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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At the weekend I made out with a married women of 10 years can't get it out of my head, feel really guilty! So much so I've started looking for a new job (work colleague). It's it really this bad or have just made it into a big drama in my head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ignore glasses emoji!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does her hubby know have you spoke to her since then xx

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Ignore it carry on as normal

Unless she is now pregnant

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does her hubby know have you spoke to her since then xx"

It happened Friday night, doubtful the hubby knows and no I haven't spoke to her since due to not knowing if she is with him! Back in work tomorrow though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff happens. But you're responsible for some of it so choose wisely about what happens next.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"At the weekend I made out with a married women of 10 years can't get it out of my head, feel really guilty! So much so I've started looking for a new job (work colleague). It's it really this bad or have just made it into a big drama in my head "

You've made it into a drama. What were the circumstances. A d*unken snog doesn't mean much but if you met by chance and ended up kissing its slightly different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op don't worry yourself.

If you both enjoyed it then don't fret about the why's or the wherefores.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis "

Step away. No need for you to leave your job though, that would be a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't get drawn further in. Be kind and explain. No need to move jobs just be mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis "

Then it is up to her to sort her relationship out.

Don't be a buffer.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Don't over think it. Stuff like that happens, especially at work parties. Talk to her when you next see her so she knows where you stand with each other. It's a bit ott to consider leaving your job for imo!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You know how people often say things aren't great at home to garner sympathy and to persuade women to get with them, even if it isn't absolutely true?

Women do that too.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Life happens, crack on with life and enjoy the memory.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do you like your job? Why turn your whole life upside down for a d*unken kiss?

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