FabSwingers.com forum: How many is to many

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One more than us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met nobody yet I must be a saint lol

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Burgess Hill & Birmingham

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

Do as many as you feel like. This is a swingers site after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount is too many for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you."

This!

Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

message them back and tell them its none of their fecking business...

its totally up to you how many people you meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

message them back and tell them its none of their fecking business...

Thanks x x

its totally up to you how many people you meet"

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

When you think it's too many?

It's nobody else's business!

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's defined by the opinion of others like. It's about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go through the whole site lol.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.

Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

The idea of the quantity of sexual partners being an issue on a swingers' site seems ridiculous to me. However, the frequency with which a person/couple has meets is something that I pick up on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.

Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!

Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conforming is for the boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.

Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!

Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha "

Its jim beam lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no upper limit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did a van meet.this week and and had 18 guys turn up and arrend and I think thats what there getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did a van meet.this week and and had 18 guys turn up and arrend and I think thats what there getting at"

you know when you just like someone right off the bat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.

Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!

Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha

Its jim beam lol

Damn im good.. or an alcoholic... cant decide which!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has any one notixed she dose these meets behi d her fellers back whay he is away working on Oil rigs. Poor block and seems to be a lot of bareback too

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

If you're getting grief OP just block and delete. No one else's business how many you meet. And frankly if people assume a list of veris displays a persons sexual past they are delluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want to do. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She had about verifaction for the same night I tou seen what she puts in her fanny I bet it any thing but tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one notixed she dose these meets behi d her fellers back whay he is away working on Oil rigs. Poor block and seems to be a lot of bareback too"

If you dont like it there is no need to be so rude or so personal about her, its against forum rules to do so anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I was just thinking about if it was me. And my.wife was doing it..sorry.again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only too many when YOU think its too many xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want darling and balls to the rest it's your life live it how you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

Ignore the messages, they are probably just jealous.

I might not want to meet someone with more than 5 veri's. Doesn't matter what I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's fun, do it, if it's not, don't.

Don't worry about what others think, there are people on here that probably still believe you go blind if you have a wank.

Enjoy yourself, fill ya boots, or should that be fill ya...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months."

Obviously in my opinion,I just wonder where people get the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy it then do it. No number is too many I wish I have had as much naughty fun as you xx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

As long as it's not getting in the way of work, family, friends....then it's really not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months."

18 turned up one night. So the veri's could be from just 2 nights.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months.

18 turned up one night. So the veri's could be from just 2 nights.

Gosh that's one busy night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

Stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your life. Live it how you want. Find people who enjoy the same as you and don't judge on numbers.

Personally, I'm not a fan of .

but that's my opinion, it means nothing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So many people keen to tell others they're wrong for the way they live their life. If you're not hurting anyone (including yourself) carry on and enjoy. You're a long time gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you.

This!

Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here. "

Or who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask hubby

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Ask hubby"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask hubby"

There's always one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did a van meet.this week and and had 18 guys turn up and arrend and I think thats what there getting at"

Bet number 18 sounded like he was walking in wellies half full of water JOKES. congratulations on the bottle that's impressive and a good skill if you want to go into the moving of dodgy goods through customs

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

Its if you are happy not what others think isn't it? Everyone will come up with a different number for this but it doesn't really matter as its your own opinion that counts.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you.

This!

Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask hubby

There's always one....

Entitled to my input on an open forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask hubby

There's always one....

Entitled to my input on an open forum"

Must be your husband you've verified 9 times then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry what others do unless it affects you and yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I was poorly I was averaging 2-3 a week. Perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

There is no set number. You could meet one a day, it's your body, your decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My hubby gies away for 3 minths at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hubby gies away for 3 minths at a time."

If it's what you enjoy doing, no words from any here can tell you if it's right or wrong.

Carry on enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he gets home how do you know your ok with all that different cum you have had in you.

Dose he even know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get checked and as I say he is away 3 months at a time and only hime for 2 weeks so I have needs. I love sex I love dirty sex... and love meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

Funny the number of prudes you get in the swinging scene.

