FabSwingers.com forum: Look Gay

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of your pics are a bit camp tbf

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm not sure there is a 'look'.

Maybe it's you mannerisms? Do you stand in a 'I'm a little tea pot' pose a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your avatars is you with your arm round another guy. Your just friends obviously but since you ask.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look? "

Google "How to be a man".

Jobs a good un.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I would say you do look gay , very much so .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a certain campness about you.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere

So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere

So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "

It's an option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere

So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "

I don't think sexuality and hygiene are mutually exclusive.

If you don't think you look gay, then that's all that matters, everyone is different and you will never be able to attract everyone, just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Camper than a row of pink tents

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

dont stand for it mate, take the cock out of your mouth and give them a piece of your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup mate you do have that certain look, soz but you did ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think your gay but I bet your fella is

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look? "

It's the bare chest, braces and dickie bow pic - Liberace would have refused to wear that get up ffs...

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Do I give of that look? "

On some of your pics yes you do, particularly the one in the bracers.

I also get asked this a lot but I think it's because of my mannerisms though. Sometimes I just play on it for a laugh shouting "Guilty!" In my most cliché camp voice. It doesn't bother me in the slightest and I find it quite entertaining.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Think you got your answer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

very very gay looking

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By *afftypeMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies! "

Dampness

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By *afftypeMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As a gay man even I don't know what gay looks like. There are a few camp pics in there but I've known the most heterosexual of men to be camp at times. But of course the macho men and lovers of them of this world will always declare themselves the experts in deciding what's gay and what's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't being gay a great way to meet girls though? Seriously? Use it to your advantage if that's what people think!

For the record, I don't think you look 'gay' as such. Perhaps 'Metrosexual'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of your clothes do look effeminate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies!

Dampness

Oh maybe that was just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you look as camp as George takei shopping for handbags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea about "looking" gay, I'm not sure how that'd come across in photos...

I noticed your status though... you've got veris from a couple of men on here so that might explain why you get requests from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first few pics are manly it was when I got to the sussies n bow tie I started to think you maybe gay.

I really wouldn't worry tho sailor.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think Gay but probably effeminate and that is probably due to the poses. Sorry if I offended you but you did ask

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be you have caught gay and haven't realised yet?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace it, get some flowers for your hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Embrace it, get some flowers for your hair. "

Don't forget the ribbons and glitter.

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look? "

your like the rest of us on here honey, fab straight!

give into it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not gay if you dress like a girl

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i think it's those pink shorts your wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea about "looking" gay, I'm not sure how that'd come across in photos...

I noticed your status though... you've got veris from a couple of men on here so that might explain why you get requests from men. "

Essentially. The veri from the fella who you met alone and commented that you are brilliant at what you do was probably interpreted the same was as the word 'discreet' by the bi/Fab straight contingent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere

So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "

No! Don't turn up looking and smelling like a chav. Carry on being you.

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Had a quick glance. I wouldn't say so? Wouldn't think gay if passed you in the street anyway

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Do you care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep defo gay look about u

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

It's not a bad thing.

When I first went away to uni, my "look" was apparently a bit odd compared to other guys, so a few of my mates "hilariously" started a rumour that I was gay, it had the effect of making a lot of women feel that they could come and talk to me and when they found out I wasn't gay.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter? Gay, straight, Bi just enjoy life and stop worrying about how others view you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definetly a twink. Look good in pink knickers m. The frilly kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look? "

No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .

Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.

I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.

Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look? "

Why have you met a single guy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look?

No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .

Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.

I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.

Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature?"

Do gay men have a 'caring and accommodating nature'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"

Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..

Do I give of that look?

No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .

Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.

I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.

Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature?

Do gay men have a 'caring and accommodating nature'?

I don't know what he means by "gay look", I'm curious if he means he possessed a quality that's usually inaccurately seen as an attribute of gay men? Idk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, you look as camp as George takei shopping for handbags.

Oh my!

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

In the before times, the long, long ago I would often be hit on by gentlemen when out of an evening.

At the time I attributed this to my colourful short-sleeve shirts.

Do you often wear terribly bright and garish short-sleeved shirts OP?

Looking back, it is a shame this all occurred before I realised I quite enjoyed having sex with men. Mis-spent youth indeed.

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By *ediceTV/TS
over a year ago

Wrexham

Carlsberg don't do camp, but if they did... #OhMy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter? Just be you and give zero fucks what others think.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You could be gay, real gay or fab gay as there's no way of telling. Those informed, as fab users, know that many guys here who are otherwise known as straight, do have some sexual interaction with the same gender. In the wider world people are perhaps a little less well informed.

It also depends on where your friends are from - it's a reflection more on them than you. Many guys would take it as a compliment.

We've moved on from the bigoted days of old and people should be valued for who they are, not outdated notions of stereotypes

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes you look gay so get messaging all the guys.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies! "

Exactly. Most here are saying affirmative which is utter bollocks. A touch camp perhaps but nobody looks 'gay'

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

Your pics say 'in touch with a feminine side'. Some people could read that as bi. Its a label. Ignore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what's take on soft-furnishing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got a pic with a cock in your mouth. That's a 'tell'.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Mate you do a little bit may be the beard the loud shirt and the pink pants but other than that don't worry what other people think just be you and as for the gay bit don't knock it till you've tried it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does a pic look gay? Short of the obvious of including another man's genitalia?

Men message/wink/fab straight guys all of the time. Just block them from messaging and move on, it's a compliment if anything isn't it.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's not gay if you shout 'no homo' beforehand

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