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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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As long as we are having a good time I would like it to last until the morning or afternoon if we have the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting for a couple of hours. It's rare I'll stay overnight in someone's home, but I have done it. I've stayed overnight twice in a hotel, I think.

There's a lot you can do in a couple of hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

Personally this us something we would agree before the meet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had meets last 30 mins, and meets last all night. It depends on what was discussed and arranged. I prefer somewhere in the middle; 2 or 3 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had meets last 30 mins, and meets last all night. It depends on what was discussed and arranged. I prefer somewhere in the middle; 2 or 3 hours."

Same here.

I couldn't do overnight now as i have to get back for my pooch and i have young children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a host I feel entitled to stipulate how long I'm prepared to extend my hospitality....... But during the process of arranging the meet it becomes apparent my stipulation is unacceptable to the potential guest the meet does not go ahead.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I accomodate. I DO NOT expect them to whip their toothbrush out and put their pyjamas on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always have a chat before hand and make sure we both know what is expected. I did once go for a few hours and stayed 2 whole days though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like an overnight. Then again, I can't accommodate. Now what an earth was my point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had meets of a few hours and meets of 24+ hours ...

I suppose it depends on what kind of shenanigans you plan on getting up to

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I would always have a chat before hand and make sure we both know what is expected. I did once go for a few hours and stayed 2 whole days though. "

Lucky person.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Not sure about how long. But I would like it to last eternally in my memories...

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Not sure about how long. But I would like it to last eternally in my memories... "

Deep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet lasted 19hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet for a quickie I want at least the evening so about 3-4 hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet for a quickie I want at least the evening so about 3-4 hours! "

What would you talk about for 3 hours and 50 mins?

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

I tend to meet for a couple of hours. I'm not really into all nighters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could do quickie meets, my body just ain't up for them.

Most meets at the moment last until we run out of time and have to get back to the real world, I never look at how long they've lasted, but lots of time always seems to have passed between looking at the time.

What is it they say, time flies when you're having fun, well it bloody rockets when you're enjoying another's body and mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends how well we know people. our good friends often stay overnight but for a first meet we'd never invite them to stay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of drinks and a chat so maybe 2 hours max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet for a quickie I want at least the evening so about 3-4 hours!

What would you talk about for 3 hours and 50 mins? "

I talk a lot, I'm sure I could find something to talk about

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Exactly as long as a piece of string.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly as long as a piece of string. "

Twice as long from the start to the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses as they say!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

For me, a couple of hours would be the minimum. I generally like longer meets with foreplay and chat. Often four or five hours and on occasion overnight.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I accomodate. I DO NOT expect them to whip their toothbrush out and put their pyjamas on"

Spoilsport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

Overnight is always good, but perhaps maybe not on a first meet...it's nice to get the 'measure' of your play-partner first I feel. Though I wouldn't rule out overnight either at hers or mine on a first meet if we were getting along really really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be quite happy with a quick session, a little cuddle and natter and them going.

Sometimes you just want a good fuck and for them to sod off after.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

As long as it takes for me to pass out with complete and utter satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as all participants want. Will surely change depending on mood/circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?

Overnight is always good, but perhaps maybe not on a first meet...it's nice to get the 'measure' of your play-partner first I feel. Though I wouldn't rule out overnight either at hers or mine on a first meet if we were getting along really really well "

It really does depend on what works for both...sometimes an hour or two may be good for both parties. Go with the flow, me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer an hour or two, I always have plenty of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I'm satisfied/bored/exhausted/need to be somewhere else. There is no perfect meet time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour is more than enough

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until I'm satisfied/bored/exhausted/need to be somewhere else. There is no perfect meet time. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, shortest was about an hour. Longest so far was over 6 hours. X

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

We expect accomodate means for the length of the meet whether it is a couple of hours or all night.

We would expect any meet that was going to last longer than two or three hours would be arranged previously.