Get people being prudish over number or partners...

People being prudish over Bi guys...

If you are happy with what you are doing, then go for it, no number too high.

IMHO

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Like it or lump it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When he gets home how do you know your ok with all that different cum you have had in you.

Dose he even know"

Why do you care it's none of your business really.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

Do as many as you feel like. This is a swingers site after all. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious question though 18 men in one go. What if one.of them had a serious Sti like hiv

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you.

This!

Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here. "

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By *iwynMan
over a year ago

north wales

There's no such thing as to much, only what's enough to keep you happy.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"So many people keen to tell others they're wrong for the way they live their life. If you're not hurting anyone (including yourself) carry on and enjoy. You're a long time gone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

What you do is your business and nobody else's, but I think you're getting a totally different response than a male would get if he'd had your volume of meets in the timescale and posted the same question.

I'll stick my neck out and say that personally because of my views on promiscuity and bareback I think yes you have too many veris, and I wouldn't engage with any man who'd met you. But we play very differently, my opinion is irrelevant and I certainly wouldn't dream of messaging you or anyone else with insults.

Do what you want, but don't expect everyone to like or agree with it. And being tested regularly is like shutting the stable door when the horse has bolted...you're incredibly naive if you think it offers you any kind of protection from risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5000!! yeah wld consider that too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Person doing bareback gangbangs that gets tested regularly.. person fucking strangers every week with condoms but never gets tested...

Obviously only one of these people is at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should bring your van up to Blackpool for the bank holiday.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "

You have had too many meets when you have no enthusiasm for the next meet.

Nobody has the right to tell you that you have had too many meets it is your choice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No limits, other than your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about what your husband would think

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

"What about what your husband would think"

You need to seriously give it a rest now mate.

You keep going on at her about it.

It's her choice. Accept it and move on.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Whatever keeps you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about what your husband would think

You need to seriously give it a rest now mate.

You keep going on at her about it.

It's her choice. Accept it and move on."

Agreed. Get a fucking grip, it's embarrassing

Ruby

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"What about what your husband would think

You need to seriously give it a rest now mate.

You keep going on at her about it.

It's her choice. Accept it and move on.

Agreed. Get a fucking grip, it's embarrassing

Ruby"

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though) "

Why would she need sex toys?

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

Why would she need sex toys?"

She has a van full of sex toys, all shapes and sizes I bet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

Why would she need sex toys?"

So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

Why would she need sex toys?

So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass? "

Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He has no idea I am on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

Why would she need sex toys?

So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass?

Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney) "

Confused where the OP mentions glass toys. Or if the comment inferred she should use toys instead of meeting men in a van.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.

(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)

Why would she need sex toys?

So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass?

Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney)

Confused where the OP mentions glass toys. Or if the comment inferred she should use toys instead of meeting men in a van. "

Think it's referring to the whiskey bottle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just like getting things up rhere should not go up there

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

Totally agree with you on this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I have too many veri's? and it puts some off which seems ridiculous to me, especially as most are repeat meets with the same ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet who you like. Play how you like. Personally the bareback aspect would mean we wouldn't meet you but thats just our choice and we try not to meet those cheating too

Both of us had many verifications on our singles profiles and got told sometimes it was to many. We have also played with many that havent verified us too. So do what you are happy with.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many

Totally agree with you on this ."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask hubby

There's always one....

Entitled to my input on an open forum"

Yep you are even if it's a dig.

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By *opblokey2kMan
over a year ago

thetford

Just enjoy! If it suits you and those who want to meet you then it's all good! Life is about choice.

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

Suppose im lucky being bi . Yes I meet lots of men for sex . But as most are str8 or in a relationship they don't verify so it looks like iv only met a few ppl .

I'm 60yo bin having sex for over 40years . I've met hundreds of ppl . So what . I still get checked out every two month . I know im clean. When did you last get checked out. You can never have enough and anyway im still looking to try new things .

I will carry on having sex with strangers till I fund Mr perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the numbers keep growing if you worked in a bank thay would love how quick you can I increase the figures pmsl

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