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By *astie10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

how do you deal with a sexless marrage

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here I am

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By *uperhorny69erWoman
over a year ago

NORTHAMPTON

maybe try talking to your other half & get to the bottom of why its sexless & go from there,if you've done this already then i don't know what to suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haribo, lots and lots of haribo

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Go on fab and fuck someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haribo, lots and lots of haribo "

It works for "shag" lol.....

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By *astie10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

lol

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have."

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Cheat?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

"

That's all well and good if you get it from someone who doesn't get hurt when they are being used..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every marriage is different. I didn't have sex with my husband for almost 2 years. I didn't feel like I had to "cope" with that because I loved and understood him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ask hubby, hang on. ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There have been quite a few threads on this recently. There doesn't seem to be one way to deal with it from what I've read and none of the suggestions seem to have been successful.

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By *astie10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

thanks for the input all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank a lot like me. We love each other to bits and bar that one thing our marriage is perfect , I think lol

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

That's all well and good if you get it from someone who doesn't get hurt when they are being used.."

True, though paying for it is of course an option. But maybe there's someone out there who likes to help out in situations like this, just knowing that she'd be doing a good deed that would be greatly appreciated!

Doesn't seem to live around here though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only there was a one size fits all answer.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

That's all well and good if you get it from someone who doesn't get hurt when they are being used..

True, though paying for it is of course an option. But maybe there's someone out there who likes to help out in situations like this, just knowing that she'd be doing a good deed that would be greatly appreciated!

Doesn't seem to live around here though...

"

A good deed??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

That's all well and good if you get it from someone who doesn't get hurt when they are being used..

True, though paying for it is of course an option. But maybe there's someone out there who likes to help out in situations like this, just knowing that she'd be doing a good deed that would be greatly appreciated!

Doesn't seem to live around here though...

"

I don't think there are many women who want to have sex with a guy as a good deed or to help out. You make us sound like service providers with a charitable status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get divorced, if it was the only thing that had kept you together?

Otherwise, love what you still have.

Good answer, I'm in that situation myself, some people just don't seem to understand that there should be more to a marriage than just sex.

Love what you still have. And if you still need sex, I would add... get it elsewhere, with a clear conscience, and ignore the critics who will never understand.

That's all well and good if you get it from someone who doesn't get hurt when they are being used..

True, though paying for it is of course an option. But maybe there's someone out there who likes to help out in situations like this, just knowing that she'd be doing a good deed that would be greatly appreciated!

Doesn't seem to live around here though...

A good deed?? "

Free prostitute. Women that fuck men out of the goodness of their hearts.

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

I thought a "free prostitute" was someone who fucks without any social interaction?

A woman who meets a nice guy in a sexless marriage, only socially at first, then has sex with him because she likes him and actually wants to help, cannot reasonably be described as a "free prostitute" by that definition. They're doing it because they like each other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought a "free prostitute" was someone who fucks without any social interaction?

A woman who meets a nice guy in a sexless marriage, only socially at first, then has sex with him because she likes him and actually wants to help, cannot reasonably be described as a "free prostitute" by that definition. They're doing it because they like each other.

"

I'm interested, why do you think you are in need of help? Why isn't just liking you and wanting to have sex enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a "free prostitute" was someone who fucks without any social interaction?

A woman who meets a nice guy in a sexless marriage, only socially at first, then has sex with him because she likes him and actually wants to help, cannot reasonably be described as a "free prostitute" by that definition. They're doing it because they like each other.

"

People meeting and having sex because they like each other isn't the same as someone having sex 'as a good deed'.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

I'd be quiet Simon after the thread the other night

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Well, of course it would be nice if marital status wasn't a factor! But with so many genuinely single guys to choose from, a lot of women will avoid men in sexless marriages for various reasons - maybe because they think "cheating is immoral", or maybe they just don't want to risk getting involved in a situation they don't fully understand. Which is fair enough, but it does create difficulties for us.

There will be those who don't mind, and perhaps a few who actually prefer married guys (more stable, more discreet). And possibly some who do specifically enjoy the fact that they are helping another person to experience sex when they would otherwise be unable to: out of kindness, or maybe they get off on his gratitude! If I ever meet such a woman, I'll ask her.

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet


"I'd be quiet Simon after the thread the other night "

Too right!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It's time to acknowledge there is something very wrong.

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