FabSwingers.com forum: Making an effort or a simple hello?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Finding it hard to figure out the best way to strike up conversation here. So many ladies won't be impressed with a simple first message along with face pics. And at the same time a detailed message doesn't do the job either. Now I'm not stupid enough to realise that attraction is very important but I'm not hideous, I'm a funny and educated guy and I'm far from desperate.

So I guess my question is... What is the best initial approach to striking up conversation? Bearing in mind I'm pretty much here for chat only

Cheers

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recon you might be over thinking it a bit, just make conversation.. like you would with anyone else

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah you're possibly right. Don't normally think about it but it's been a while since I chatted to someone interesting on here so it got me thinking. Cheers

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recon you might be over thinking it a bit, just make conversation.. like you would with anyone else"