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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what type of messages do women and couples like to hear? Doing research here?

A)polite messages

B)dirty talk

C) tease with some imagination

What type of message would stand out from the 100s people recieve from single guys.

TIA

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're happy to receive a short, first message just saying hello and who a person is. For us its about the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had more than 5 messages in my in box. Surprised? No?

Anyway. The ones that stand out are the ones that I'm talking to already and it's a follow in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a woman but anecdotal evidence seems to suggest that a first message that is overtly sexual or explicit tends not to be received too well when received from a stranger (build up to that over time!).

I'm sure the ladies will confirm or otherwise!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones more wordy than "hi" but shorter than a Readers Wives story.

Certain men get priority in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual messages irritate me tbh, the presumption that I'm immediately up for it with every random stranger online is a tad crass in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wins every time.

I don't want to be teased or spoken dirty to by a stranger or a faceless profile. Ew

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great responses thks. I do have a face under my motorbike Lid will work on my A more in future.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We don't mind any type as long as they are coherent.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Start with A and move on to C, moving on to B once your both comfortable. You wouldn't walk up to a lady in real life and say "alright luv? Fancy getting your laughing gear around this" now would you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like funny ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and respectful. I kinda like them a bit cheeky but not overtly sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're happy to receive a short, first message just saying hello and who a person is. For us its about the profile."

This for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of guys' messages we have deleted because of the crass nature of their opening message is unreal.

We're looking for a polite guy with a sense of humour that my wife can connect with. We prefer to send them over to kik and talk further there.

If you're polite you get your foot in the door, if you're rude you're binned without a message back.

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

Polite's always a winner and a face pic not a dick pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

We prefer polite, with a wee introduction and references to similar likes or parts of our profile (it shows that they have read our profile).

Creativity and not writing in text speak.

Also as said above, a face photo and not a dick photo.

Xxx

Nessarosa

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't get why people think dirty chat is a valid option to someone you don't even know?

it knocks me sick to get a message like that off guys i don't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones from African estate handlers, stating I've been left a huge will and all they need is my sort code and account number to be able to transfer the monies.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ones from African estate handlers, stating I've been left a huge will and all they need is my sort code and account number to be able to transfer the monies. "

We've had those ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ones from African estate handlers, stating I've been left a huge will and all they need is my sort code and account number to be able to transfer the monies.

We've had those ones. "

Don't do it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ones from African estate handlers, stating I've been left a huge will and all they need is my sort code and account number to be able to transfer the monies.

We've had those ones.

Don't do it "

No, I've worked in banking for many years and have seen people ripped off many times. B******s. despite me trying to stop them falling for these scams

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