhaps after agreeing to exchange face pics.

Could we just laugh it off and forget (the best thing to do in my opinion), or would it be an issue. Could you simply brush it off and carry on without ever bringing it up or letting on that you'd found your relative parading their genitals for all to see, or would it immediately make you uncomfortable in their presence?

What if you discovered that a family member had stumbled onto your profile page and seen your pictures? Could you carry on as normal or would it be a constant cause of embarrassment.

I like to think I'd laugh it off, and that both family members would keep each other's secret safe without judgement, and never bring it up at family occasions.

Has this happened to anybody on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with friends from work

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm not fussed who know I'm on here. I like sex and lots of it and to socialise with like minded people, so I swing

My brother in law is on here cheating one my sister that's an hard cross to bear

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we used to attend chameleons a few years ago , there was a father , mother and daughter that regularly went there together .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why would it be an issue?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have 2 very close family members on here and some not as close. It's no big deal they do there thing I do mine.

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By *ruman77 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I don't know if it would. I had no idea how I'd react. I think I'd be bothered if a relative had found some x rated pics of me, but if they just found out that I was on here, I think that would not be a problem. There'd wouldn't be any judging of each other for being on here, merely a I won't tell if you won't agreement I guess.

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By *unky-doryMan
over a year ago

the kingdom

have done.

just blocked them and moved on..

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees

My Wife was looking at the new pics and came across a tv/ts who apparently looked like my Dad, it wasn't obviously but now I have to sit at Sunday lunch trying not to imagine him in a ball gown and Tina Turner wig.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My Wife was looking at the new pics and came across a tv/ts who apparently looked like my Dad, it wasn't obviously but now I have to sit at Sunday lunch trying not to imagine him in a ball gown and Tina Turner wig."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's why my photos are clean and vaguely recognisable, so no one who knows me can see anything embarrassing.

All of my extended family live around two hours away, so if any of them are on here they probably wouldn't come across my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sexually liberated is nothing to be ashamed of, if more swingers treated swinging as less of a taboo the vanilla folk would follow.

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We have found a family member on here, no issues all around as we are all on here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found parents had an account on here and that they are both bi which came as a shock just try to pretend I didn't see it haha and hope they don't come across mine

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By *ruman77 OP Man
over a year ago

London

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By *ruman77 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Too funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah had my cousins husband message me

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm single so dont see it as an issue

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa

"Being sexually liberated is nothing to be ashamed of, if more swingers treated swinging as less of a taboo the vanilla folk would follow. "

true baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not fussed who know I'm on here. I like sex and lots of it and to socialise with like minded people, so I swing

My brother in law is on here cheating one my sister that's an hard cross to bear "

It's not a cross I'd be bearing, I'd be having words.

I can't imagine any of my family are on here so I haven't really given it a thought. I'd be more worried about coming into contact with people that I know through work.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm not fussed who know I'm on here. I like sex and lots of it and to socialise with like minded people, so I swing

My brother in law is on here cheating one my sister that's an hard cross to bear

It's not a cross I'd be bearing, I'd be having words.

I can't imagine any of my family are on here so I haven't really given it a thought. I'd be more worried about coming into contact with people that I know through work. "

Oh I've had words with him he just deleted the old account and started fresh and my sis basically said she wouldn't wanna know if he was and wouldn't thank who told her after a few subtle questions. I suppose it's the old ignorance is bliss so sod it leave em both too it.

But I don't like pretending otherwise at family dos etc tend to avoid them where I can

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My twin sister and her husband are on here.

When i spotted their profile i blocked them and put all my pictures private. A bit pointless really as we bumped into each other at a club a couple of months afterwards

My sister and i have had very discreet chats about fab and swinging - usually in the car where we can't be overheard.

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

The list of family members on fab is longer than the one that isn't. It's a real sod at times trying to avoid playing with the same people. (No playing where family have been)

I know of a couple of families that have more than one generation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mums on here

I don't look at her profile and she doesn't view mine so neither of us are bothered and she's a bit more hardcore lol

We have different age ranges to so never meet the same people ever!! X

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By *ittle miss belleWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My cousin and his wife messaged me on an old profile, told them it was me, avoided each other on here ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me, came across my brother, only realised after he sent his face pic. Blocked and forgotten.

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Yeah had my cousins husband message me

What did you do?

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By *ruman77 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"This has happened to me, came across my brother, only realised after he sent his face pic. Blocked and forgotten."

Thank god it was just a face pic. Hope the accompanying message wasn't too rude.

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By *uncouple_12Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Happened to us we blocked them

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