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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

we are all entitled to sex and relationships but where do we stand on meeting vulnerable adults

would you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are all entitled to sex and relationships but where do we stand on meeting vulnerable adults

would you meet?"

No never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what reaspect are they vulnerable??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no. Informed consent would be difficult to establish.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"In what reaspect are they vulnerable??"

autistic etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what reaspect are they vulnerable??"

I'm not being dismissive, but you would be best googling the term 'vulnerable adult'

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Who's going to say yes to this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, as the parent of 2 vulnerable adults it's a bit too close to home.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are different levels and types of vulnerability, so the context is important. The most important issue is that of consent, their understanding of it and abilities to give it freely Imo. We are all open to vulnerabilities in our lives, from depression and other mental health problems, so it's also important to consider ourselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

people are vulnerable in many ways but if we get th eimpression that someone is emotionally vulnerable we wont meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say no generally - but would depend on the vulnerability - whether they had full or fluctuating capacity -so many things it isnt a black or white answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think difficulty lies in the fact that not all vulnerable adults would appear so at the offset. Certainly chatting online and then straight to a meet up for sex, this may not be initially apparent. Social first guys, would help to identify x

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

No i wouldn't, that's not to say i wouldn't be friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think difficulty lies in the fact that not all vulnerable adults would appear so at the offset. Certainly chatting online and then straight to a meet up for sex, this may not be initially apparent. Social first guys, would help to identify x"

Yes but once you established they are vulnerable.....would that be a no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i wouldn't, that's not to say i wouldn't be friends x"

Friendship is totally different to a sexual meet.imo

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I agree with Alice above.

There are clearly varying degrees of mental vulnerability. You identified autism however autism alone has an endless spectrum in levels.

However, I had a friend at uni on my law degree who had autism very very mildly... she was completely sound of mind and i would be confident that if she were placed in situations like these then she would be entirely consensual and would understand every scenario that could potentially endanger her.

BUT, the word vulnerable alone is enough to say no to. Vulnerable as an adjective obviously is an invitation to attack. The synonyms are words like helpless, fragile, endangered... and for me I could never comfortably meet with somebody who I could never be certain was fully aware of the situation about to unfold. Consent would be extremely hard to establish.

A social meet would easily clear this danger up though... you would know within the first hour of a social meet if somebody was truly "vulnerable".

Interesting question though OP.. I agree, everybody is entitled to this life... just in a safe and secure way for them.. and us!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Some people on fab would be deemed as "vulnerable" however you would never know that they were as such...the term vulnerable is such a broad word and can be portrayed in so many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think once you establish a person is avulnerable adult.....and believe you would! Then that is the time to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this scenario, no I wouldn't meet them.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Wouldn't be comfortable so no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think difficulty lies in the fact that not all vulnerable adults would appear so at the offset. Certainly chatting online and then straight to a meet up for sex, this may not be initially apparent. Social first guys, would help to identify x

Yes but once you established they are vulnerable.....would that be a no?"

Then it would be a no I'm afraid xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think difficulty lies in the fact that not all vulnerable adults would appear so at the offset. Certainly chatting online and then straight to a meet up for sex, this may not be initially apparent. Social first guys, would help to identify x

Yes but once you established they are vulnerable.....would that be a no?

Then it would be a no I'm afraid xxx"

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

tbh completing a mental capacity assessment before fucking them wouldn't be a huge turn on for me

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