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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would like to know what people's thoughts are on profiles that state rules like face pic no copy and paste code words etc you follow there rules just to be met with a deleted message just think it's a tad rude or is that just me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think it's rude. It's happened to me and I take it for what it is, they weren't attracted to me. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleting messages is not rude, not even a little bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just saying a little message saying thanks but no thanks after jumping through all the hoops lol

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

[Removed by poster at 04/05/17 11:55:41]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to know what people's thoughts are on profiles that state rules like face pic no copy and paste code words etc you follow there rules just to be met with a deleted message just think it's a tad rude or is that just me "

Just because you follow these rules doesn't mean they will reply, they may not be attracted to you.

It's not rude if they don't reply, it's in the FAQ, not that snyone ever reads them!!

Poppy

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The simple solution is don't waste time sending them messages, I'm sure some soft buggers will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saying a little message saying thanks but no thanks after jumping through all the hoops lol"

When I take down the filters I can get 10 messages a minute, more if I've just uploaded a picture. I'm not wasting my time replying with a no thanks especially if no effort was put in to the message in the first place.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Just saying a little message saying thanks but no thanks after jumping through all the hoops lol"

That could be why you're finding it frustrating, because you're seeing it as jumping through hoops. It's a couple of requests, it's not exactly effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind doing it as I know each to there own and it's there rules I am just saying effort has been put in a message saying no thanks would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't meet their requirements, I don't message, but even those where I think I do, it can still get deleted cause they don't like the look of me, I think ignoring their requirements and messaging them anyway will just get you blocked.

It happened on our couples profile yesterday, the guy even highlighted the fact that the wife doesn't like facial hair yet he messaged anyway, sporting a lumberjack look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saying a little message saying thanks but no thanks after jumping through all the hoops lol

That could be why you're finding it frustrating, because you're seeing it as jumping through hoops. It's a couple of requests, it's not exactly effort. "

I'm really sorry to everyone for been that guy but _rincess peach oh my God you have an incredible ass. And op get a grip if they don't want to talk to you why would you want to talk to them send a messenge if they don't reply don't worry anf move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind doing it as I know each to there own and it's there rules I am just saying effort has been put in a message saying no thanks would be nice "

You're not entitled to a reply mate, if they don't reply or just delete it, move on, not worth getting your back up about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rude at all..if its clear they havnt read your profile or their not your type its a waste of time replying

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Is there something in the air at the mo?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there something in the air at the mo?!"

A repeat of yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to know what people's thoughts are on profiles that state rules like face pic no copy and paste code words etc you follow there rules just to be met with a deleted message just think it's a tad rude or is that just me "

I'm not one for rules, I either break them or ridicule the stupidnes of them.

Did you know America has drive through ATMs ? And they have the instructions on how to use them in braille? . That's how stupid some people are.

It's nothing related to your post op. I thought I'd just mention it, because I try to vary my answers to these questions.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Groundhog day is February 2nd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahahaha ok ok I get ya

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Would like to know what people's thoughts are on profiles that state rules like face pic no copy and paste code words etc you follow there rules just to be met with a deleted message just think it's a tad rude or is that just me

I'm not one for rules, I either break them or ridicule the stupidnes of them.

Did you know America has drive through ATMs ? And they have the instructions on how to use them in braille? . That's how stupid some people are.

It's nothing related to your post op. I thought I'd just mention it, because I try to vary my answers to these questions. "

Maybe all the ATM machines have the instructions in Braille as a standard spec.....not worth removing. Besides there could be the odd pedestrian using them...

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol


"I don't mind doing it as I know each to there own and it's there rules I am just saying effort has been put in a message saying no thanks would be nice "

In a sea of 100 plus messages per day for a single lady and couples. To sit and reply to each and every one takes time and they are here for fun not answering every message.

Now add on to it the men who become aggressive because of a rejection..or those who send 300 more asking but why?

Sometimes its just easier to delete and move on....you see its been deleted so accept and move on..

You can sit there and go its rude but then do you let every car out waiting at a junction? Do you let every bus pull out ahead of you?? Thats rude to but its still acceptable to not do it.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

do you email back all the special offers the you receive daily in your inbox? replying to Groupon every 10 mins saying thank you for your kind offer but not today?

I used to try and reply but I was then messaged back to say why? or will you keep me in mind? it's sometimes just too much, I do feel bad but I don't have enough time to read and respond

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