FabSwingers.com forum: Definition

By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Apparently we have fuckbuddies, friends with benefits, pets and regulars

Can some more experienced person define these for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's another language to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer nothing more than random acquaintance sex,,,,

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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fuckbuddies:- buddy you like to fuck.

a lose term for somebody slightly more than an acquaintance but who i don't particularly care for except for when they let me inside their vagina/let me slide up and down their cock.

friends with benefits:-

implies friends but nobody cares about that part, the most important part of this term is what benefits i am getting by acquainting myself with this person.

pets:-

BDSM term usually, and this person is your pet. i will hug him and squeeze him and i shall name him george.

regulars:- someone you fuck regularly. this can be every day or once a year for at least years.

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

"fuckbuddies:- buddy you like to fuck.

a lose term for somebody slightly more than an acquaintance but who i don't particularly care for except for when they let me inside their vagina/let me slide up and down their cock.

friends with benefits:-

implies friends but nobody cares about that part, the most important part of this term is what benefits i am getting by acquainting myself with this person.

pets:-

BDSM term usually, and this person is your pet. i will hug him and squeeze him and i shall name him george.

regulars:- someone you fuck regularly. this can be every day or once a year for at least years.

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Thanks xxx

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"fuckbuddies:- buddy you like to fuck.

a lose term for somebody slightly more than an acquaintance but who i don't particularly care for except for when they let me inside their vagina/let me slide up and down their cock.

friends with benefits:-

implies friends but nobody cares about that part, the most important part of this term is what benefits i am getting by acquainting myself with this person.

pets:-

BDSM term usually, and this person is your pet. i will hug him and squeeze him and i shall name him george.

regulars:- someone you fuck regularly. this can be every day or once a year for at least years.

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Thanks xxx"

probably other people see it differently, just to add to the confusion. and fuckbuddies often gets confused with friends with benefits.

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over a year ago

"fuckbuddies:- buddy you like to fuck.

a lose term for somebody slightly more than an acquaintance but who i don't particularly care for except for when they let me inside their vagina/let me slide up and down their cock.

friends with benefits:-

implies friends but nobody cares about that part, the most important part of this term is what benefits i am getting by acquainting myself with this person.

pets:-

BDSM term usually, and this person is your pet. i will hug him and squeeze him and i shall name him george.

regulars:- someone you fuck regularly. this can be every day or once a year for at least years.

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Damn. Again damn

. Sex sounds so appealing when you put it this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently we have fuckbuddies, friends with benefits, pets and regulars

Can some more experienced person define these for me"

I like to think they are (their there they're

) all similar. People that like sex.

The relationship I have with that person is going to be personal to me. I'd like to think I'd find a friend with benefits. The friend part seems more important to me lately. I need to be able to talk to them, and get on with them.

A fuck buddy sound like someone who opens the door, we fuck, and I leave. We then arrange the next meet.

A pet? No idea.

Regular. See my description of fuck buddy.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"fuckbuddies:- buddy you like to fuck.

a lose term for somebody slightly more than an acquaintance but who i don't particularly care for except for when they let me inside their vagina/let me slide up and down their cock.

friends with benefits:-

implies friends but nobody cares about that part, the most important part of this term is what benefits i am getting by acquainting myself with this person.

pets:-

BDSM term usually, and this person is your pet. i will hug him and squeeze him and i shall name him george.

regulars:- someone you fuck regularly. this can be every day or once a year for at least years.

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Damn. Again damn

. Sex sounds so appealing when you put it this way. "

why do you think i don't meet off fab any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My interpretation;

FuckBuddy: Basically just someone you fuck. Don't particularly care for what's going on in their lives', don't want to know that their Auntie's cat is sick.

FWB: A friend first, a fuck second. E.g... You're friends with someone, you bring up you're horny, they are also horny, you agree to bang, still friends, no intimacy or feelings.

Pet: Fuck knows. Sounds like someone who you have control over, only you fuck them, etc? Idk.

Regular: In between FB and FWB. They're primarily there to fuck, but you're interested in what they're watching on a Friday night, or what's for tea.

That's my take

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over a year ago

anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Damn. Again damn

. Sex sounds so appealing when you put it this way.

why do you think i don't meet off fab any more?"

Because you think all your meets will turn out like above? I'm only guessing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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Hmm, I don't see it in such harsh terms. I don't know about pets, and 'a regular' covers everyone you meet regularly I guess.

To me the difference is how well you get on socially, apart from sexually.

Someone I call an fb I would expect to chat to in a friendly manner occasionally if one or other of us felt like it, but usually only meet for evenings of sex, albeit with some booze and music and maybe food included, and a lot of laughs and chatting.

It's a bit of a sliding scale up to fwb who are people I chat more with, spend more time with when I see them, and do more social things as well - go out for evenings or away for the weekend etc.

That can become intense and close and verging on an open relationship. In my view the closer you become, the more 'strings' tend to grow, and the more need there is to come to agreement on various points.

But both have become purely friends who I just meet up with for the occasional drink or gig or 'agony aunt' session too, and I like that too.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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anyone stating they have a regular and meets them lesser than once a week has low standards.

Damn. Again damn

. Sex sounds so appealing when you put it this way.

why do you think i don't meet off fab any more?

Because you think all your meets will turn out like above? I'm only guessing. "

it was a rhetorical anyway, you didn't need to try and answer.

but yeah i have no interest in anything anyone on here offers me.

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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

"My interpretation;

FuckBuddy: Basically just someone you fuck. Don't particularly care for what's going on in their lives', don't want to know that their Auntie's cat is sick.

FWB: A friend first, a fuck second. E.g... You're friends with someone, you bring up you're horny, they are also horny, you agree to bang, still friends, no intimacy or feelings.

Pet: Fuck knows. Sounds like someone who you have control over, only you fuck them, etc? Idk.

Regular: In between FB and FWB. They're primarily there to fuck, but you're interested in what they're watching on a Friday night, or what's for tea.

That's my take

All the answers eh I'm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do these names count if you are married? We tend to refer the the people we play with a 'playmates'. But the ones we meet alone we would describe as 'lovers'. We do use the word 'regular' as well, though to us regular means every couple of months. I would have a different view if I were single.

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