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The longest amount of time between initial contact and the first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's yours?

By the time I see my next meet it'll be around nine months since we first messaged each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's yours?

By the time I see my next meet it'll be around nine months since we first messaged each other."

There's a woman I've got my eye on. It could be a while before we meet.

Maybe I should pm her.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Around a year or so. He quite often works abroad and my work place changes so we were speaking for some time before our calenders aligned. It made it all the better for when we did meet in an odd sense. My next meet we've been speaking for about five monthsish? And I'll finally meet them next month.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Mine was around a year. The problem with busy calendars and trying to align the planets.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Around six months, which'll be remedied very soon. Another that's looking to be around six/seven months by the time we can meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around a year but after all that flirting, it was soooo worth it. And I didn't wait that long to see him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around a year. Logistic issues. Great meet though. Well worth the wait

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A couple of years mainly due to both of us being in same place at same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines at least 2 years...I stopped counting after that. .. We did stop communicating for some of that time though

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

My most recent meet was over a year since initially chatted... Maybe even close to two years!! Was well worth all the wait and planning though

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my old single profile ,it took us 2 years to manage to meet up

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years! He was one of the first guys I chatted to on the site and we stayed in contact through various profile incarnations. He travelled all over the world, and we just never managed to meet up - until recently he texted to say he was 10 mins from where I worked and did I fancy a coffee? It was the most spontaneous meet I've ever had and I've never been so nervous, but it was lovely

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My one and only solo meet so far was almost three months before we met for a social...and will be almost three months later that we meet again...have another social this week with someone I've been chatting to for a couple of months.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Over a year and the longest ive gone between social and sex meet is 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's yours?

By the time I see my next meet it'll be around nine months since we first messaged each other."

You don't meet anyone new so why are you waiting so long to see a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months usually.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I'll lose interest, pointless dragging someone along, you are really wasting your time although I've had about 2years between contact and meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's yours?

By the time I see my next meet it'll be around nine months since we first messaged each other.

You don't meet anyone new so why are you waiting so long to see a friend?"

Why do you care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few months usually.

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I best get to Wales quickly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was nearly a year.

Most of my meets take a while to come to fruition...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years for me ... we both kept moving around and then ended up from being half hour away to six hours away

So it took a while to sort that one out

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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5 months was the longest, then we just so happened to be in the same place at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's yours?

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It's been a couple of years I reckon since we first spoke to you, and we're still bloody waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest for me was around 7/8 months. We stayed in touch and I have to say it was worth the wait. My work doesn't always allow easy meet arrangements so patience is key (As shag would say)

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