FabSwingers.com forum: Are you oblivious?

By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Do you notice when people are flirting with you or are you oblivious to it?

Its unusual anyone flirts with me or if they have I've never realised, however today I think someone might have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a clue most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here or in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm oblivious to it

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't even notice when I am flirting myself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Noone flirts with me on here but i can now tell in real life where as i couldnt before

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Na I'm useless at this kinda thing. I just think people are messing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm naturally flirty all the time to the point that I don't even notice that I'm doing it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm utterly clueless, because the notion of anyone flirting with me, is completely alien.

I was shopping with friends and they started pissing themselves laughing in one shop... apparently, the assistant was seen copping a feel of my arse but I didnt even notice.

If you hit me over the head with a large banner, saying "Oi! I like you", I'd probably get the message

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Noone flirts with me on here but i can now tell in real life where as i couldnt before"

You look sexy as fuck in them glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they would need to hit me with a brick and drag me back to their lair...

But then I'm a guy...just a bit slow

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Totally oblivious

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

Totally clueless. Always have been and missed out some crackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either I don't have a clue or people don't flirt with me.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm naturally flirty all the time to the point that I don't even notice that I'm doing it anymore

This....and it usually gets me in all sorts of trouble

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Noone flirts with me on here but i can now tell in real life where as i couldnt before

You look sexy as fuck in them glasses

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have you had a bang on the head

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"On here or in real life?"

In real life

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I'm naturally flirty all the time to the point that I don't even notice that I'm doing it anymore

This....and it usually gets me in all sorts of trouble "

I don't think I'm flirty but apparently others say I am

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a clue if someone was flirting with me and I have no idea how to flirt with others.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am mr oblivious here as well not a clue I just think people are being nice

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Noone flirts with me on here but i can now tell in real life where as i couldnt before

You look sexy as fuck in them glasses

have you had a bang on the head

Quite likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

im crap at knowing when people are flirting but then again it doesnt happen that often so dont get alot of practice noticing it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody flirts with me in real life so it isn't an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so used to banter in the workplace, it's hard to know if it's jokes or attraction causing the flirtation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Nobody flirts with me in real life so it isn't an issue

This ^^^^^^^^^

And if sumone did I probley wouldn't even reknise it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm naturally flirty all the time to the point that I don't even notice that I'm doing it anymore

This....and it usually gets me in all sorts of trouble

I don't think I'm flirty but apparently others say I am

Gets me into trouble too and I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes - but on here its usually full on in your face so hard to miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually oblivious but other day went to look at a job and was very clearly flirting with me to say least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognise flirting but assume they are just having a laugh as I can be pretty flirty...I never assume they actually fancy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have a clue most of the time

Oh, go on........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody flirts with me in real life so it isn't an issue

This ^^^^^^^^^

And if sumone did I probley wouldn't even reknise it

Come on man, it's one or the other. I don't imagine it happens often, but there's bound to be a bit of flirting thrown my way; I don't recognise it though. Nor here either. With that in mind, please add the header to all of the messages you must surely be planning to send me: ***flirt alert***

Thanks... it's bound to save a lot of confusion

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

In real life? Sometimes, yes. I di get flustered when they do though. On here? No. I think it's just standard chat for most.

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Do you notice when people are flirting with you or are you oblivious to it?

Its unusual anyone flirts with me or if they have I've never realised, however today I think someone might have been.

What is this thing called flirting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recognise flirting but assume they are just having a laugh as I can be pretty flirty...I never assume they actually fancy me

Dito, I recognise when someone is flirting and usually flirt back... Do they fancy me is another question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here or in real life?

In real life"

No. Not unless they are blatant x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I chat with practically everyone I meet, cashier, tax driver, my bin men etc. I may be a bit more flirty with the men.

I never feel I'm being flirted with so either I'm not or I'm oblivious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally - I'm programmed not to accept that anyone would actually ever want to flirt with me I think.

It would make it so much easier if such things were totally telegraphed to me in the unlikely event of it ever happening.

I'm a crap flirt the other way too, the words just don't come out right. Overall I'm generally just crap at Fab!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm either oblivious or they don't flirt. I am suspecting the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping I'll notice it when someone does flirt with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking women probably do flirt with me when they laugh at my jokes.

My jokes aren't even funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here unless it's direct I just think it's friendly banter. In real life I don't think I'd notice it at all. And I'm too scared of looking a fool to do it anywhere but on here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody flirts with me in real life so it isn't an issue

This ^^^^^^^^^

And if sumone did I probley wouldn't even reknise it

I have been told in the past that someone was flirting and I just thought they were being friendly

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Oblivious and absolutely terrible at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would never cross my mind that someone was flirting with me. I would just think they were friendly.

Even if they told me explicitly I would just think they were messing with me.

Seems a lot of people are oblivious to it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I can sense it at 100 paces lol! I'm not very flirty in real life, except when I dance sometimes it's fun

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Do you notice when people are flirting with you or are you oblivious to it?

Its unusual anyone flirts with me or if they have I've never realised, however today I think someone might have been.

Totally fucking oblivious to it all.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I know.

I am usually very aware of people, I read them very well and am rarely wrong about them. Drives people crazy when they realise I was right about a person a couple of minutes after meeting them

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