The accomodation is for the play not for a free bed for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have classed accomodate as they can have us at their house for a meet and not necessarily stay over. Our meets at other people's houses have lasted until the early hours of the morning and we went home after.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours or so works for me

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Can't be doing with short meets. Average around six hours

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

It depends who im meeting or if its the first time meet. My regular guy i tend to go down on a friday and back up on the sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 - 10 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 - 10 mins "

Shit, settle for 1.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't expect an almost unknown person to come round for an extended stay vacation of a meet, when something like airbnb could have met their needs. I don't clear all events from my calendar just because I've a meet - real life carries on.

If I want you for longer, I'll swallow the door keys.

First meet upto around 3 hours and as close to an hour minimum should work for my satisfaction. If it's pre-arranged as overnight that's fine but generally not for an unknown meet

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sometimes a drink or two in a local pub , with flirting etc.... then move somewhere quieter to have fun , so a couple of hours .

We may attend a party or have a couple meet at their place which may extend to three hours .

But equally we may just like a suck or fuck and go which may be ten minutes .

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I've had meets that have been just a few hours but I do prefer an all nighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two to four hours tops, I don't usually do over nights unless at a party as I have my pooches to come back to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises "

I am with you on this one....

Overnight....

Or 5 hours during daytime

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

quickie- couple of hours, depending on whats required, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full weekend preferred but 30 mins coffee meet with the right lady would be equally enjoyable to me.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

14 minutes.

1 minute to get undressed.

1 minute for the sex.

12 minutes to cry.

1 minute to get dressed again and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to meets that only lasted an hour. I've had similar length meets at mine.

I've had many that have been overnight (both ways and at hotels).

I've had weekend meets...Friday eve to Sunday noon (ok they were mostly with a regular...in her caravan lol)

I had one meet on a Thursday that resulted in me ringing in "sick" on the Friday and her going home on the Monday morning.

It takes all sorts is the simple answer.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I usually book a week off work.

If I like the 'accomodator' I'll stay the week and hopefully be wined and dined....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises

I am with you on this one....

Overnight....

Or 5 hours during daytime "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely as long as feels right? And should be pre discussed OP?

I would be upset if someone rocked up with a weekend bag and I thought it was a 'quickie' meet, and same for opposites

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"14 minutes.

1 minute to get undressed.

1 minute for the sex.

12 minutes to cry.

1 minute to get dressed again and leave."

Turns out I can't do simple addition. Well done E, well done.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I wouldn't stay the night at someone's gaff after setting up a meet on here.

On a first date, if we go back, then yes maybe sleep over, but that's a date, not a meet. I wouldn't stay over on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay as long as u want be leave before daylight seriously nosey neighbours.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I usually book a week off work.

If I like the 'accomodator' I'll stay the week and hopefully be wined and dined....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises

I am with you on this one....

Overnight....

Or 5 hours during daytime "

Only twice

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Depends entirely on the situation. Most couples we play with are in hotel scenarios - so it lasts a few hours from dinner and drinks to playing so average I would say... 7pm-3am? However we've had apartments with some people and then woke up and played the next morning...

However we're actually away in two weeks time with another couple on Fab for a dirty log cabin weekend in the Lake District because we all get on so well it's nice that this for us has turned into more... so I mean it all depends on the people too.

But for a random average meet I would say as soon as we're done.. we want bed!! And make it known. We all have a lie down and rest and chat for a bit afterwards but within the next hour they're gone and we're snoring again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually time my meets

Saying that I rarely do overnights, it's not something I'm entirely comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actually time my meets

Saying that I rarely do overnights, it's not something I'm entirely comfortable with."

I'm not having much luck with your posts tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actually time my meets

Saying that I rarely do overnights, it's not something I'm entirely comfortable with."

This!

I think it's quite a personal thing having someone stay the night. Plus, I have a fear of sleep-farting!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't actually time my meets

Saying that I rarely do overnights, it's not something I'm entirely comfortable with.

This!

I think it's quite a personal thing having someone stay the night. Plus, I have a fear of sleep-farting! "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

One minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actually time my meets

Saying that I rarely do overnights, it's not something I'm entirely comfortable with.

