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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm truly still amazed at how many people think it's normal or appealing to have a filthy/ messy etc background in their pictures. Surely I can't be the only person to notices? Aren't pictures on an online site not one of the biggest opening impressions we give about ourselves?

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

A picture speaks a thousand words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my pet hates too. I nearly always look at the surroundings in a picture, it can say so much about the person in it x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I must admit it does put me off.

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By *hadow_MoonMan
over a year ago

St Columb Major, Cornwall

So true x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of my pet hates too. I nearly always look at the surroundings in a picture, it can say so much about the person in it x"

I think so to.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I don't tidy for a picture, that's what the cropping tool is for.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I look at the backgrounds and zoom in to see smoking paraphernalia on non smokers, American plug sockets on an alleged place in Portsmouth, family photos, kids toys, beers cans in overflowing bins. You name it - they grub around in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the plus side. .at least they are honest pics. I guess what you see is what you get. ..and people are always going on about how important honesty is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the plus side. .at least they are honest pics. I guess what you see is what you get. ..and people are always going on about how important honesty is. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get rid of the mess by sticking pictures car, balloon, art gallery, fireplace mirror etc, backgrounds in my pictures instead or just use lighting and vignettes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the plus side. .at least they are honest pics. I guess what you see is what you get. ..and people are always going on about how important honesty is. "

Very true. In equal measures though it's not just mess, I also detest the cock shot next to a beer can or sky remote. Also non appealing in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when the lady has a filthy house and piss stained 7 year old unchained bed covers! Even better if they have take away boxes everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at the backgrounds and zoom in to see smoking paraphernalia on non smokers, American plug sockets on an alleged place in Portsmouth, family photos, kids toys, beers cans in overflowing bins. You name it - they grub around in it. "

A picture paints a thousand words!

I like to look at fingernails and toes....dirty? Ewwww

Above few items of clothing on the floor is fine, but as others have said, a grimy background can reveal a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when the lady has a filthy house and piss stained 7 year old unchained bed covers! Even better if they have take away boxes everywhere! "

Keep talking man, this is getting me places I've never been !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes I definitely agree OP!

I was taking a few pics the other day and managed one I actually liked and then realised my bloomin slippers and bedside table were in it so couldn't put it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I definitely agree OP!

I was taking a few pics the other day and managed one I actually liked and then realised my bloomin slippers and bedside table were in it so couldn't put it on here "
what was on your bedside table!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when the lady has a filthy house and piss stained 7 year old unchained bed covers! Even better if they have take away boxes everywhere! "

Euwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I definitely agree OP!

I was taking a few pics the other day and managed one I actually liked and then realised my bloomin slippers and bedside table were in it so couldn't put it on here what was on your bedside table!!!!"

All sorts!! Candles, nail polish, lube, water......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I definitely agree OP!

I was taking a few pics the other day and managed one I actually liked and then realised my bloomin slippers and bedside table were in it so couldn't put it on here what was on your bedside table!!!!

All sorts!! Candles, nail polish, lube, water...... "

Heinous....how did you manage to get a membership! You're worse than the no sheets tide mark mattress crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could imagine that there are items on the bedside table that would have many of the more weirder elements of the site in raptures !! Probably the ones who are in the stained sheet, takeaway boxes, clothes covered floor, beer can sizing type of member....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stops me from chatting to them if they have filth about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at the backgrounds and zoom in to see smoking paraphernalia on non smokers, American plug sockets on an alleged place in Portsmouth, family photos, kids toys, beers cans in overflowing bins. You name it - they grub around in it. "

Wow, touch of the OCD's.Made us both laugh.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Cock shots next to an unflushed toilet are always a good look!

Been a few like that over the years.

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By *rmrseptemberCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Cock shots next to an unflushed toilet are always a good look!

Been a few like that over the years. "

Haha I was just going to mention that one! 'Right live just had a piss and now for a nice cock shot for all my fab friends' lol!

Another one is seeing Backgrounds where they are clearly kids bedrooms. The kids have been packed off for the night and their room is being used as some kind of sex denn While they are away. Just doesn't sit right with me.

Hotel rooms are always a good backdrop, they are usually tidy (when you first arrive at least! ) and have neutral decor and can be good for some great pics.

Righto, I'm off for piss and to take a pic of me knob while I'm there

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


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Righto, I'm off for piss and to take a pic of me knob while I'm there "

My fab button is at the ready bro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I prefer a raw pic like a pic the was a spare of the.moment and not planned.

Don't get me wrong pics where people are dressed up ECT and have made a real effort are good but I'd prefer to see a real pic if you get what i mean

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm truly still amazed at how many people think it's normal or appealing to have a filthy/ messy etc background in their pictures. Surely I can't be the only person to notices? Aren't pictures on an online site not one of the biggest opening impressions we give about ourselves? "

Are you saying that a naturally untidy person should create a picture that isn't really them?

Just block them as part of the filtering process..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm truly still amazed at how many people think it's normal or appealing to have a filthy/ messy etc background in their pictures. Surely I can't be the only person to notices? Aren't pictures on an online site not one of the biggest opening impressions we give about ourselves? "

Unfortunately not everyone has this as their first thought....

I admit when I first joined with hubby on our couples profile ours weren't fantastic but you live and learn I guess.

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