FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you have lengthy profile message

By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people write long forum posts?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

But you can take more than 10 seconds to complain about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see this going well

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"It's nice to make an effort

You made effort to read an encyclopedia and they won't have effort to say sorry you are not my type

Is that fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"But you can take more than 10 seconds to complain about them?

I least i know will get a reply like this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do the same people post 3 or 4 posts a day every day,same shit different day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people have nothing on their profiles and complain that no one will reply to them? Are we supposed to be clairvoyant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read stupidly long bios, I'd rather just know what they're into and what they're not then I'd like to get to know them through conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do the same people post 3 or 4 posts a day every day,same shit different day"

I don't know, but you have lovely breasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a complex situation at the moment so mine has to be explained properly! If a guy cant take the time to read that and understand whats going on then I dont want him messaging me!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone here is different and brings their own history.

If their profile deters the people who are just wrong for them, then they've used their insight and effort wisely - whether because it was to detailed or short or the content itself screamed 'F. Off' to the misfit for them.

It's a win if people otherwise get overloaded with dross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do the same people post 3 or 4 posts a day every day,same shit different day

I don't know, but you have lovely breasts."

Man boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

This, if they haven't read the profile, chances aren't they won't get a reply, maybe if men read profiles they would get more responses, and wouldn't waste there time writing messages to people who wouldn't be interested in them

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never read stupidly long bios, I'd rather just know what they're into and what they're not then I'd like to get to know them through conversation"

I hate reading lists of sexual stuff. I'd rather get an idea of the personality/character first, then chat and talk about no nos and defos.

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I never read stupidly long bios, I'd rather just know what they're into and what they're not then I'd like to get to know them through conversation"

ON point bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see this going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely "

Which is why I don't talk to anyone who has nothing on their profile; even if they send a nice message.

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

You are wrong

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm sorry what's going on? Couldn't be bothered reading the original post, too long.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Sorry...

But for me Im not here for a simple fuck with anyone... me and Irish can do that to eachother every day if need be... we're here for fantasies to be fulfilled and when playing we don't want our time wasted nor somebody else's... maybe that's why we've only had incredible experiences on here because we've always clicked and had chemistry because people have read our profile and agreed we have mutual sexual chemistry.

For us to go arranging meets means babysitters and hotels and money spent.. were not going to waste that on potentially meeting people we have absolutely nothing in common with sexually? What a waste that would be. Our profile immediately filters those people out.

Sorry I don't like disagreeing with posts but for me our profile is key to our fantastic meets.

Blondie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

that's all i bothered reading of your op..my time is too precious. cool story though fella...

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely

Which is why I don't talk to anyone who has nothing on their profile; even if they send a nice message. "

You could have missed denzel Washington

People like David Beckham etc don't talk too much

Only an empty barrel have a lengthy bios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely "

Oh I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely

Which is why I don't talk to anyone who has nothing on their profile; even if they send a nice message.

You could have missed denzel Washington

People like David Beckham etc don't talk too much

Only an empty barrel have a lengthy bios

Beckham you can keep. Denzel would have had the nous to send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

You are wrong "

I've had loads of men ask to meet now, or today and who don't accommodate. Total waste of both our time.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If someone can't be bothered to read my profile in full and can't be bothered to at least give me something to go on in their own profile(or be a regular forum user whose personality you can get to know that way), then they're not for me plain and simple.

Sure you can get to know someone via messages, but it'd take a lot more text (and time and effort) than a long profile would to get to the point of deciding I want to meet that person. So having a longer profile at least allows someone to decide if they want to invest that time and effort into messaging.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A profile is how I'd describe as a personal advert. You wouldn't advertise a car your selling with a one line description.

"4 wheels good body work well oiled machine and 1 previous owner "

That would not be enough to sell in the real world so why sell yourself short on here ?

To be fair 99% of people on fab dont read profiles anyway, but is nice when sometime spends the time to read a well written profile that clearly someone has put the effort and time in to write about themselves and what they want off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely

Which is why I don't talk to anyone who has nothing on their profile; even if they send a nice message.

You could have missed denzel Washington

People like David Beckham etc don't talk too much

Only an empty barrel have a lengthy bios

I find the empty barrels are the ones without the intelligence to write a decent profile

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've never read a profile that has been more than a couple of paragraphs, and thats hardly "War and Peace" is it?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

There are certain types of profiles I don't like either OP. Time is precious so I just pass them by and avoid starting threads bitching about them.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I Give up.

You don't like something? Move along.