I'm not having much luck with your posts tonight! "

You really need to try harder. ..

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Hotel for me, been all night and into the morning, no rush and enjoyed every minute. Live for the moment.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm happy for an overnight stay nothing better than a cheeky morning fuck to start the day with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises

I am with you on this one....

Overnight....

Or 5 hours during daytime

This "

Drinks all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me and you've got me for life.

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

I never stay overnight anywhere. I usually like a social then play. Then when I've had enough I like to leave and go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

532 mins or 547 mins depending if the subject require a hot drink prior to coitus, anywhere inside that time frame...i'm flexible that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"532 mins or 547 mins depending if the subject require a hot drink prior to coitus, anywhere inside that time frame...i'm flexible that way "

Hahaha obviously you have to have a hot beverage otherwise Sheldon would not be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the person(s) you're meeting. Women often like an overnight, couples may like extended, but ultimately prefer just themselves sleeping together and men cum and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet me and you've got me for life. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot you can get done in four minutes, I can show you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I host its for an hour or so, in the day when my sprats are out. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3 hours, long enough to have a good fuck. I am not trying to form a relationship with them or pretend there is one.

Spending the whole night with someone and waking up in the morning with them is playing with emotions, which is dangerous.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

As long as it takes until all of us are sated. After that, a kiss, a cuddle and then a kiss goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 or 3 hours, long enough to have a good fuck. I am not trying to form a relationship with them or pretend there is one.

Spending the whole night with someone and waking up in the morning with them is playing with emotions, which is dangerous. "

I enjoy overnight stays. It doesn't mean I want to marry them.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"2 or 3 hours, long enough to have a good fuck. I am not trying to form a relationship with them or pretend there is one.

Spending the whole night with someone and waking up in the morning with them is playing with emotions, which is dangerous.

I enjoy overnight stays. It doesn't mean I want to marry them."

Oh I would expect a marriage proposal after an overnight!! Lol ha ha

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I had a lady come to my flat from the south coast. An overnight stay turned into 4 nights

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

11 nights, and days!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

100% agree with you. An entire evening or overnight is the least they can accommodate. Which is one of the reasons why I don't meet guys who house share. I also don't find it much fun waking up to his mum giving me the eyes of shame look and his dad the sly smiles and a wink! Safety is my main reason though.

If the sex was awful, I'd leave early. Hate all that awkwardness feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 or 3 hours, long enough to have a good fuck. I am not trying to form a relationship with them or pretend there is one.

Spending the whole night with someone and waking up in the morning with them is playing with emotions, which is dangerous.

I enjoy overnight stays. It doesn't mean I want to marry them."

Exactly lol. Overnight is more fun. We both get to be fulfilled instead of just him. Plus have multiple sessions throughout the night. Often once is never enough.

Believe me after spending the entire night, I don't want a relationship with him. Silly anyone who assumes that idea lol. Sexy sleepovers are best and that's all they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as it takes until all of us are sated. After that, a kiss, a cuddle and then a kiss goodbye. "

They wouldn't even need to take their coat off half the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets vary. I've done a few overnight and some very long nights at a club. A couple of hours is great but I'm not going to be getting ready for someone who wants to meet, fuck and go.....those days are gone. I prefer the scenic route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 or 3 hours, long enough to have a good fuck. I am not trying to form a relationship with them or pretend there is one.

Spending the whole night with someone and waking up in the morning with them is playing with emotions, which is dangerous.

I enjoy overnight stays. It doesn't mean I want to marry them."

I enjoy overnight stays means you get morning fun as well.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No such thing as should, it all depends on the dynamics of the meet.

PS, much prefer a longer meet.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Not read all the other answers - but I'd say it's obvious that the 'ideal' meet lasts for as long as both parties are in agreement.

I've had meets lasting anything from an hour (pre work play with someone I know well!) to a full weekend!

Both can be great as long as both parties want the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you all orgasms at least twice,the bed breaks or neigbours complain of your loud sex noises

I am with you on this one....

Overnight....

