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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem?" nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters  | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem? nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters "ive set filters so i dont get messages any more but it only seems to be guys and TV that view or fab ect, i know im not every womans type but i seem to be putting all the women off | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem? nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters
ive set filters so i dont get messages any more but it only seems to be guys and TV that view or fab ect, i know im not every womans type but i seem to be putting all the women off "change your username then....its awful  | |||
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"Have the user name Harddick and it will attract a lot of guys that like hard dick. " silly me thinking that it was just straight women who like hard dick lol fair point | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem?" Because this site has blokes of all persuasions (some more honest and open about it than others) and there's more of them than there are women. Also men tend to want to get their rocks off more and perhaps with a little less discernment. All of the above is my opinion. Others may see it differently. Until they make a straight only Fabswingers.com, you'll have to accept your lot. I wouldn't join it if there was one. | |||
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You've done the right thing blocking men but given the numbers on here it's true of lots of people that most views come from men. And they won't know you're straight unless they look. Chicken & egg! | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem? nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters
ive set filters so i dont get messages any more but it only seems to be guys and TV that view or fab ect, i know im not every womans type but i seem to be putting all the women off
change your username then....its awful "didnt know i could do that, not liked my user name since day one but i picked it before i knew what the site was about :-s | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem? nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters
ive set filters so i dont get messages any more but it only seems to be guys and TV that view or fab ect, i know im not every womans type but i seem to be putting all the women off
change your username then....its awful "How about StraightHardDick? But you might just get blokes that dislike curvature. | |||
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"It's the username and gay-friendly cock pics on your gallery!
You've done the right thing blocking men but given the numbers on here it's true of lots of people that most views come from men. And they won't know you're straight unless they look. Chicken & egg! " | |||
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"Have the user name Harddick and it will attract a lot of guys that like hard dick. silly me thinking that it was just straight women who like hard dick lol fair point" you do realise this is mainly a swingers site, rather than just a sex site? most women, straight or not, would be put off by that name ... try something a little less 'in your face' and then hope they don't get put off by all the cock pics  | |||
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"Have the user name Harddick and it will attract a lot of guys that like hard dick. silly me thinking that it was just straight women who like hard dick lol fair point you do realise this is mainly a swingers site, rather than just a sex site? most women, straight or not, would be put off by that name ... try something a little less 'in your face' and then hope they don't get put off by all the cock pics " | |||
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"Have the user name Harddick and it will attract a lot of guys that like hard dick. silly me thinking that it was just straight women who like hard dick lol fair point" | |||
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"i am a straight guy on here to enjoy pictures, chat to some lovely women and maybe meet up if we both seem keen but i only seem to get likes and views (and before i blocked them messages) from guys. what am i doing wrong and does anyone else have this problem? nothing...anyone can look at your profile.. if you don't want messages, try setting your filters
ive set filters so i dont get messages any more but it only seems to be guys and TV that view or fab ect, i know im not every womans type but i seem to be putting all the women off
change your username then....its awful "why is it awful? | |||
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"username changed cock pics hidden and village people moustache no longer profile picture, thanks for the advice so far ill try and take the rest of it on board, made my profile before i new what fab was like, ill try to make the other changes soon. thanks ladies and gents very helpful "good luck.. its good to see someone who actually acts on the advice given, rather than ignoring it and starting a new thread 3 weeks later asking the same question  | |||
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"username changed cock pics hidden and village people moustache no longer profile picture, thanks for the advice so far ill try and take the rest of it on board, made my profile before i new what fab was like, ill try to make the other changes soon. thanks ladies and gents very helpful
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its good to see someone who actually acts on the advice given, rather than ignoring it and starting a new thread 3 weeks later asking the same question "the advice made sense to me so i would be silly not to listen, didnt start this thread for attention i did it to get help, which i got alot of thank you | |||
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"username changed cock pics hidden and village people moustache no longer profile picture, thanks for the advice so far ill try and take the rest of it on board, made my profile before i new what fab was like, ill try to make the other changes soon. thanks ladies and gents very helpful
good luck..
its good to see someone who actually acts on the advice given, rather than ignoring it and starting a new thread 3 weeks later asking the same question
the advice made sense to me so i would be silly not to listen, didnt start this thread for attention i did it to get help, which i got alot of thank you "OP you come across as a nice guy. Once you get your profile sorted out don't disapper from the forums. It's fun in here and can be useful to get yourself known amongst some of the swinging community (although only a small percentage of members come on here). If you are able try to get to organised social events too and clubs if you can. All of this can help you get known as one of the good guys. | |||
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"username changed cock pics hidden and village people moustache no longer profile picture, thanks for the advice so far ill try and take the rest of it on board, made my profile before i new what fab was like, ill try to make the other changes soon. thanks ladies and gents very helpful
good luck..
its good to see someone who actually acts on the advice given, rather than ignoring it and starting a new thread 3 weeks later asking the same question
the advice made sense to me so i would be silly not to listen, didnt start this thread for attention i did it to get help, which i got alot of thank you
OP you come across as a nice guy. Once you get your profile sorted out don't disapper from the forums. It's fun in here and can be useful to get yourself known amongst some of the swinging community (although only a small percentage of members come on here). If you are able try to get to organised social events too and clubs if you can.
All of this can help you get known as one of the good guys. "thanks and i will stay on the forums there alot of fun and it doesnt matter if its only a small percentage because most people i see on the forums are really nice so it seems to filter out the arseholes lol | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...  "lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...
lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance "Think of it this way ..... you're on a night out with you mates and during the course of the evening you all venture into the local gay bar to soak up the vibe..... how you gonna feel if you're the only one in you gang that doesn't get hit on !!! Eh ? | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...
lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance
Think of it this way ..... you're on a night out with you mates and during the course of the evening you all venture into the local gay bar to soak up the vibe..... how you gonna feel if you're the only one in you gang that doesn't get hit on !!! Eh ? "wise words soxy lol | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...
lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance "Just so you know, there is a function on the site that enables you to not show up on the who looked at me page. A lot of people do use it to prevent getting messages like "hi, you looked at my profile. Wanna fuck?" There could be hundreds of lovely ladies and couples visiting your profile and you will not know they have | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...
lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance
Think of it this way ..... you're on a night out with you mates and during the course of the evening you all venture into the local gay bar to soak up the vibe..... how you gonna feel if you're the only one in you gang that doesn't get hit on !!! Eh ?
wise words soxy lol "Wise words from Sox would be, never take what Sox says seriously...... | |||
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"The time to worry is when guys stop looking at you ...
lol got nothing against getting a little attention but it was all men no women so just looking for ways to shift the balance
Just so you know, there is a function on the site that enables you to not show up on the who looked at me page. A lot of people do use it to prevent getting messages like "hi, you looked at my profile. Wanna fuck?"
There could be hundreds of lovely ladies and couples visiting your profile and you will not know they have "thats both re-assuring and creepy at the same time lol thanks | |||
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