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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just cleaning so called friends list.

Truthfully fed up reading all about the fun they having here. But never thought to ask me to play. I mean whats the point of asking to be a friend that after 8 months nothing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures. "

Yeah it's funny, they don't speak but as soon as you delete them they notice and message you to ask why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ask them to 'play' rather than waiting for them to ask you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the whole friends list thing-thang and to be honestly it's never had a knowingly negative effect on my success rate or enjoyment of the site....

Speaking as an old fuddy duddy the idea having a list of cyber friends just doesn't float my canoe ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not ask them to 'play' rather than waiting for them to ask you? "
have asked fed up asking.fed up hearing about all the fun they having sorry having a bad day and feeling lonely.

And am taking it all out on here sorry

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I constantly clear our friends list,get sick of messaging them and them not replying etc.

I dont see the point in staying friends if we don't chat or meet.

Miss

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

Am always sending a hi message every now and again but most never reply to off they go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the 3 day rule! If there is no potential after 3 days, your off my friends list! Works for me! They soon start messaging you asking why they can't see your pics...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I think we are due a clear out tbh, as you say people chat & are friendly enough but if its going nowhere or they don't chat occasionally even if not about meeting what's the point?

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have the 3 day rule! If there is no potential after 3 days, your off my friends list! Works for me! They soon start messaging you asking why they can't see your pics... "

Yes but you have one big advantage your female.

Lol and thanks all for your time and consideration x am away to have a bath and a large hot chocolate xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cleared minevitable the other day

Just kept the ones I wanted to keep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cleared minevitable the other day

Just kept the ones I wanted to keep "

Predictive text

Cleared mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we have to play with all our friends?

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" am away to have a bath and a large hot chocolate xxxx "

Oh that's bloody nice that is. Posting all about your bath and your hot chocolate, your LARGE hot chocolate. But do any of us lot get an invite? I should cocoa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" am away to have a bath and a large hot chocolate xxxx

Oh that's bloody nice that is. Posting all about your bath and your hot chocolate, your LARGE hot chocolate. But do any of us lot get an invite? I should cocoa. "
home made dark hotchocolate and a drop of whiskey and cream x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have to play with all our friends?"

Yes but only if I'm on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just cleaning so called friends list.

Truthfully fed up reading all about the fun they having here. But never thought to ask me to play. I mean whats the point of asking to be a friend that after 8 months nothing ?"

I hear you,

We put this on our status yesterday "..Removing friends that's not been in touch for a while.." so people know they gone, today we got messages from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" am away to have a bath and a large hot chocolate xxxx

Oh that's bloody nice that is. Posting all about your bath and your hot chocolate, your LARGE hot chocolate. But do any of us lot get an invite? I should cocoa. home made dark hotchocolate and a drop of whiskey and cream x"

And cream! That's really rubbing it in. Oooh now there's an idea.....

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Do we have to play with all our friends?"

no we don't tink but a lot use the word friend instead of bedpost notch on these kinds of sites in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we have to play with all our friends?

no we don't tink but a lot use the word friend instead of bedpost notch on these kinds of sites in my opinion .

"

Phew I have been trying to clear space in my diary all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures. "

That seems to be the main reason and why people you've never spoken to before suddenly send a friend request. They just want to have a free look at your downstairs area.

It's usually people with no public or friends only pics too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a one month rule

,I respect people have lives, work, family etc and it can get busy but if there's not so much as a Hi in a month their gone.

And like many have said soon get a message and a re-request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only people who make my friends list are those I have already met and those I really want to meet ..but with those I want to meet if nothing after say 3 months then ill take them off the list ....im here for fun nothing else

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Do we have to play with all our friends?

no we don't tink but a lot use the word friend instead of bedpost notch on these kinds of sites in my opinion .

Phew I have been trying to clear space in my diary all day "

my diaries full tink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clear out my friends list fairly often. Some of them do keep in contact but if its always me that sends a messege first then i presume they arnt interested so i delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends list is pointless, you meet a couple & if you all click & have fun that's great don't need to be "friends" just message if want to meet up again when all available. Just a matter of not giving a rats arse if so called FAB friends don't get in touch don't surround oneself with negative people , not a serious lifestyle just a bit of fun in your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends are ppl I've met and want to stay in touch with.