I don't like moaning Minnie's who start threads about other people, but am I sat here making threads about the moaning minnies?!

Spend your time more wisely.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some people only have one line profiles and wonder why they get blocked

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I read really quickly. Long profiles don't take me more than a few seconds to read. Anyway, if I read them it's because I've chosen to so it's my own time I'm wasting IF THEY END UP WITH A FINAL PARAGRAPH WRITTEN IN ANNOYING RANTY ALL CAPS or something equally irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never read a profile that has been more than a couple of paragraphs, and thats hardly "War and Peace" is it?

Makes me laugh when guys say a long profile is like war and peace.. erm nope its really not, war and peace is quite short its 560,000 words, mission earth (scientology book) is 1.2 mil words

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I Give up.

You don't like something? Move along.

I don't like moaning Minnie's who start threads about other people, but am I sat here making threads about the moaning minnies?!

Spend your time more wisely. "

I created this thread because of I got private message.

The message was so rude

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Some people are genuinely worth spending a little time on though

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

"I Give up.

You don't like something? Move along.

I don't like moaning Minnie's who start threads about other people, but am I sat here making threads about the moaning minnies?!

Spend your time more wisely.

I created this thread because of I got private message.

The message was so rude"

If you get something as serious as that in future then I definitely suggest reporting to admin instead of here because even though you probably feel like you're venting all your frustrations OP, you will leave yourself open to more abuse. And if you're already upset over something that happened earlier then you're only going to end up in a potentially volatile situation once that thread is started.

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Some people are genuinely worth spending a little time on though

Yeah you're right but after spending your little time and you get blocked for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I Give up.

You don't like something? Move along.

I don't like moaning Minnie's who start threads about other people, but am I sat here making threads about the moaning minnies?!

Spend your time more wisely.

I created this thread because of I got private message.

The message was so rude"

You let them get to you. Rude/abusive messages should be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are genuinely worth spending a little time on though

Yeah you're right but after spending your little time and you get blocked for no reason

They aren't interested. Some people block and don't reply, some say no thanks and block. Either way, they don't want to meet you.

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I Give up.

You don't like something? Move along.

I don't like moaning Minnie's who start threads about other people, but am I sat here making threads about the moaning minnies?!

Spend your time more wisely.

I created this thread because of I got private message.

The message was so rude

I understand you but here is not my life. Just here to make fun. I can go elsewhere to catch fun

Made few friends in here tho

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Why does it always rain when i wash my motorbike?

Why does toast fall butter side down???

Why are messages read and not deleted??

I know this has nothing to do with the actual question asked but personally debating personal choice is like arguing over a brick wall...

Personally i could of filled this post with lots of amazing reasons but it would of taken over 10 seconds to read and i wouldnt want to waste anyones attention span

*please note post may contain traces of sarcasm, if offended, seek immediate medical advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sneaky test really isn't it.. if you can't be hooped to read a profile, then can you be bothered to get ready and turn up for a coffee, or more..

And if you do, will you apply the same CBA approach in the bedroom..

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on.

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

my profile is really short because i think its to the point and i struggle to talk about myself but i do like reading profiles long or short, takes some time to read the long ones but it can save time in the long run so you know not to waste time messaging someone who doesnt want the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never read stupidly long bios, I'd rather just know what they're into and what they're not then I'd like to get to know them through conversation

I hate reading lists of sexual stuff. I'd rather get an idea of the personality/character first, then chat and talk about no nos and defos. "

No not just sexual stuff, is there humour in the bio, does the woman seem intelligent, is it interesting. All that can be shown in a shortish bio.

A couple of paragraphs is enough to know if I want to try and reach out to them. A long list of negativity and what they don't like just don't appeal to me

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

If you genuinely are here for fun. I would end the thread here. I do not know you and do not wish to judge. But I have a feeling tonight you were blocked.. and then decided to scorn that person, however in doing so you've managed to offend a lot of people on fab and potentially intimidate a young single girl on here by accusing her profile of being a welcoming a psychopath into her life.

However I am sure you didn't mean for this thread to pan out this way and you've probably had a bad night. So maybe it should end here? And you can agree that yes you don't like long profiles and some don't like short profiles but instead of voicing these opinions so harshly and openly we could just agree to move on to another profile in future?

Thanks.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I have a complex situation at the moment so mine has to be explained properly! If a guy cant take the time to read that and understand whats going on then I dont want him messaging me!"

I like the bit about Chris Helmsworth.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I've never read a profile that has been more than a couple of paragraphs, and thats hardly "War and Peace" is it?

