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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I work beside the female half of a couple from fab in a very small work enviroment i reconised her from a few pictures on her profile all very intimate and beautiful if i may add. I have not said anything about it as its not a fair thing to do but however i beleive that she has seen my profile and reconised me and blocked me but in work she is now more reserved and quiet when im about my question is do i keep quiet about it or do i take her aside and explain were both adults and on this site so she shouldnt be embarresed around me and not to worry as i wouldnt let anyone know what she does in her private life as its nothing to do with me or anyone else

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I work beside the female half of a couple from fab in a very small work enviroment i reconised her from a few pictures on her profile all very intimate and beautiful if i may add. I have not said anything about it as its not a fair thing to do but however i beleive that she has seen my profile and reconised me and blocked me but in work she is now more reserved and quiet when im about my question is do i keep quiet about it or do i take her aside and explain were both adults and on this site so she shouldnt be embarresed around me and not to worry as i wouldnt let anyone know what she does in her private life as its nothing to do with me or anyone else "

Personally, I would say and do nothing. Put it out of your mind and pretend that you know nothing.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would be very surprised if she could recognise you from your profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

type of job were in she has seen me topless a few times changeing my tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep quite about it, if she is more reserved and has blocked you on here it's a clear indication of her wishes. Work is work and play is play, clearly she doesn't want to mix the two. Just leave it alone and say nothing or you will probably make things more awkward. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In those situations, it's generally best to just stay quiet. You may not be embarrassed, but she may feel that way. She may also just want to keep any potential work links completely separate from her private life. Don't make her feel uncomfortable by broaching the subject.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It's obvious the lady is not comfortable with it, now you have to display maturity and act as if you didn't notice. You can't have every pussy , you win some , you loose some, that is what swinging is about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its not anything to do with having pussy i get on with her a good friend and would rather have her a a good friend than fuck it up by getting involved in anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your mouth closed & respect the fact she blocked you, for her own reasons.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

On the off chance it isn't her and you take a quiet and reserved lady aside to explain you are both adults.. Well, that just ain't gonna end well!!!

If it is her, she has blocked you for a reason and doesn't want to mix fab into her work life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's blocked you. Take a hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not anything to do with having pussy i get on with her a good friend and would rather have her a a good friend than fuck it up by getting involved in anything more "

You have your answer then. You say nothing to her about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing good can come from taking her aside an discussing your private life's, she's obviously already uncomfortable working with a fellow fab member, just leave it as it is, and carry on with work as normal.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"its not anything to do with having pussy i get on with her a good friend and would rather have her a a good friend than fuck it up by getting involved in anything more "

You are a man and this is where you are required to act like a man , "it's not everything that a mans eyes sees that his mouth must say"

Keep the friendship the way it is and forget bringing fab up ,the lady will respect you more and know that truely without a doubt you are a real man

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