I still edit the list tho.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures.

That seems to be the main reason and why people you've never spoken to before suddenly send a friend request. They just want to have a free look at your downstairs area.

It's usually people with no public or friends only pics too. "

this is very true and I love the fact I have no cock pictures on my profile.

I always laugh my arse off when they complain about me having no meat and two veg shots for them to wank ops I mean ogle over

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By *ashwoodMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/London


"Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures. "

Well certainly enjoyed looking at your pictures and your not even a friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here."

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Do we have to play with all our friends?"

Well no IF we converse about stuff, forum etc. If they don't do that though nor chat about meeting why are they there?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 40 friend requests... Not one of them had mailed me.

They will.sit there ignored for eternity. Possibly longer...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Don't be disheartened ... I cleared mine a while back because I never spoke to them anymore and then all of a sudden I got messages.

It just happens I guess. I think some just like looking at the pictures. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet "

we have tried asking our on our friends list but all we get bull about we're busy or the misses is on monthly,we would love to meet but.......

its always the same on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet

we have tried asking our on our friends list but all we get bull about we're busy or the misses is on monthly,we would love to meet but.......

its always the same on here..

"

Actually I was busy last week, my 8 year old was here. I was also on my monthly....I'm far from bull shitting! People are busy and have kids etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few have removed me off their friends list, it doesn't bother me, just means they're no longer interested in meeting, and I've removed people too for the that very reason, I only add people as friends once I've met them and never before, too many just like to perv at the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet

we have tried asking our on our friends list but all we get bull about we're busy or the misses is on monthly,we would love to meet but.......

its always the same on here..

Actually I was busy last week, my 8 year old was here. I was also on my monthly....I'm far from bull shitting! People are busy and have kids etc"

yep I get that sometimes people are busy, sometimes we are busy so cant play but every weekend we get the same, not just on friends list but no one even messages us about meeting altho like over 100 people look when u put up a meet. its beyond a joke sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My list is exclusively women, whom I consider cool and who I've met. I msy have to remove 1 or 2, I've not seen them in the forums for ages and we've not spoke in a month or so.

But a list here means nothing. It's just easier to find you if I want to pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet

we have tried asking our on our friends list but all we get bull about we're busy or the misses is on monthly,we would love to meet but.......

its always the same on here..

Actually I was busy last week, my 8 year old was here. I was also on my monthly....I'm far from bull shitting! People are busy and have kids etc

yep I get that sometimes people are busy, sometimes we are busy so cant play but every weekend we get the same, not just on friends list but no one even messages us about meeting altho like over 100 people look when u put up a meet. its beyond a joke sometimes....

"

I would say if I was a couple meeting I would not be happy about the guy in the other couple only joining in IF he felt comfortable (id wonder at which point he would decide he was - if at a social all well and good, if at a play meet, not so good)). I'd want a fuck especially if my partner was going to get one. Just saying anyway, no profile critique going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling, none of our so called friends ever ask us to play, even when we put up meets no one asks.... we don't get anything, makes us wonder why we are even on here.

I would presume if one of my friends put a meet up that they didn't want to meet me....if they did they would ask me, that's why I wouldn't respond to a friends meet

we have tried asking our on our friends list but all we get bull about we're busy or the misses is on monthly,we would love to meet but.......

its always the same on here..

Actually I was busy last week, my 8 year old was here. I was also on my monthly....I'm far from bull shitting! People are busy and have kids etc

yep I get that sometimes people are busy, sometimes we are busy so cant play but every weekend we get the same, not just on friends list but no one even messages us about meeting altho like over 100 people look when u put up a meet. its beyond a joke sometimes....

I would say if I was a couple meeting I would not be happy about the guy in the other couple only joining in IF he felt comfortable (id wonder at which point he would decide he was - if at a social all well and good, if at a play meet, not so good)). I'd want a fuck especially if my partner was going to get one. Just saying anyway, no profile critique going on "

he will play reguardless if he feels comfortable to fuck but as profiles says sometimes he doesn't fuck... and I wouldn't ever expect the other guy to fuck me, its again if it happens the all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recently informed I'm on most peoples frenemies list ,,,,,

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