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Is it just me: I'm not gay, bi or curious...

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

So I can't help feel a little uncomfortable when guys fab my pictures.

I'm not ignorant enough to believe there aren't gay/bi men on a swingers site that like to look at dick pics (especially the ones that get a thrill out of pursuing straight men). But I honesty feel a little cringy when I see guys fabbing pictures of my dick lool.

Should I not feel this way given the kind of site this is? Should I feel flattered in a way?

P.S: Peoples sexuality is not my issue here, I mean no disrespect. I'm just not sure how to feel about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't show photos then or don't allow them to be fabbed?

Im nit interested in straight women or people out of my age range but I still feel flattered if they fab my pics. Its nice to have some appreciate the effort you've made no matter who they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gents... get fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gents... get fabbing! "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Why does it bother you if your so secure in your sexualaity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't have to feel flattered. You feel how you feel. It isn't homophobic.

If it makes you feel bad then hide the dick pics.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I fabbed the cock pics.

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Don't show photos then or don't allow them to be fabbed?

Im nit interested in straight women or people out of my age range but I still feel flattered if they fab my pics. Its nice to have some appreciate the effort you've made no matter who they are?"

Didn't know you could filter who fabbed you're photos? And are you really asking a single guy not to have public photos on this site? As if it's not hard enough lool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fabbed the cock pics. "

Me too

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Just take it as a compliment or hide them. Suck it up buttercup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't pick who fabs. Either anyone can or no one can.

Most ladies don't like cock pics so maybe keep those hidden and just show when asked? Problem solved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't show photos then or don't allow them to be fabbed?

Im nit interested in straight women or people out of my age range but I still feel flattered if they fab my pics. Its nice to have some appreciate the effort you've made no matter who they are?

Didn't know you could filter who fabbed you're photos? And are you really asking a single guy not to have public photos on this site? As if it's not hard enough lool. "

You can't filter who fabs them....you can allow anyone or no one to Fab them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no problem with gay guys fabbing me, or sending me a message. Doesn't mean I want to hop into bed with them as straight.

Starting to wonder why I've got age filters on, although guess there aren't many in here outside those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't show photos then or don't allow them to be fabbed?

Im nit interested in straight women or people out of my age range but I still feel flattered if they fab my pics. Its nice to have some appreciate the effort you've made no matter who they are?"

pretty much this. Either put your dick pics in friends only or private, or remove the ability to Fab them if you feel uncomfortable with guys fabbing them.

I'm straight but guys have fabbed my pics in the past but I don't let it worry or bother me. We're not going to meet and I'm not turning gay or bisexual any time soon so let them Fab away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I can't help feel a little uncomfortable when guys fab my pictures.

I'm not ignorant enough to believe there aren't gay/bi men on a swingers site that like to look at dick pics (especially the ones that get a thrill out of pursuing straight men). But I honesty feel a little cringy when I see guys fabbing pictures of my dick lool.

Should I not feel this way given the kind of site this is? Should I feel flattered in a way?

P.S: Peoples sexuality is not my issue here, I mean no disrespect. I'm just not sure how to feel about it."

I had to fab a couple of pics.

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"I fabbed the cock pics.

Me too "

Looooool. Maybe I am thinking too much into it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You do have "that" look about you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally don't know why you're complaining. Surely it's a compliment when someone of the same sex fabs your pictures, just as it is when someone of the opposite sex does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm straight but I kinda get it when I get a fab of a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"You do have "that" look about you op"

Your as bad as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid fabbing straight guys on the whole unless their photos are too good to ignore and I don't think they'd mind based on their forum personalities. I wouldn't want them to feel uncomfortable. However it's a shame as good photos deserve to be fabbed regardless of sexuality.

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why does it bother you if your so secure in your sexualaity "

I know am straight and nothing more bro. I just wanted to see if anyone else felt how I felt about this. Or if I should just suck it up and get on with it. And I think I've got the answer I was looking for

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Why does it bother you if your so secure in your sexualaity

I know am straight and nothing more bro. I just wanted to see if anyone else felt how I felt about this. Or if I should just suck it up and get on with it. And I think I've got the answer I was looking for "
becareful what your sucking on

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Generally speaking, if people have made an effort to put up a pleasing photo, then I'll fab it. It doesn't mean in the slightest that I fancy them. In fact, I'd see that assumption as rather strange.

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Generally speaking, if people have made an effort to put up a pleasing photo, then I'll fab it. It doesn't mean in the slightest that I fancy them. In fact, I'd see that assumption as rather strange. "

No I hear that. And I not assuming anything. I just wanted to know if I was alone in how I felt about it.

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By *eneral_NoStrings OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why does it bother you if your so secure in your sexualaity

I know am straight and nothing more bro. I just wanted to see if anyone else felt how I felt about this. Or if I should just suck it up and get on with it. And I think I've got the answer I was looking for becareful what your sucking on "

Hahaha. I knew there would be someone

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Generally speaking, if people have made an effort to put up a pleasing photo, then I'll fab it. It doesn't mean in the slightest that I fancy them. In fact, I'd see that assumption as rather strange.

No I hear that. And I not assuming anything. I just wanted to know if I was alone in how I felt about it. "

If me fabbing your photos makes you feel uncomfortable, I'll remove the fabs. If interacting with me in the forum makes you want to vomit, not a lot I can do about that.

BRIGHTONSTEVE MAKES ME HEAVE!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You want others to help you feel better for feeling uncomfortable? You go to a swingers club or have fun in groups and you'll have people who like what they see.

If you can't handle it then restrict public access

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