Makes me laugh when guys say a long profile is like war and peace.. erm nope its really not, war and peace is quite short its 560,000 words, mission earth (scientology book) is 1.2 mil words"

I've read War and Peace, I doubt I'll ever read the Scientology books though, thats a fantasy too far for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a complex situation at the moment so mine has to be explained properly! If a guy cant take the time to read that and understand whats going on then I dont want him messaging me!

I like the bit about Chris Helmsworth.

Thanks.. I see those warnings all the time so thought id have fun with mine and be a bit cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never read a profile that has been more than a couple of paragraphs, and thats hardly "War and Peace" is it?

Makes me laugh when guys say a long profile is like war and peace.. erm nope its really not, war and peace is quite short its 560,000 words, mission earth (scientology book) is 1.2 mil words

I've read War and Peace, I doubt I'll ever read the Scientology books though, thats a fantasy too far for me. "

Just ask L.Ron hubbard

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By *bandjam91Couple
over a year ago

London

"If you genuinely are here for fun. I would end the thread here. I do not know you and do not wish to judge. But I have a feeling tonight you were blocked.. and then decided to scorn that person, however in doing so you've managed to offend a lot of people on fab and potentially intimidate a young single girl on here by accusing her profile of being a welcoming a psychopath into her life.

Thanks. "

Well said, and nice profile

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By *lackXeal OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on."

You are missing the whole point

My point is that it's rude to block people where you could have said no thank you

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on.

You are missing the whole point

My point is that it's rude to block people where you could have said no thank you "

No, I'm not missing the point!

The fact is that people on here get blocked or block others. Yes, it is annoying, but you have to develop a thick skin and deal with it.

If people decide to block instead of replying in a message, that's life on here. Move on!

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

The only thing I would say is that some girls get a lot of messages, and to reply to every single one individually is probably very time consuming I guess?

From experience, whenever we haven't been too keen we generally just reply with a sorry we're not free for a while in hopes it will deter them as I really don't like hurting people's feelings.. as when we have done that in the past we just get abuse thrown at us

and it's just not nice to read.

So some people probably don't want to risk opening a can of worms and it's easier just to block.

I still don't understand what that has to do with a long profile though

I hope everyone can be nice now though, and just understand that if it's a block.. move on.. if it's an ignore... move on. There's someone for everyone and she obviously wasn't meant for you.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I do personally believe that you do owed Scarlett an apology. She genuinely has been dragged into your anger for absolutely no reason. All because she had a different opinion.

I don't like seeing anybody unhappy here as it's a website for fulfilling every desire and a secret space for people to shut off from their outside stresses.

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

To try and make it simple I made mine a list. Frankly if somebody can't be arsed spending a minute or two reading it then why would I be arsed spending hours getting ready, travelling, having a meet, travelling back etc.

It's hardly a lot to ask in return for all that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged us yesterday and seemed a real nice guy until he asked us no less than 5 questions in 5 different messages that are answered on our profile, was so annoying (and our profile is short)

No, we won't meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't be arsed to read the whole OP, too long...

My profile will evolve, may get longer or shorter, read it if you want to, don't if you don't want to.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I never read any profiles,long or short it is just straight to the pics for a wank which can sometimes bring its on problems when I am on my way to work on the bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone can't be bother to read my profile properly, they aren't getting my time.

I can always tell when someone has read it as opposed to just looked at the photo's as a result of the message I receive afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never read any profiles,long or short it is just straight to the pics for a wank which can sometimes bring its on problems when I am on my way to work on the bus "

Especially as the driver

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

This

If someone sends me a mail that clearly shows they haven't read my profile, its an instant delete. I took the time to write it so I could explain what I do and don't want, the point being not to waste either my time or somebody else's with banal chit chat that won't lead anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

Time is precious use it wisely "

You're going to be wasting a lot of your own time on here, I can see that now.

*skips merrily back off into flowered field*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on.

You are missing the whole point

My point is that it's rude to block people where you could have said no thank you "

No. It's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on.

You are missing the whole point

My point is that it's rude to block people where you could have said no thank you "

Your opening thread didn't say anything about being blocked or rude people you were moaning about long profiles. As soon as a lot of people disagreed with you. You then changed and said it was because you got blocked. It's not rude to ignore and block it's the way fab works. Did the person you messaged ask you to message them.... nope it was your choice so equally it's there choice if they respond or not. Take s look at the FAQ page.

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over a year ago

"The only thing I would say is that some girls get a lot of messages, and to reply to every single one individually is probably very time consuming I guess?

and it's just not nice to read.

