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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

I'm curious as to what a non-bi fem expects from a meet with a couple?

I can understand a bi fem meeting a couple if the fem is bi, everyone plays, but as a bi fem myself I wonder is it worth contacting single ladies who are not bi, but say they will meet couples. Would they be put off by the fact that I am bi and they worry I would try to convert them lol? Or are they perhaps curious, but haven't put it on their profile for some reason? I'm not sure why a straight lady would meet a couple with a straight lady, unless she likes watching couples?

Jayne x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my old couples profile I messaged a girl who said she was straight on her profile and wanted to couples. I messaged her because I thought well if I don't ask I won't get. Turns out she did want to meet and have naughty fun with me. Moral of the story is always ask you never know what might happen. X

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

This is so interesting!

We've been looking for a lady to join us, where we'll all be very involved with each other. But as Lord Sugar says..the search continues.

But we too have seen a number of straight women who say they're looking for couples. We haven't msgd them for fearing of offending. But should we chance it? It'd obvious expand our choices.

Any women who fall into this category care to share their thoughts?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy.

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy."

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for?

Jayne x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him."

*there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they like the idea of group play but not mmf as they don't want the focus on them?

Or maybe they ticked it as there is no option to say you are looking for group play so more than just a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just 2 girls teasing the guy and getting him to do twice the work - hes happy to oblige im sure

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him."

No, I'm not sure I'm explaining this right.

I understand why a guy would want two women to play with (even if they are both straight), and I understand why a bi-fem Cpl (that's us lol) would want a bi fem to play with, the bit I don't get is why a straight fem would put on her profile that she will meet couples... I don't see what is in it for her?

She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half?

Jayne x

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We were at a club one night. My wife was sucking me. Then other woman started to suck me. Other woman started to feel wifes breast. So i pulled away to see what would happen. And they started to kiss. Wife never done that b4. And my god it was so horny to watch her. And she enjoyed it to. N later. Woman was using her mouth on wife. So i think unless you try it. Ya never know. That was a first for us. Mrs doing that. Just thought ide mention that. Lol.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him.

No, I'm not sure I'm explaining this right.

I understand why a guy would want two women to play with (even if they are both straight), and I understand why a bi-fem Cpl (that's us lol) would want a bi fem to play with, the bit I don't get is why a straight fem would put on her profile that she will meet couples... I don't see what is in it for her?

She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half?

Jayne x"

As a woman who describes herself as only mildly bi-curious I can understand it completely. Yes there are plenty of single males out there, but attraction happens where it will. I'm far more likely to be attracted to the male of a couple than the female, and if she's happy to just watch or play alongside but not with me, well that's just perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have straight on my profile back in the day. Had never touched a woman sexually. I wasn't even interested in the idea of it to be honest. Until I went to a swinging party. Getting carried away in the moment, I had my first female experience. I found I really enjoyed it. There's been more encounters since. Even a 1 on 1 in a club with a gorgeous woman. Suffice to say, my preference is no longer straight

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

Some straight women are very visual and being with a couple can be a massive visual horny experience! The fun doesn't have to be necessarily playing with the bi fem, the fun for her (straight woman) could be about watching that cock slide into a pussy at close range..perhaps holding that cock and directing it a bit..sound is a turn on too..listening to the couple fuck..the energ..and yes pleasuring the man too..

So yes there are many sexy aspects to straight women engaging with couples; besides fem-on-fem play.

Not that I speak from ahem cough cough such described experience

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half?

Jayne x"

Ive met with several couples where the wife just likes to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? "

What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

My wife would like me to share a cock oraly. Wot bout that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi - i can play straight and have done (no often) but if the company is right the ladies dont have to play together - and whats wrong with the fella having 2 girls- if theyre having a good time thats what in it for them -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it is any different for a single woman to a single guy. I don't think the guys go for mfms for purely altruistic reasons. They get something from it too. It may be the sex itself, or the group experience and watching and being part of that dynamic. Can't imagine why that can't apply to women looking for straight fmfs.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham


"Some straight women are very visual and being with a couple can be a massive visual horny experience! The fun doesn't have to be necessarily playing with the bi fem, the fun for her (straight woman) could be about watching that cock slide into a pussy at close range..perhaps holding that cock and directing it a bit..sound is a turn on too..listening to the couple fuck..the energ..and yes pleasuring the man too..