Or 5 hours during daytime "

Until carried out on stretchers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"
our meets have tended to be an hour or two with couples.. 15mins ish with guys

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

About an hour

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I would consider a good meet. Would be. Meet up about half seven ish. Go for a few drinks. Chat n laugh. Probs go two or three different places. Let the guy n mrs have a good flirt ( thats what we into ). Then head of to hatel or one of our places. Then carry on with the non hurried fun. Probs till about three ish in morning. If not over night. Depending where we are.having a repeat performer would be good to lol Thats just what i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends . Sometimes wee ask for fb too call spitroast me or just oral . Then times we've ended up in bed Mmf and also mmff for over a day if moist and hard cocks keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

Depends on what we want ... usually couple of hours ... prefer over night though... oh where is the summer

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Thats completely dependant on what your aim of the evening is.

If its someone you know and just wanna have a play 2hours is plenty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sleepover meets, so to meet the guy about half 6 ish, have a cuppa tea, watch emmerdale and have some bacon rolls, more tea and biscuits and a chat, then go up to bed to 'watch a dvd' and have a cwtch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 mins. Or 20mins if you want fore play.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends what you want from it and how close you are (personally not distance)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times a weekend and had a week ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just a jump then for as long as it lasts then I'm outta there.

If it's really good I'm gunna ride that baby all night long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was single i did stay overnight with a guy i knew well and had met many times however most meets were anything from 30 mins to a few hours.

Nowadays as a couple they are generally an hour up to several hours for g and i and they are at a club. We have a chat and a drink, use the hot tub, go in a private room for sex. We dont want to stay overnight. G and i then want to go home, have sex, cuddle and sleep

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't do overnight but three to four hours is good for a meet, longer if it involves going out to a party too.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

For me

the phrase on here for accom

is being able to have someone round for sex-no matter the time

I dont accom

and if someone says they can accom, i assume it is for long enough for sex, no matter if 30 mins to all night (even though i cannot do all nighters)

i think its each to their own and i like to discuss these things prior to meets anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as possible for everyone involved in the meet.

More time = more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we did accommodate it mainly meant just for how ever long we fucked. Once had a couple stay over night as they were traveling to meet us.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I prefer social meets first ... nothings guaranteed ... if theres no chemistry ....im outa there ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up to a meet on Tuesday and stayed until Friday! Had a fantastic time in this guys company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out. My idea of accommodating is overnight- or at least the evening.

I am not criticising this - different strokes for different folks and all that - I'm just curious to know what others think?"

Accommodating is either of those to be honest! We have people over for food, drinks and naughtiness before they head home... and have had people travel and stay a full weekend with us. When we're free for a few hours through the day time we'd happily have people to ours even with a time limit.

I guess the main thing is to clarify with the person you're discussing what length of a meet you are both looking for!

S x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, most people would assume 'accommodate' means just using their place to play, not actually accomodating overnight.

It might happen sometimes, and might be pre-arranged if traveling etc, but I think the assumption would be that the people coming to the others house were going to leave after the fun.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I see people list they can accommodate, but it turns out their idea of accommodating is the couple of hours whilst their flat mate is out.

"

Yes I've had that a couple of times, but I do NOT like to be hurried so at the least I want a whole evening, and a whole weekend if we get on well enough!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just a word of caution on sleep-over accommodating.

We once went to a couples house out in the sticks, agreed beforehand to stay over. We all had a few drinks, wine, prosecco etc.

As the night progressed, it all started to turn a bit weird. We would have made our excuses and left. But, we had had more to drink than legally drive. So were stuck... We didn't let play start, but being stuck there was 'Awkwarrrd...'

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Just a word of caution on sleep-over accommodating.

We once went to a couples house out in the sticks, agreed beforehand to stay over. We all had a few drinks, wine, prosecco etc.

As the night progressed, it all started to turn a bit weird. We would have made our excuses and left. But, we had had more to drink than legally drive. So were stuck... We didn't let play start, but being stuck there was 'Awkwarrrd...' "

I stopped accommodating for similar reasons.

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