So some people probably don't want to risk opening a can of worms and it's easier just to block.

I still don't understand what that has to do with a long profile though

I hope everyone can be nice now though, and just understand that if it's a block.. move on.. if it's an ignore... move on. There's someone for everyone and she obviously wasn't meant for you.

I really understand where you're coming from. For me I still prefer not to get a reply than an outright block for no reason.

Blocking someone seems to me that the person have stepped pass his/her boundaries so the get blocked.

Someone sent me a private message and said they will block me because of my profile message.

I responded that that's a flimsy excuse to block someone. So i said I wouldn't read your profile or message you because I won't be bothered to read their profile

I got an abusive reply and was blocked and couldn't reply "

First it was you didn't like long profiles then it was you don't agree people delete and block they should say no thank you now it's someone blocked you because they didn't like your profile. Then you went on to be very cruel and rude to someone who is trying dealing and come to terms with the fact her mother is dying. I'm sorry but do you really wonder why your getting blocked by people if this is how you react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine works for me. If someone can't be arsed to read it, I can't be arsed to talk to them.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I got bored of reading your OP half way through. No one has that much spare time and I don't like the shouty stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TLDR

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Long profile message.. Well I'm trying to compensate for something else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

They are better than a 2 line profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno! (Keeping it short for you

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I enjoy a long profile

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I enjoy a long profile"

So length does matter....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've removed certain posts, if you quoted them your post will be gone too.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Because finding the right person not any old person is important to me. I am far more that just cock looking to get wet. So it's about telling people what I am about, what's important to me and giving a peek into my personallity.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm happy with my profile and while it continues to attract people I want to talk to that's all that matters.

If anyone doesn't want to read it for whatever reason I'm hardly going to lose any sleep over that fact as I'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long profiles are to put off the guys who can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

I see you practice what you preach! Your two line Profile, without pics and not being able to accommodate will earn you minimal responses!

Profiles are subjective though. It's down to each person how they conduct themselves and how their profile is written.

If you don't like any particular one, move on.

You are missing the whole point

My point is that it's rude to block people where you could have said no thank you "

No, it is not. We block people who do not meet our requirements so that they cannot write to us and do not appear in our searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people write long forum posts? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are some men on blob today or what?

So much negativity around at the moment

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By *rebor1955Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I read it out of curiosity. To be fair you could have said what you wanted in half that and you did admit you have wasted 15 min of your life ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

The length of your profile doesn't mean anything bro. It's whether you know how to use it ...

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well otherwise it would be like yours .not worth looking at . why do you have such a crap profile . .just makes me think you have nothing to say about yourself and that your a very dull person that cant even be bothered to make even the smallest effort on here ..

i really think profiles should be read by admin before going live and if the person has made no effort they dont get published ..as they do on well known TV contact site..

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I feel my profile text is too long sometimes...

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Some people here believe that a lengthy profile message signifies a good profile (fabber).

For me I really appreciate my time

I don't read or message profile that I can't read in 5 to 10 seconds

Why do I need to read your life biography

If you think you don't want to repeat yourself that is why you dont want to have a wikipedia of your life

You need to leave some aspects out so you can have stuffs to talk about that can lead to other several discussions

LENGTHY PROFILE IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME. TIME IS PRECIOUS WHY SPEND IT ON LENGTHY PROFILE MESSAGE IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT SURE OF GETTING REPLY AND EVEN GET BLOCKED

You waste much more of your precious time sending messages to those whose profiles you couldn't be bothered to read and who consequently never reply...

How sensible is that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, I agree. Some profiles are too long and needless.

Unlike many I think that you are entitled to your opinion, as are they. That's what makes us individuals.

Like you, I get bored reading a long profile, so I just don't bother and move on to the shorter ones. It's really that simple.

I'm not here to make life long friends. I have friends. People I've known a long time and who I trust.

I'm not here for a relationship. I've had relationships, and they just end up messy at some point.

NSA fun is all I'm after. That's it. I don't want to know anyone's life story either.

However, not wanting to be friends or have a relationship, doesn't mean that I'm not friendly, respectful and sociable. Within limits of course. LOL!

Like everyone else here I pick and choose. It's the way of the world, we all do it in our own little way.

If you feel that people on here are quite often rude, then I agree with you. But it's just their way.

Ultimately, you don't know any of these people, and they don't know you. And as I always say, there's an awful lot lost in conversations over the net. We can all so easily misinterpret everything and anything that's said.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don't even need a message to block. If I don't like someone's attitude in a forum or a status I'll happily block them.

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