So yes there are many sexy aspects to straight women engaging with couples; besides fem-on-fem play.

Not that I speak from ahem cough cough such described experience "

Oh and I forgot to add, just like some opposite sex couples don't like giving oral sex, can't the same apply for same sex players? Unless you are assuming that that's the only thing to "get out of the experience"...

I have put bi-curious on my profile because I still find the female body very attractive and when combined closely with the male..aaaah so erotic

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?"

Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol.

The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems.

Jayne x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy.

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for?

Jayne x"

I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women?

The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?

Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol.

The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems.

Jayne x"

So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'?

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?

Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol.

The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems.

Jayne x

So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'?"

Surely a single lady can get that anytime, without needing to meet couples?

I don't know why you seem to be deliberately being obtuse, maybe I've inadvertently said something to offend you, and if so I apologise, but there's no need to keep following my posts with your comments unless you have something helpful to say.

Jayne x

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy.

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for?

Jayne x

I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women?

The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them. "

I guess that's the answer lol.

I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples.

I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles.

Jayne x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy.

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for?

Jayne x

I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women?

The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them.

I guess that's the answer lol.

I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples.

I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles.

Jayne x"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped looking for couples because they almost all want bi sex for the women, with the man not getting involved much.

I prefer men over women and would, at least, want equal time with both.

So now, I'm Fab straight and just looking for men.

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy.

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for?

Jayne x

I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women?

The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them.

I guess that's the answer lol.

I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples.

I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles.

Jayne x

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied."

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x"

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart? "

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x"

I see. Thank you.

How do you like the forums?

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x

I see. Thank you.

How do you like the forums? "

Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!

Jayne x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm straight and have met couples.

Playing with a woman doesn't turn me on at all (neither does it turn me off)and I wouldn't do oral on a woman but as a scenario of three naked bodies all enjoying each other, it's great. I suppose I could describe it as soft swapping with me and the woman as I like playing with boobs and bits, and kissing.

I was very lucky to be part of a FFFM (me a friend and a couple) recently and it worked out very well indeed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x

I see. Thank you.

How do you like the forums?

Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!

Jayne x"

Oh, that would be a shame.

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By *adyinred696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x

I see. Thank you.

How do you like the forums?

Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!

Jayne x

Oh, that would be a shame."

I guess I'm just not used to coming up against so many... whats the best way of putting it... "spikey" people lol!

I knew people would have different opinions, and that's fine, but as a relative newby in here I didn't think I'd get... well... targeted it felt like for a while, I didn't know what the problem was, especially with one person, I had to re-read my posts to see if I's somehow insulted them or something.

I know maybe I didn't really explain myself very well, and I kept asking the same question in different ways, but it felt like people really thought I was deliberately being awkward, and I was just trying to understand something.

Jayne x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied.

Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that.

I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask.

Jayne x

No harm in asking

Who's Mart?

He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.

Jayne x

I see. Thank you.

How do you like the forums?

Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!

Jayne x

Oh, that would be a shame.

I guess I'm just not used to coming up against so many... whats the best way of putting it... "spikey" people lol!

I knew people would have different opinions, and that's fine, but as a relative newby in here I didn't think I'd get... well... targeted it felt like for a while, I didn't know what the problem was, especially with one person, I had to re-read my posts to see if I's somehow insulted them or something.

I know maybe I didn't really explain myself very well, and I kept asking the same question in different ways, but it felt like people really thought I was deliberately being awkward, and I was just trying to understand something.

Jayne x"

I think its a case of realising that everyone has different ways of expressing themselves and its difficult to convey tone in text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy?

What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?

Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol.

The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems.

Jayne x

So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'?

Surely a single lady can get that anytime, without needing to meet couples?

I don't know why you seem to be deliberately being obtuse, maybe I've inadvertently said something to offend you, and if so I apologise, but there's no need to keep following my posts with your comments unless you have something helpful to say.

Jayne x

"

I've met straight couples before because I like fucking men and I like being watched. I also enjoy interacting with couple dynamics.

The same reasons that some of my male friends meet straight couples.

I don't really think that's a difficult idea to get ones head around.

And I'm not stalking you, I just replied to you on a public forum.

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